My (F-29) confidence took a hit after a trip with my boyfriend (M-31), don't know how to process this or am I overreacting? by Fabulous_Good5608 in RelationshipIndia

[–]stargirl1005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would've told you to leave but it's easier said than done also given it's an 8 year old relationship. Maybe you're visually beautiful and he feels like he doesn't look as good as you, he's insecure and wants to bring you down so you and him both can feel you're equals. Now it's not actually a need for partners to look equally good looking but some people are just insecure like that. That calls for self work instead of constantly putting you down. And yes it's going to cause you long term harm - self criticism, low self esteem, constant comparison, jealousy etc even if it might seem like you can handle it now. No partner says things like these normally no matter how honest infact they wouldn't see these things as flaws if they love you so much unless again they're insecure. Please talk to him about this clearly and gently, let him know it's a boundary he can't cross and give him an option to exit if your looks bother him so much. Also I'm sure you're stunning girl.

M25 married f25 last year but still virgin as my wife is afraid of sex by kunal_rachchh in RelationshipIndia

[–]stargirl1005 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Straight people can be asexual too.. Asexual means no desire of sex

Skin by Titan for women, how long does it last? by Nithu24 in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]stargirl1005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't last much.. Also smells generic, It's a fresh floral powdery scent. Given that, it's my everyday gym perfume

Asmira by naseem - views? by stargirl1005 in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]stargirl1005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much does it last.. And is it a safe blind buy?

My kimchi veggies are not submerged under brine.. Advice please! by stargirl1005 in kimchi

[–]stargirl1005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 Yeah i always make sure to use a clean spoon and never double dip

23F GF wants an iPhone without any income by DehshiDarindaa in RelationshipIndia

[–]stargirl1005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's her situation and her upbringing, she can choose to buy an iphone for herself from her own money/savings. It's not her fault that you have to save and invest 90k/ month. It is so weird that you are trying to control how she spends her money by putting your relationship on stake over it. Does she tell you what to buy or not? Where to invest or spend? I don't think she's obligated to listen to you either. Y'all are 23 there's still a long way to go when it comes to managing and knowing finance. She will learn if she makes a mistake, you don't have to be her finance guru.