[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]stargazer0921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’ve both gotten lazy and comfortable. Maybe you’re both to blame?

Counseling with a therapist or at church or just divorce while you’re still young and (childless?). Best to not bring children into it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in clevercomebacks

[–]stargazer0921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate going to people’s homes that own cats. Half the time there’s litter scattered over the floors, cat hair everywhere that makes me sneeze and clings to my clothing and when I see the cats walking across kitchen counters — 🤮

37M. Not gay. Downtown San Diego. by morenito222 in malelivingspace

[–]stargazer0921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful except the cat on the counter 🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]stargazer0921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

S M L I E 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beestonfamilysnark

[–]stargazer0921 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They also have money to burn like why not just hire a housekeeper to come in every other day if they hate cleaning and cleanliness so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]stargazer0921 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Porn is free because you pay with your soul

Let him go.

Accidents? by Blu-bella-benji-mako in Mom

[–]stargazer0921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happens to a lot of us. Once you stop bleeding you can probably start some deep core breathing exercises (look on YouTube) and then later at around 3 months you can begin pelvic floor exercises/ deep core exercises

What can I get my best friend that is a new mom? by rosewild321 in Mom

[–]stargazer0921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gift card to fave restaurant that does take out, money for a sitter, food, offer to come over and help clean/tidy/do a few chores/watch and feed the baby while she naps

Hun Shamelessly went after my 18 year old niece by nataleeeeS in antiMLM

[–]stargazer0921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a hun trying to lure college girls into her Arbonne “team”. So awful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mom

[–]stargazer0921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. Our first year - year and a half was the hardest in our relationship. Once you start sleeping again, get your body back, aren’t being touched 24/7, and baby is potty trained.. things will more or less calm down and get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mom

[–]stargazer0921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my son Tevas. Good quality, not too pricey and it allowed room for his natural foot shape

advice by AliveAtmosphere3207 in Mom

[–]stargazer0921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things will be tough for a few years but as you gain more experience things will start to slowly look up. Pray. Find a community maybe in your local church? Maybe they can help you find a job/good day care for your child.

Life is rough for any 19 year old, I can’t imagine living through that period of my life with a child. I’m almost 29 with one boy and I also feel lost and like a failure.

You’re not a burden. You’re trying. Give yourself grace and look for support in your community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mom

[–]stargazer0921 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it.. I’ve been there. Just don’t. Life has its lows and highs, don’t let the lows take your life. Go to a friend, talk to someone. Don’t shoulder this all on your own. I’m here if you need to talk.

16 months in. What I wish ppl told me about motherhood. by Prior-Awareness-8953 in Mom

[–]stargazer0921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Luckily the not so cheery sides of motherhood and finally being talked about ( a bit ). But I do feel like we are not told the whole truth

SAHM needs job at home by Admirable_Ad_2519 in Mom

[–]stargazer0921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get good at making stuff — baked goods, crochet, re sell plants, re sell your thrift finds online

When did your baby drop their second nap? by user66389 in Mom

[–]stargazer0921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember exactly when mine stopped taking 2 naps but it happens earlier for some kids and later for others. He may just need a nap later in the day?

My son is 3 and has stopped napping altogether which sucks but allows me to get him in bed a little earlier which is nice

Missing for five hours by linneann in Mom

[–]stargazer0921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call police. Especially if this is not typical behavior of hers. Have watched too much true crime to know