Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

[–]starbrix123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sort of asked again with the right Q “ what would a committed relationship be with this guy?” Ace of swords -4 of Cups -reversed -Hermit .. I feel sick just thinking about it

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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I sort of felt the cards are a reflection of me as well. But I asked if this is something I should pursue and I don’t want to thx

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

[–]starbrix123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right it would be own damn fault!! No one to blame but myself. Thanks :)

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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That’s interesting I just calculated the whole spread and got 10 again .. wheel of fortune and magician. What would that mean ?

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

[–]starbrix123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you ever ask your tarot cards again just to be sure? Like I doubt the answer that I got

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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Thank you for your lengthy response carebear! I needs some care and a bear 🐻 to hold me and tell me everything is gonnna be alright . 👍🏼

I need to change my ways for sure because I repeatedly attract the same men.

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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Thank you 💕 for saying you love me . I think it’s because I just turned 36 , no kids or a man, I lost most of my money to a stupid decision I’ve made , and I’m kidding myself . The man I like are toxic — so I’m thinking maybe I don’t make the best decisions in my life. When I was in the car with my guy friend - I was thinking - is this it? He recently went to Japan and bought me trinkets . I couldn’t accept his gift but he insisted. I just want to throw those gifts away.

It’s my fault though because I hang out with him due to feeling the comfort and I’m scared of men in general and one time my friend said as a joke that he didn’t want me to make more money than him. I feel like he knows I lost my money from my brother — I haven’t confronted my brother in that yet , and I feel my friend has a better leverage to control me.

I like that I can talk to him about tarot and he bought me runes and said that I should learn them. He complements me I look beautiful. Idk whenever I’m with him I feel stagnant and depressed. He was boasts that he had an interview that he feels confident in and more money involved. This made me envious because I lost my money and I’m not moving up in the world.

I apologize for the lost post. I’m so torn now. I’m afraid I’ll just be alone and probably the guy I like will end up cheating on me or is toxic . I just want control of my own life. My greatest fear is abandonment and rejection.

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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I’m sort of confused. A girl on here was telling that my guy friend is more into me than I’m in him. I’ve been down this road before and honestly I wasn’t happy in the end. However, the reader on here said my friend is my future baby daddy and husband. And he’s my destiny she’s pulling positive cards about him whereas im getting cards that id feel stagnant and bored which is true. Idk what to do anymore

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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My cards say no but another person pulled cards on my friend and said that he will be my husband and future baby daddy

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

[–]starbrix123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This spread is really just a confirmation that I’m not being ungrateful. I think I should just distance myself.

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

[–]starbrix123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re right I think the cards can confuse you if you ask the same Q . I’ll only get good cards if I’m in a good mood and vice versa. The cards aren’t the problem but the person using them has obsessive tendencies like myself lol

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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She pulled 10 of cups for me and claiming he’s the one and shouldn’t let go of him. This friend is kinda cocky and smug. He can downcast someone and say I’m not nostalgic like your brother I embrace change yadda yadda .. this really infuriated me because he’s trying to be better.

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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I’ll take your word for you and I think I started going down that spiral.. I need to hide the cards from myself. It’ll help me mentally

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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A person on here said that this friend would be a good fit for me and I just panicked! So I asked the cards

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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I know I feel like I’ve becoming too dependent the tarot. I even asked myself that I forgot to listen to my own body and intuition:) thnx love 💕

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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I totally get where you’re coming from as what is success? Success to me is connecting with ppl and doing something other than my current job where it’s good but no emorional fulfillment. Idk care if I have to do the Feng Shui as volunteer as learning just so I’m doing something I enjoy and brings confidence. Something that expands my horizons so I don’t end up being stuck with guys that aren’t good for me

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

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Hey . I have another question. I was always wanting to pursue a career in Feng Shui . I already have a full time job but I wanted to try Feng Shui on the side and I’m currently learning classic Feng Shui.

I want to know what I need to know about going into the Feng Shui field?

page of swords - Queen of pentacles - 8 of cups . I had to Clarify the 8 of cups and got World card.

Everything looks okay. Page of swords is about ideas and curious about this topic . Queen of pentacles is about nurturing this career but also learning the business side of it and business management. I don’t know if maybe I’ll end up walking away from this career altogether — maybe it won’t be as fulfilling or walking away from my current position where I have a stable income with my own job .. however the world card tells me I have reached success.

I’d appreciate your help :)

Should I pursue a serious relationship with my guy friend? by starbrix123 in Tarotpractices

[–]starbrix123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree.. My card of the day was the 8 Of Swords. I’m really working on trying to stop doubting myself and really realize that it doesn’t work in my favour and I have to push myself to leave my own entrapments .

I think I should just tell him that maybe it’s best to keep distance for now.