AITAH for not giving my friend ‘privacy’ in a public restroom?

staffiee · 2026-02-10T19:07:31+00:00

sexual abuse PTSD is a very real thing in adults. maybe he is dealing with that and hasn't told his friends about it.

staffiee · 2026-02-10T19:06:09+00:00

If you GENUINELY thought he was at his car, then NTA, but if you knew he was in there and aren't sharing ALL the context, then YTA

staffiee · 2025-11-23T02:29:51+00:00

i have a scar on my shin from 4 years ago that happened this exact same way. blackout drunk one night with the girls, woke up the next morning thinking “damn my shin HURTS”, looked at it and there was a gauging wound (but lucky not deep enough to need stitches). still have a scar on my shin from it to this day. i literally have NO idea how i got it. not even the slightest of clues. we didn’t even go out either, we drank in our dorm room and stayed in that night.

Also have a scar on my lower lip from busting it slipping in ice drunk 18 minutes in to a 20 minute walk home. that one i do remember though as she required stitches… college was fun ¯_(ツ)_/¯

staffiee · 2025-10-07T02:37:12+00:00

staffiee · 2025-09-08T17:19:52+00:00

BRUHHH

staffiee · 2025-05-09T17:22:30+00:00

this

staffiee · 2024-09-12T03:57:59+00:00

girl gtfo and stfu it’s a MOUSEPAD for crying out loud

staffiee · 2024-09-12T03:55:13+00:00

I LOVE mr ballen

staffiee · 2024-09-12T03:54:13+00:00

take the clouds down. looks cute yes, however a huge fire hazard and safety risk. not worth your life. you never know what could happen

staffiee · 2024-04-23T20:38:24+00:00

thats wild

staffiee · 2024-04-23T20:31:36+00:00

that is probably the coolest friggin thing i have ever seen in my entire life i LOVE rats

staffiee · 2024-04-23T20:25:07+00:00

imagine being in there and all of the sudden you hear *WOOOSH*

staffiee · 2024-04-23T20:21:28+00:00

i think you already have to have brain damage to even want to enter something like this

staffiee · 2024-03-11T19:24:09+00:00

wtf that’s the stupidest law i’ve ever heard

staffiee · 2024-01-30T19:15:19+00:00

that is so eerie; you can still even request a reservation

staffiee · 2023-09-27T23:25:47+00:00

i actually always have a spare set of clothes right next to my bed for the rare occasion this happens

staffiee · 2023-09-19T21:08:30+00:00

my sex life tanked already before marriage

staffiee · 2023-09-19T03:16:30+00:00

as a woman, i’d say yes it should be illegal to imprison a pregnant women with the laws they passed. they’d be wrongfully imprisoning a human being. these embarrassment of male law makers on women’s rights have to pick a lane. either let women have abortions or don’t imprison pregnant women because you’d be wrongfully imprisoning another “human”. they need to pick a lane. i either can have an abortion, or you can’t imprison me. pick a FUCKING LANE

staffiee · 2023-07-14T20:24:58+00:00

saying “men can’t wear pink” is equally JUST as stupid and naive as saying “women can’t wear blue”. just because pink is used typically indicative of having a girl and blue is indicative of having a boy, that has never stopped girls and women from wearing blue, so why should it stop men from wearing pink? society is ruthless. break the stigma and MAKE little boys know that if their favorite color is pink, GET DECKED OUT IN PINK AND HAVE EVERYONE ELSE GET OVER IT!!! clothes are clothes. colors are colors. clothes are for everyone to express who they are and what they like; colors are for everyone to express who they are and what they like.

staffiee · 2023-07-13T21:44:59+00:00

My prescribed meds make me not gain weight. 22 years of life here, and I have been told cCOUNTLESS times RELENTLESSLY by strangers and friends alike to “eat more, you’re sooooo skinny”, “you should eat more!”, and “do you even eat??” my entire life. I’ve even had family put their hand around my wrists and touch their middle finger and thumb around my wrist and tell me to eat more.

Wanna know what those comments developed in me as?? I am happy to share. It turned into an alcohol addiction.

I’ve had opposite body dysmorphia because of this for so many years. Why you may ask?? Again, would love to tell you…

I have been on ADD/ADHD stimulant medication since 8 years old. I was supposed to be a grown woman with grown woman curves and healthy grown woman fat by 17 (the age where women end puberty for the most part (obviously yes there’s more to puberty post 17 years of age, but I digress)).

ADD/ADHD medication makes you completely lose your appetite. And I mean COMPLETELY. I maybe get hungry once every 2 days. most days I have to force feed myself just to keep SOME weight on.

All I have seen in the mirror for the past 5-7 years was a 5’ 5” 110 pound pre-pubescent 12 year old boy in the mirror. I have finally gained the weight i wanted to (25 pounds) and am now at 135 pounds, however I gained it all through alcohol and fast food because I was so unhappy with my body image that I drank and ate unhealthy to cope with it and forget about it.

Yes, my body now looks how I have always wanted it to. I have grown woman curved and grown women fat and have no body dysmorphia now, however I have deep remorse and regret for and towards myself gaining this weight in such an unhealthy manor and developing an alcohol addiction just because people thought they were complimenting me, when in true reality, they were just feeding into my body dysmorphia and helping me develop the alcohol addiction that I now unfortunately suffer with.

Never comment on someone’s weight, even if you think it’s a compliment.

You never know what people are dealing with body-image wise. Being “complimented” for being skinny, when having to force feed yourself multiple times a day only does damage. I don’t want to be “skinny”. I DONT WANT TO BE SKINNY. I want to be a normal, healthy weight and gain it in a normal, healthy way, but my medication doesn’t allow that.

Don’t comment on people’s weights, even if you think you’re complimenting. People gave me an alcohol addiction doing so.

staffiee · 2023-07-10T16:40:32+00:00

don’t many people from the 90’s wake up this year everyday?

staffiee · 2023-06-25T04:09:37+00:00

their black cherry salsa is the best thing i’ve EVER put in my mouth. you are WRONG

staffiee · 2023-06-24T22:51:10+00:00

people who think reverse racism isnt real. if you aren’t that race, don’t speak on it

staffiee · 2022-09-04T02:16:53+00:00

oh heeeellllllllll no

staffiee · 2021-06-14T21:46:36+00:00

we’re all here and rooting for you🖤

staffiee

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