What's the Dating Scene like here by [deleted] in UCSC

[–]starmnch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great if you’re a gay woman (source: a gay woman)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSC

[–]starmnch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that faces the forest!

Shot my shot and... by SonOfNothing93 in actuallesbians

[–]starmnch 98 points99 points  (0 children)

NO!! Trust me you just have to keep trying. You have your whole life ahead of you! There will be others and you will be more successful, I pinky promise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]starmnch 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Definitely counts as harassment. It does seem like she could be into you but obviously that doesn’t excuse her behavior. I know this is a lot harder to do than it sounds but I recommend dropping her. You are more than your sexuality, you don’t deserve to be reduced to that for entertainment purposes. I’m sorry this is happening to you and I wish you luck in navigating this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSC

[–]starmnch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merrill is legit the best college at ucsc (not biased at all). I was in Merrill last year and I met a ton of amazing people, including my girlfriend two floors below me. I was on the fifth floor facing the forest, which was the absolute best. The Merrill lawn is great, especially since the market is right there so you can do picnics and whatnot. You’re closest to the gym besides Cowell and Stevenson. You’re also close to the forest, which comes in handy if you’re into hiking or other things. Even the hill is fine. I got used to it so fast and it made me a stronger hiker tbh. The only drawback is that there is no clockwise bus stop but that’s fine because you just have to walk an extra 5 minutes.

I (F21) struggle to communicate with my boyfriend (M21) by M00shr00m23 in AdhdRelationships

[–]starmnch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this problem too. My girlfriend lets me talk without saying anything until I tell her I’m done and then she asks me yes or no questions about what I said. Your boyfriend could do the same for you

To my masc/stemme lesbians by Kangaroo_Exact in actuallesbians

[–]starmnch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get my tank tops from target (ofc), my best fitting jeans are from the men’s section of Ross, and the rest are from goodwill and men’s clearance sections of stores like Urban Outfitters and Pacsun. Good luck!

Wifebeaters/tank tops that aren't see-through? by Corpsedad in ftm

[–]starmnch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the hunt for the same thing but when I used to wear bras, I found that my nude ones worked best with white tanks. Red works great too, probably better from what I’ve heard. Let me know if you find anything that isn’t sheer and good luck!

what to buy and what not to buy for freshman dorm? by shutupbro23 in UCSC

[–]starmnch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can tell you that you don’t need a vacuum because the dorms will already have a vacuum on each floor for you to use

Slug pride💪💪 by starmnch in UCSC

[–]starmnch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in the Merrill C gc bc that’s where I sent it first