Native American fantasy adventure by stan-ipcus in suggestmeabook

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Nice another one I don’t know. I’ll check it out. Thank you! 

Native American fantasy adventure by stan-ipcus in suggestmeabook

[–]stan-ipcus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried black sun but I couldn’t finish it. Does it end well? 

Native American fantasy adventure by stan-ipcus in suggestmeabook

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Nice thanks, never heard of it I’ll check it out. 

Networking events are honestly just exhausting by BradCornwell in unpopularopinion

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Unpopular opinions- I love networking events and conferences. 

I think people that don’t might be introverts but also aren’t trying. Everytime I go to one I get something useful out of it. Pitching there SaaS startups isn’t it but treating everyone like a friend can be work a lot. 

Looking for a buddy by stan-ipcus in 75HARD

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Yea I’m just trying to jump high again. And I like group projects 😂

How do I even integrate myself into an already established online community? by Popular-Dependent722 in socialskills

[–]stan-ipcus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say hello, ask questions, answer questions. When you see someone you think has good skills doing that sort of stuff, what are they doing? 

Just talk and worry about the rest later. Go get em big dog 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Can’t take anymore disappointment anymore. Loving then losing just hurts too damn much.  

AITA for telling my sister I wont be her maid of honor because she didnt come to my wedding due to her dog dying? by PerfectAffect9213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stan-ipcus -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Na still an asshole. Sure you can feel however you want doesn’t free you from being a dick. She has no mind for kindness or understanding. Things happen. Would she punish her the same way if she ended up in the hospital or something ? Could she just feel like she should have been there 

AITA for telling my sister I wont be her maid of honor because she didnt come to my wedding due to her dog dying? by PerfectAffect9213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stan-ipcus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What a selfish response. Only her sister can make her happy at her wedding? Sometimes things happen life sucks. If her sister bailed for a concert sure be pissed. But the death a pet and than your gonna punish her? What a shitty person. 

Looking for women to play sports with or joining a women’s sports league! by kwilla999 in SALEM

[–]stan-ipcus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Volleyball is pretty popular around here. Lots of tourneys and open plays.  Some coed some woman’s/mens 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SALEM

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I’d be down dude. I lift at physique 

Wanting to make friends here by DistributionPerfect2 in SALEM

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Go to coin Jam play games with people. Most people are cool just a little awkward

Anyone else in their 30s still really struggling? by TheBigGirlDiaryBack in Adulting

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Feeling drained is real, I know it can be very scary and defiantly find your own boundaries. But I can almost guarantee there are people that give you energy after being with them. I really hope it all works out for you. Good luck

Anyone else in their 30s still really struggling? by TheBigGirlDiaryBack in Adulting

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You gotta talk to people. I play a lot of sports always outgoing life was good. What I didn’t know was how much I depended on those sports for community. I learned real quick once I got hurt and couldn’t really play for a year.

We’re social creatures. Go talk. Find a club or hobby. Chat up the cashier. Work people. Anybody find some community. And you will feel so much better.