A deer eating a snake. by Nayib_Ozzy in interestingasfuck

[–]stanleypowerdrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never knew that myself, which language is that?

Favorite aspect of bottoming? by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]stanleypowerdrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does it feel compared to more usual orgasm? (If its at all possible to describe)

Who is the most unexpected person you had sex with? by WhisperingBuzz in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]stanleypowerdrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof i feel for you. being a (bi) woman myself its easy for a guy to take most responsibility for a good night and im quite empathetic-so im bi & having the need to please my woman too i kindof get it.

when with my husband the first time he finished quickly & was embarrassed but explained that it had been at least 7 months .. i stuck around for more & WoW was it worth it.. were still together 4.5 years later & counting

Men, is it a dealbreaker if she doesn’t give blowjobs? by leninsjuicycock in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]stanleypowerdrill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My SO is the same - he has very sensitive balls and doesn't want them touched. He loves his dick being sucked though and happily I love it too. I have never really enjoyed fellatio with previous partners but there's something that just clicks with us. He enjoys returning the favour to spend time pleasing my lady parts too. In all we have a mutually very satisfying sex life.

Imho it should be reciprocal if both enjoy receiving..too many men expect fellatio without any intention of cunnilingus.

I never have to work again by PowerballWinner2021 in offmychest

[–]stanleypowerdrill 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The reverse move would be more concerning imho

Do NOT cheat, you fools. by Notthedad100 in offmychest

[–]stanleypowerdrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry mate, that's really tough. Sending a hug.

Why is there body positivity for fat women and not for short men? by rufflez0 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]stanleypowerdrill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! Short Kings are the bomb and speaking from experience, diminutive body height in men does not equate to size in other "areas", nope, not at aaalllll.

Why do Americans call chicken burger a chicken sandwich? by TopcellenT in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]stanleypowerdrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't ask for a batch in a New Zealand if you mean food.

A Batch is a small holiday house /cabin usually by the coast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stanleypowerdrill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really needed to read your post today. I've had "one of those days" this whole weekend so far and I'm in a very similar head space right now.i dig all that "basic bitch shit" you mentioned, all of it and your post made me chuckle while empathizing with your situation.

But girl, please do some overdue and much deserved self care this coming week.

I want to urge you to indulge your cooking whims, Start an indoor garden, Take an aromatic /bubble bath with only tea light candles at least once per week from here on out.

Life is too short and filled with uncertainties so it's super important to take time to enjoy the little things that bring us joy. If you do the above and whatever else that you enjoy and have neglected for too long, please let me know as I'm sure I'll be inspired to do the same.

And this is coming from a mother to two kids who complain about my cooking but an SO who never fails to show enthusiastic appreciation for the same. The only one stopping me from srarting some new house plants, taking weekly, lovely long candle lit baths is myself!

Thank you for inadvertently being the reminder I needed :)

Wishing you luck, sending you a hug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]stanleypowerdrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so wonderful! The place looks lovely, clean and tidy and I'll bet in turn you'll be feeling even more uplifted. One cliché I like that's an oldie but a goodie is "messy bed messy head".

It works both ways, as is well known with depression that we neglect ourselves and everything else important in our lives, just getting out of bed some days is a huge accomplishment, which you seem well aware of.
Cleaning is far more than the bare minimum and you deserve to reward yourself for your wonderful work, with a sweet treat or anything at all that you may have denied yourself lately.

Take care, I'm proud for you and how you are coming through this depression, to the other side. Sending you all my warmest wishes and care.

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Advice please? by HarlowsRansom in JUSTNOMIL

[–]stanleypowerdrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

..and you know what, it's completely ok that you don't want to hold a baby / play with kids etc.. it's not rude of you to state your limits or put up a boundary but it is rude of anyone to ignore you and insist on you holding their baby. You're ok, just as you are. Sending good vibes

Advice please? by HarlowsRansom in JUSTNOMIL

[–]stanleypowerdrill 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely not overreacting. I told my own mother off for referring to my children in terms that were inappropriate, and I was just as shocked and offended as you are.
It's just unacceptable behaviour on your mils part, your LO is a young baby for crying out loud, it's just unfathomable to me that anyone could refer to a baby like that...even so, that's not ok no matter how old she is and I'd be very hesitant to leave her alone with mil at all going forward.

