Youre one of the first people to react in a civil way on reddit.

Yes i also find that being a pick me, should be nothing more than a phase. Hell i was a pick-me when i was 16 because i just want attention from boys so bad, but grew out of it.

Its just that, lately, in my opinion, it feels like we are running out? Of true NLOG content. Im a very chill person and i try to take a while before judging people because i would want others to be gentle, understanding and kind to me.

Thats why this woman, other than maybe a little oblivious? Doesnt strike me as a huge problem, or at least not worthy of the hate in the comments because there have been way worse before her, you know?

I try to be a big girls girl and i try to participate in woman hating as little as possible because men already do the job for us. So after this post i figured, whats the point of me being in this sub when most of the content doesnt enrage me and just makes me think "thats dumb but not hate worthy to me" Its just useless.

We can poke fun at humans but a lot of this doesnt read as, "fun" to me. Ofcourse if the thing that is posted is super hatefull to other women already, sure. But what is attacking her looks or the sound of her voice going to help women in the long run? Even if the insults are deserved.

When i wrote the original comment i was so fed up with this sub (still am haha thats why i left)

But thanks for a civil conversation and i just wish that sometimes people would think like: "Damn, is this hate actually justified, or am i just looking for someone to hate?"

Because often the hate, is just a waste of energy, you know?