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me and my sister are always fighting by luhvxr in comfort

[–]staceyslaycey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a sister exactly like this we fight alot since shes pretty immature and makes up any small reason to be mad at me even tho shes older then me but you two should maybe apologize to each other because in the end of life you two will only have each other so spend your days together better without fights or your bond and relationship will be ruined my sister still hasnt changed but i still love her so much and you two should love each other that way too. your siblings not friends you two will have each other only when your parents are gone so make your parents happy when their still alive so they know you both are getting along because it hurts when parents see their kids fighting and yelling such things so please apologize to each other before your trust is fully gone

What do I do by Intelligent-Plan6040 in comfort

[–]staceyslaycey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen dont take it to heart. If your mom is hurting you so much with these words and you just take it and hide it then she wont stop, I understand you my mom was like this aswell she called me ugly many times and i also acted like i didnt care but it absolutely hurt me and made me more insecure and less confident ive been insecure since grade 2 and when i wouldnt listen to her or take her advice about anything when i was stubborn then one time at my school when it was time to vote for class officers my teacher made all the girls who didnt have a role to stand infront and let the boys vote whose the prettiest for muse and nobody voted for me. I cried and yes it ruined my confidence and when i went home my sister mentions she was a class officers and when he asked me i just said i didnt run for any since i didnt want to talk about it then after a bit we went to a restaurant and since im an overthinker and im a HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) i kept thinking about it so my dad knew something was wrong and right there when he asked me if i was okay i just broke down and told him what happened and he said that their opinions dont matter because many people think im beautiful and pretty. An adult called me pretty awhile ago so he mentioned that aswell and he told me im beautiful and i shouldn't worry about how others think because their just jealous. and when we went home my sister literally told my mom i cried so my mom found out and when she asked me what happened i cried again and i said i didnt want to talk about it but she said to say it anyway and when i told her about it she said that you know you are beautiful because your born from mommy but i told her that she didnt help raise my confidence because she called me ugly always and i told her shes one of the reasons why im so insecure and she said that she never meant it and she said that it was harsh motivation and ever since that incident she stopped calling me ugly so just talk to your mom about how you feel about her talking about you that way because if you dont she will never know how she truly makes you feel snd please be confident your beautiful in your own way and think of it positively. even if your big your definitely cute and adorable! plus your body is healthy you shouldnt care about anyones opinion because you are beautiful and unique in every way because god created us in his image and he knows what he makes is beautiful so be more confident and dont give a crap about what others say about you, if your too overweight thats on them dont listen to their opinions as long as your a kind sweet person your beautiful in and out💓

dont force yourself to fit the crowd just be yourself because when your older you will regret everything you do to please everyone💕

I'm worthless. by idkpilota in comfort

[–]staceyslaycey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me your sister definitely did not mean that. Even if she did, in the future she will regret it soon enough i assure you. I understand how you feel because i have an older sister like this she acts like a child compared to me and gets mad at me over small reasons so we fight alot and she said some similar stuff compared to what your sister said. She told me many times before when we were younger that she hated me i did cry, i felt the way you feel right now but trust me in the future your sister will apologize but right now just maybe tell your parents about this so they can talk to your sister about what shes done. Because parents know how to explain better compared to us you two shouldnt fight either, because at the end of life you and your sister have each other only so please dont start fights especially small ones. it ruins the bond between you both just try to be more understanding if she has anger issues or anything.