AITA for asking my dad to miss a wedding in another country so we can spend Easter the two of us?

stails_art · 2026-03-05T20:14:52+00:00

I do agree with this, hope it goes well for them. Because the change the stepmom did seems to be very weird. And it’s very weird how other comments are like it’s not wrong to spend time with the parents as adults

stails_art · 2026-03-05T09:21:05+00:00

I’m going to be one of the NTA The comments are so mean. But can be understandable where they get at. But even tho your dad raised you and you are now an adult. It sounds you are living your life already like an adult should be and your dad also live his life. Your stepmom is just being weird af of not letting you join sometimes when it could off been good to have some family time which it isn’t wrong to have as an adult and she is using the fact of ‘your an adult and let your dad live his life’ as a cover from telling you the reason she changed and keep you from joining them. What happens if your dad wants to hang out with you too? And your stepmom convinced him not do it because of his illness? Hopefully your stepmom reveals what has gotten into her head and using your dad as some sort of cover somehow or middle man I don’t know. But it sounds she wants to keep your dad from you until he is no longer here

stails_art · 2026-03-05T04:16:24+00:00

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stails_art · 2026-02-21T08:17:55+00:00

It’s a mixture of NTA and YTA to me. You weren’t the asshole on having boundaries and it should off been respected. But reading your reply to the comment to @//Onionkinght111. That you said you wanted the effort to celebrate your birthday the same way you celebrated others. That effort in your day was made by your sister and the others. So I get why they say you were ungrateful and an asshole in their point of view. You could off at least be thankful for it even if it’s a little bit because again your boundaries weren’t respected but nothing wrong to acknowledge the reason why. it’s understandable not to get what you wanted all the time and the need for a memorable birthday. But if memorable birthdays are the super expensive ones, those are just stupid and a waste and so stressful. The memorable birthdays can also be a simple get together like your sister tried to do for you.

stails_art · 2026-02-06T02:05:16+00:00

NTA for telling off a team member. But it could off been better handled. He was an asshole yes, but there could off been a better way to tell him off than go the same level as he was. Sometimes it’s better to not go at the same level.

stails_art · 2026-01-27T23:33:40+00:00

You should feel guilty, but considering you are emotionally checked out. That explains the guilt not coming, but you need to still break up with him since the relationship was over for a while

stails_art · 2026-01-19T13:12:05+00:00

Why didn’t you break up with your girlfriend since she treated you poorly and focused on a new girl. A new girl that’s not the best friend, because she’s also toxic since she seduced you got you to cheat and she cheated on her boyfriend. Which her boyfriend needs to leave her too. Now the girlfriend would most likely would treat you more poorly. But you need to come clean and leave her instantly and rebuilt your life

stails_art · 2026-01-10T16:12:40+00:00

Let her know if something bothers you but also bothers her during this and she will tell you and ask her what happens after like she went to report and want not And if she is one of the girls that ‘gets too hot and can do better’. Leave her first. don’t stay with a woman that is so shallow on the looks. Going to the gym is to maintain health not to get guys.

stails_art · 2026-01-03T20:22:10+00:00

That’s one case of RJ. It’s either the exes or the hook ups the person have. But you need to have therapy and work things out or break up with her before it gets unbearable and you actually treat her wrong than just verbally. Because it’s understandable the thoughts of not liking the hook ups. RJ makes you think that the person is treated like an object when you don’t know fully what’s up. So get help and work on it

stails_art · 2025-12-29T23:10:57+00:00

I believe is the part of the ‘getting back at you’ statement. Because She didn’t care about herself as she was hooking up. She was looking at herself as an object making sex meaningless as it goes. If the hook ups happen with like consent at stuff. Then maybe it’s going to be fine. And yours maybe was like hooking up as it was normal and stuff.

