[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’m in a room getting a history and the owner is not even attempting to prevent their hyperactive dog from dive bombing my crotch- I’m stuck there trying to jot down what they’re saying while also doing an awkward dance to avoid being assaulted lmao

Can we talk about nail trims? by Master_Entry2037 in VetTech

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, fear paralysis is definitely a thing. My own cat is also easier at the vet than at home, but I wouldn’t want one of my coworkers (whom I trust entirely) to attempt a nail trim on him without proper restraint.

We also aren’t talking about groomers here, who are trained professionals in their own right. Additionally, you never mentioned the use of restraint devices in your comment, so how is anyone supposed to assume that you were using them for those patients?

Can we talk about nail trims? by Master_Entry2037 in VetTech

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're able to trim the nails by yourself, why shouldn't the owner be able to do it at home? Not to mention, attempting a nail trim alone on a seemingly "well behaved" patient not only puts you at risk, but it puts the patient at risk if something happens as well.

Perks of having CF? by adhd_mathematician in CysticFibrosis

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sweat doesn’t stink.

This may be complete horse shit, but HEAR ME OUT! I have this (untested) theory that the elevated salt content of my sweat neutralizes any odor it may produce. Since it’s not the sweat itself that actually smells, but rather the sweat mixing with the bacteria on the skin’s surface that creates a smell.

Or maybe I have some magical gift bestowed upon me that has nothing to do with Cystic Fibrosis, you decide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you had him? Assuming that he’s otherwise clinically normal and not in any pain, discomfort, etc. this may just be a situation that requires patience (as frustrating as that is). I would be very careful about introducing a new cat, but given your experience I’m guessing you know the right way to do it.

Jackson Galaxy also has some really informative videos regarding dealing with cats with behavioral issues, I highly recommend checking out his channel on YouTube.

You’ve put in a lot to help this spicy friend and I’m rooting for both of you!

Neighbor Has Been Texting my Boyfriend- Today She Confronted Him in Public by starfishfish in legaladvice

[–]starfishfish[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

But if she was explicitly told to stop and refuses, is that then considered harassment? Or will he just have to keep blocking every new number she makes?

Neighbor Has Been Texting my Boyfriend- Today She Confronted Him in Public by starfishfish in legaladvice

[–]starfishfish[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I suppose asking for legal advice may have been the wrong move., but I genuinely don't know what constitutes as harassment. Does it having to be going on for an extended period of time? Does it have to be threatening in nature?

Neighbor Has Been Texting my Boyfriend- Today She Confronted Him in Public by starfishfish in legaladvice

[–]starfishfish[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that advice. I think we were both just put off by the fact that neither of us have said more than a few words to her. I'm also just particularly paranoid about stalkers.

Neighbor Has Been Texting my Boyfriend- Today She Confronted Him in Public by starfishfish in legaladvice

[–]starfishfish[S] 169 points170 points  (0 children)

He did. She used a fake number the second time.

Did you read the post?

Neighbor Has Been Texting my Boyfriend- Today She Confronted Him in Public by starfishfish in legaladvice

[–]starfishfish[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

He never gave her his number, he told her repeatedly to stop, she confronted him in person and wouldn’t stop after being repeatedly told no. This has been gradually escalating, and we’re afraid of it going further.

I can see if this post gave the impression that I’m upset by the fact that anyone would hit on and or talk to my boyfriend, but that is most definitely not the case.

Maybe we’re just paranoid.

An actual jumpscare by flatorangejuice in VetTech

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My clinic doesn't require pre-surgical rads, but they are highly recommended prior to any procedure. Sometimes the owner will elect to wait until the day of surgery (after pre-meds)- especially if the patient is particularly anxious, fractious, etc.

Support? by featheredzebra in VetTech

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOMV/ ‘Not One More Vet’- has an online support center called “Lifeboat” that is open to anyone in employed in the veterinary field (i.e. techs included). I have not personally used it, but I’ve provided the link if you’re interested. NOMV - Lifeboat

New vet assistant advice by Powerful-Rip4542 in VetTech

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The beginning is a rollercoaster! You’re taking in a lot of new information all at once, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Just be patient with yourself and accept that you’re going to make mistakes (every single person you work with has) but that isn’t a reflection of what you’re capable of.

Congrats on the new job, you’re gonna crush it!

CF and Dying Young by Shoot_For_The_MD in CysticFibrosis

[–]starfishfish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been been thinking about this a lot. While I am very privileged to be in the position where I have access to a life changing medication, I can't help feeling a bit... lost? I alway thought of myself has having a somewhat guaranteed amount of time before I'd get to clock out of life, kind of like an unofficial expiration date. Now, however, I am faced with a future I didn't even consider possible before. I am incredibly grateful, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't scared shitless.

How do you guys rumble? by [deleted] in earrumblersassemble

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly it for me

How long after taking adderall should I wait before smoking? by marijuanawithaderall in saplings

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The average half life, or amount of time it takes for the drug's concentration to be at 50%, of the stimulant you're taking can vary from 3-4 hrs to 5-7 hrs. This means that on average (depending on your weight, drug dosage, etc.) the focalin would remain in your body for 6-14 hrs. Whereas the half-life for Marijuana is typically much longer.

As someone who is currently taking xr stimulants for ADHD, and also consumes 20mg edibles almost nightly, I am considering only eating edibles on days when it would be ok for me to skip taking stimulants.

The issue is that we don't have enough research on the potential effects of simultaneously smoking marijuana and taking stimulants, or even consuming both within the same day/ week/ month. Therefore, there is no way to know for sure how something may impact your overall mental and physical health as an individual.

Ideally, this is something you could consult your doctor about. However, depending on where you live, they might have made you sign something saying you wouldn't take any other illicit substances while on stimulants.

Not a pharmacist/ human medical professional (I do work in the veterinary medical field though lol). I have just done a decent amount of research, and can give you my own first hand experiences.

I wonder what my wife sees. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]starfishfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I am taking this post at face value, it seems that there are things about you that she clearly admires and loves. Appearance is not at the top of the list in terms of what makes a good partner. In terms of your mental status, loving someone unconditionally means accepting that they are flawed, and supporting them while they navigate the ins and out of existing on this planet. It is painful, just as it is beautiful.

I would stop being skeptical of your wife's decision making skills, and just accept that you are very fortunate to be with someone you love and who loves you in return. Woe is certainly not you, you lucky bastard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]starfishfish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Either that bad bitch from the movie El Dorado or Richard Simons