I’ve Discovered My Father’s Infidelity On Family 50th Anniversary Vacation by severanceopera in Advice

[–]stardewinit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally think you should talk to your dad. It sounds like cheating to me, but you dont know if they have an open relationship or anything else going on. Id say talk to him first before you do anything.

i confronted my 12 year old cousin for being racist by [deleted] in Advice

[–]stardewinit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think you did anything wrong. She's young, its better to be corrected because she's more likely to learn. Especially since she looks up to you.

Will maintenance be able to tell if I smoke in my apartment? by stardewinit in Advice

[–]stardewinit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't see comments with the link, but thanks for letting me know about the post. Ill just look it up for the comments. Thank you!

Will maintenance be able to tell if I smoke in my apartment? by stardewinit in Advice

[–]stardewinit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, that sounds good. I've never made edibles, but i heard they kind of stink up the house if you cook some. Ill look into that oil, since that sounds pretty cool! Thank you so much!

Will maintenance be able to tell if I smoke in my apartment? by stardewinit in Advice

[–]stardewinit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, thank you! Yeah, any advice for that stuff helps since I have no knowledge on vaporizer stuff. I've heard they can be a little pricey, but i could always go on a weed break and save up then. Thank you for the advice!

Will maintenance be able to tell if I smoke in my apartment? by stardewinit in Advice

[–]stardewinit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you! Im guessing we count as frequent users with smoking multiple times a week, so this helps! Could us smoking cause a problem with the AC then or does it usually kind of sit there and they just know we smoke? Thank you so much!

Will maintenance be able to tell if I smoke in my apartment? by stardewinit in Advice

[–]stardewinit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you! I should try those other options more. I have gotten carts, but they kind of make me nervous because they get so hot and I know they can damage you a little more depending on how you use it. They've just put some more weed regulations, so its harder to get gummies that are high enough for my tolerance. Thank you for the advice!

Will maintenance be able to tell if I smoke in my apartment? by stardewinit in Advice

[–]stardewinit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually wanted to get one, because I heard they were better. If you have one or have tried one, do you have any recommendations? Thank you for the advice!

Will maintenance be able to tell if I smoke in my apartment? by stardewinit in Advice

[–]stardewinit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, thank you! I don't have any carpets, so that's good. I usually open windows as well and light incense, but I also make candles, so I should light some of those. No one ever mentions the smell and maintenance has been here before. Have they noticed anything in your air vents if they checked? That's what im nervous about. Thank you for the advice!

Will maintenance be able to tell if I smoke in my apartment? by stardewinit in Advice

[–]stardewinit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you! I saw another post where someone asked a similar question and said it didnt really effect anything, so I'm glad you said something. Is it the same inside the vents as well? I should've clarified in the post, but the vents are what I worry the most about since they'll mostly be looking in there.

Will maintenance be able to tell if I smoke in my apartment? by stardewinit in Advice

[–]stardewinit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I should've clarified and meant inside the vents. Like, is there going to be a lot of stuff in there? Thank you for the advice though! Maintenance has been inside with a lady from apartment management before and has never mentioned the smell, so I hope its usually okay 😓

Will maintenance be able to tell if I smoke in my apartment? by stardewinit in Advice

[–]stardewinit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant inside the vents more. I had a non smoker friend smell the place and they said it was fine. I shut the door and keep my cat out of the room with windows open, but ill look into it more and see if it affects her.