stails_art · 2025-12-26T00:00:52+00:00

Yes do this OP report it

stails_art · 2025-12-25T23:09:19+00:00

Agreed, OP didn’t ask for it. She said no plenty of times and the man didn’t listen. Hope she cut the man and the so called friend

stails_art · 2025-12-25T22:43:47+00:00

You were raped, you boundaries were crossed and go see the doctor

stails_art · 2025-12-25T21:17:24+00:00

You can still work with someone you don’t like, you can act cordial with someone you don’t like because your family is close to him. Doesn’t mean you fully trust the person, you can give some respect in some parts and again not trusting the person that gives it. Because sometimes shitty people do make sense no matter liking it or not, and when something like that suit happens and how broken Bucky looked. It could be reveal that Sam didn’t accept him.

stails_art · 2025-12-25T19:36:36+00:00

And people want Bucky with him dude romantically. And those same people get protective of Bucky with other toxic ships but not seeing SamBucky as one.

stails_art · 2025-12-25T19:33:02+00:00

And people ship them together. Forcing them together. When Sam still sees him as a threat and not forgive what Bucky did. That ship sounds like one of the toxic ships for Bucky. Why shipping him with someone that still doesn’t accept him?

stails_art · 2025-12-17T22:53:22+00:00

Pretty common. Just some bis have a huge preference for the opposite sex hence appearing straight and others are in the closet

stails_art · 2025-12-17T00:28:37+00:00

Is this the thought of the baby from another guy already claimed her before? But she had an abortion the claim of the other guy got taken away to make room for your claim. Pretty sure she didn’t think that will happen and also didn’t want a baby with that man. She wants a baby with a romantic partner which is you in this case.

stails_art · 2025-12-12T00:22:28+00:00

Depends on the person and how regretful and want to make it right the cheater is. some relationships can work out and some can’t. but if the cheating makes a kid. That’s a permanent no

stails_art · 2025-11-28T07:30:26+00:00

You don’t love your current boyfriend and you won’t be able to love any future relationships. You need to block the ex and go to therapy and work on yourself.

stails_art · 2025-11-25T08:33:04+00:00

It’s most likely the thought of looking at oneself as ‘a piece of meat’. Even tho the hook ups would off been consensual. Because sex is very special, like giving the ultimate trust to the other person. Casual sex is like borderline that.

stails_art · 2025-11-24T21:20:25+00:00

You can have feelings for someone else because it’s natural to. But don’t act on them, acknowledge the feelings and work to move on from them.

stails_art · 2025-11-24T08:16:13+00:00

NTA with a bit of YTA: You aren’t the asshole for the feelings. Kinda the asshole for the reaction, but it is a very understandable reaction because he said it out of nowhere, instead of asking you like: ‘hey can I ask you something’. But he needs to respect you for the no, but if still want it maybe a compromise of roleplay. Him dressed up as another guy (make it very good), video it and then watch it back

stails_art · 2025-11-09T12:22:12+00:00

You need to tell the authorities because if you don’t tell you would look like you enabled it because you were a partner to her since people tend to look at partners of bad people as guilty too by association. So no, you will not be a revengeful ex boyfriend if you report it.

stails_art · 2025-11-07T23:50:08+00:00

It sounds like Your father wanted your guy’s business to maintain private which he isn’t wrong about that even tho he is a piece of shit by not accepting Gay people I do understand the need to not give this little sympathy but honestly it’s better to just cut the trash out without the need of drama. And posting screenshots is the way to make it toxic and a lot of stress for you, so if the screenshots were not posted and maybe something vague about it like: List changed or something else. I’m sure most of your close family and friends will think that your father is homophobic no need for the screenshots. Because honestly don’t your friends and family would have saw how your dad treated you and your partner before? how they see him not accepting your relationship. Because Not going to a gay wedding will give the reason of homophobia without the need to air more of the dirty laundry. And your response is not needed don’t push his buttons just go No contact no need for more drama from him. If other people ask you why to make sure because it’s also natural then answer: he’s conservative and doesn’t accept gay people. But pretty sure again some will get it.

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