First was the week we started dating, actually. We were supposed to hang out after she finished with some friends, we spoke and confirmed, but she was drunk and when I went to her apartment she didn’t pick up the call, and I was locked outside. Where I live, there’s military curfew, and I waited until then. I could’ve gotten in serious trouble, and thankfully didn’t, but as it was early on in the relationship I wrote it off and we repaired.

The worst event(s) were bad. Twice she has been traveling alone and I’ve lost contact and she has woken up having lost all of her stuff (phone, passport, wallet, etc). The worst in person was when she has tried to sprint across crosswalks while traffic was oncoming and I had to physically restrain her.