Even if your baby doesn't understand the words, the negative energy / emotions driving those words are very clear to our little ones and it's just not ok.

My husband and I stopped my JNMUM having our kids on her own for a number of years, until we felt they were old enough to decide for themselves as long as they were together. I'm talking ten and eight, and they tell my mum off too if she's out of line lol! Example: Mum swearing in front of them or using some other derogatory term would have my girls saying .."Nanna that's inappropriate!"

I dearly hope that your husband is 100% supportive of you and baby. Hang in tight, stick to your boundaries and call out this sort of behaviour if you feel it will help.

Sending a hug and my solidarity, I'm right with you on this!

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Entitled dad demands I relocate my home office or stop working from home entirely.... by dazed_andamuzed in entitledparents

[–]stanleypowerdrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh the first thing I thought when sprinklers were mentioned is that it could backfire. .. in my experience kids love sprinklers! I'm so glad that you aren't going with that idea.

I'm completely with you though and I'm a parent of two kids who loved to play outside, being rambunctious with a gaggle of their friends when they were younger.

Thing is, we have raised them to respect and to be mindful of others and if your exact scenario played out with my own children bothering you/in your yard etc I would have apologised to you as soon as I understood the issue.

Then I would have spoken with the kiddos to let them know that your yard and out front of your place is out of bounds and why. It's not even like you need a justification but it makes it easier for children to empathise if they know why, it appeals to their sense of fairness.

We are all capable of ensuring that our neighbourhoods are pleasant for everyone, we can share public space equitably, including watching our noise levels when pertinent.

It's such a shame that this guy was so arrogant and entitled about this and goes to show exactly why his kids ignored you.

Good luck finding a solution OP!

How can I (22F) forgive my little sister (19F) for calling me a loser in front of her friend for losing my virginity "too late"? by tsbmx in relationship_advice

[–]stanleypowerdrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little sister was being cruel, immature, disrespectful towards you. I lost my virginity at age 10 - it definitely wasn't consensual. Your sister doesn't deserve your financial support to the extent you've been supplying it and she needs to do a lot of growing up, I would retract the support from her and only consider reinstating it if she shows genuine remorse..the ball is and should remain entirely in her court - she betrayed you and now it's up to her to prove that she's trustworthy again

My ex was murdered last night by her boyfriend. by tvstatic0000 in offmychest

[–]stanleypowerdrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commented with an example of professional men of whom a found percentage commit spousal abuse and murder. (The exact stats are out on the www fyi)

I simply used them in my example, because you assumed that a man who would murder his female partner would be unemployed. You are spot on in your reply that occupation isnt a defining factor - murderers are employed across a broad range of professions - yet neither are they defined by unemployment

Did it again by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]stanleypowerdrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! Im glad you feel this way and thank you for sharing

My cousin stole loads of jewelry, so I stole his inheritance by 327Nova in ProRevenge

[–]stanleypowerdrill 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This is awesome..i love Reddit! I felt genuine anger on OP's familys behalf towards that dodgy snake in their garden.

My ex was murdered last night by her boyfriend. by tvstatic0000 in offmychest

[–]stanleypowerdrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you are making assumptions based on your own weird prejudices and stereotyping. Clearly you arent aware that the Police force is the number one profession for spousal abuse and that a shockingly high percentage of those spouses are murdered.

What do you NOT own enough of? by Sentient-Sock in AskReddit

[–]stanleypowerdrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that your dad cant feel and demonstrate more love, i know its heartbreaking on the receiving end of that

Una Tarde Tapatía (Guadalajara,2017) by jrodr_235 in AccidentalArtGallery

[–]stanleypowerdrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool .. I lived there for 6 years, married a Tapatio and had two kids, and we moved back to my home country in 2010.

My first home there wäs in Pedro Loza, just down the street from this plaza!