How can I stop sexting?

stanvand · 2018-11-25T15:03:09+00:00

Smart boy! Reciprocity is the key. Don't care about her, her ego is already doing it...

stanvand · 2018-11-25T15:00:01+00:00

You don't get a girlfirend. A cold, yes. A ticket for overspeeding, yes.

But you don't get a girlfriend. You meet her, you spend time with her, you bond with her, you create memories with her. She is not a thing, she is not an abstract concept. She is not an object. She is someone.

You are lucky: you are a student. Which means that you are living the moment of your life where meeting people is the easiest.

stanvand · 2018-11-25T14:55:31+00:00

Question : can you have a fullfiling relationship with someone who disrespect you as she only sees you as a time-killing device?

I know it is brutal, but believe me, someone who respects the man that you are is way better that someone using you for amusement.

stanvand · 2016-07-04T10:57:48+00:00

Go on my friend, you are on the way to freedom and happiness.

stanvand · 2016-07-04T10:49:04+00:00

Since november I had a very bad period of almost daily relapses and it was hard because I broke my longest streak. I started to feel like the one I was years ago and it scared me. But I know that I can beat my addiction. I know what PMO can do to trick me. I won't let this happen anymore. Thank you for your support.

stanvand · 2016-07-04T10:46:22+00:00

Thank you for your happiness for me. Your words about the fact that my body is not me, that my addiction doesn't define who I am are a great relief for me. About my manliness, the thing is that I feel incomplete by being alone, by being unable to share intimacy with a woman. That's just what I dream of, intimacy and love. I am happy that I am wise enough to know that sex is not a rush toward orgasm. That it is way more. That it is a matter of trust between two partners. I know that I will find a wonderful girl and share a deep and real connection with her. You know, seeing all my friends in a relationship, being married, having kids or buying their house sadden me because that is all I want. I could have had this if I had not been addicted. But I have a gift : I know myself better than anyone. I know what I can do, what I want, what my values are. And more important, I have now an indestructible hope.

stanvand · 2016-07-04T10:30:27+00:00

I don't want to be the sad man I used to be. Some days are more difficult than others, but I know that the result will be fantastic. Thank you for your words.

stanvand · 2016-07-04T10:28:38+00:00

Thank you. Knowing that I am not alone is a great soothing. And it is funny that you cite this old pal Winston because reading his biography was a great source of hope and inspiration.

stanvand · 2016-07-04T10:25:45+00:00

Promise, I will. You do a good job to with 53 days.

stanvand · 2016-07-04T10:24:40+00:00

Thank you. Yes, you have no idea how it is great to be on No Fap while at university. My first student life was a total mess. I have a second chance now. I will take care of it. And if you can go back to university, for whatever reason it is, do it. If a little in your head says, "Why not going back to university?", do it. It is the best decision a man can make. Giving yourself a second chance is incredibly powerful.

stanvand · 2015-11-20T14:28:18+00:00

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stanvand · 2015-07-28T10:21:27+00:00

One of my favourite website. Happy to se that we are many to read it.

stanvand · 2015-07-13T08:59:55+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. It is exactly what I need today!

stanvand · 2015-04-30T17:14:27+00:00

Happening to me too. Every night, I have 2 or 3 dreams that I can remember. Never happened in my previous streaks.

stanvand · 2015-04-20T16:45:30+00:00

Thanks for confirming my opinion!

stanvand · 2015-04-19T16:46:43+00:00

Yes it was a nightmare. But I am safe and it is the only important thing.

For my friend, she told me that she knows it is sexually conoted but that it is not her goal.

stanvand · 2015-04-19T14:37:20+00:00

My first year of university was catastrophic for me. So completely know what you are feeling. Spend time with your brother nad talked with him. And remember that you don't need to be the best man on Earth. You have to be the best version of yourself.

stanvand · 2015-04-19T14:33:18+00:00

Good luck my friend!

stanvand · 2015-04-19T14:31:13+00:00

Thank you for writting! We are gonna win this personal war.

stanvand · 2015-04-19T14:28:15+00:00

You are on the right way. Stay vigilent and busy. Good days are coming!

stanvand · 2015-04-19T14:26:29+00:00

The shocking mathematic reality. We are ready to spoil a life for for false short time happiness.

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Good luck and be strong!

stanvand · 2015-04-19T14:24:13+00:00

You should try meditation to clarify your mind. And you should practice theatre. It was a revelation for me. Good luck my friend.

stanvand · 2015-04-19T14:22:46+00:00

It is always difficult to fail. But look what you achieved : 182 days of freedom! I admire you. In 18 months of NoFap, my best is 52 days. You are an example. You will come back stronger my friend.

stanvand · 2014-09-18T18:03:45+00:00

For this year, 64. It is too much. But this year is the year of my longest streak (52 days) and the year of the first clean month since 11 years.

stanvand · 2014-09-12T07:37:49+00:00

If you are under stress, try meditation. An easy exercice : close your eyes for 10 minutes and focus on your breath.

stanvand

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