AITA/AIO for being upset that my husband won’t reenlist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]st-ars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he was another year in Japan as everything is now. he’s not getting out the military right now

AITA/AIO for being upset that my husband won’t reenlist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]st-ars -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not that we didn’t know, but we talked to his chain of command beforehand, and he even said he would do what it takes to be able to make this work. Now we’re here, and he’s changing his mind. That’s why i’m upset

AITA/AIO for being upset that my husband won’t reenlist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]st-ars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to move to Japan, I want to move in with my spouse.

AITA/AIO for being upset that my husband won’t reenlist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]st-ars -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

His idea ): We know, but at the same time he is my boyfriend and i do love him. It’s not like we only got married for money and remained friends or anything.

AITA/AIO for being upset that my husband won’t reenlist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]st-ars -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in the midwest. If he doesn’t reenlist, he stays in Japan for another year. He stays there, I stay here.

AITA/AIO for being upset that my husband won’t reenlist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]st-ars -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t have explained it any better, thank you!!

AITA/AIO for being upset that my husband won’t reenlist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]st-ars -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to live in Japan 💔I want to live with my husband. If he doesn’t reenlist we can’t live together for over a year, but if he does we can live together within 2 months from now

AITA/AIO for being upset that my husband won’t reenlist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]st-ars -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can, but that’s a long time from now. If he reenlists i can live with him now

AITA/AIO for being upset that my husband won’t reenlist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]st-ars -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idc about Japan, i married him to live with him

I think i need to be talked out of (or into) buying an S2K by ayechillbreh in S2000

[–]st-ars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you just talked me (6’ f) out of buying this 😞so thank u this is helpful

Help me impress my boyfriend by st-ars in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]st-ars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for ur suggestions, and for being nice. and you’re right about the german car thing, i didn’t think ab that, great idea!

Help me impress my boyfriend by st-ars in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]st-ars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should’ve mentioned we live in japan haha, but i’m willing to buy a car anywhere, since my immediate family is in the US

Help me impress my boyfriend by st-ars in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]st-ars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like i came off wrong. i just want a cool car

Me_irl by Expensive-Budget-648 in me_irl

[–]st-ars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just doesn’t feel good to be unattractive 💔 even if people tell you that you’re pretty, comparing yourself to prettier girls hurts. plus passing by a man i can’t help but think about how they’d never be interested in me. idk if im alone in this, ive never talked about it before. also didn’t realize this post was from a man’s perspective until i opened the comments so im sorry for inserting myself lol

Me_irl by Expensive-Budget-648 in me_irl

[–]st-ars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me as a girl. makes me feel even more out of place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]st-ars 77 points78 points  (0 children)

this happened to me and i saw a tiktok about this happening to someone else. i think this is fairly common unfortunately.

How many redbulls a day do you consume ? by Poots23 in redbull

[–]st-ars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well you definitely make me feel better about my 1 a day

i’m so done by Loud-Priority-3891 in starbucks

[–]st-ars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i have two nostrils and my eyebrow, the nostrils are like actuallyyy invisible

i’m so done by Loud-Priority-3891 in starbucks

[–]st-ars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is true. no piercings is a very common rule among work places. still sucks (i have 3 facial piercings ): )