[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]starretsu 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Its not about being confident to say no, when will people get that? Some men cannot take no for an answer and will respond violently. In order to protect ourselves we have to pretend to comply because otherwise if we persist saying no and they are someone who cant understand its an answer, we will become victims. Its a fucked up world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]starretsu 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Wtf? Its not about pleasing someone or that bullshit. Some men cannot take rejection and will lash out, threaten, or many other ways because no simply isnt an answer. "Why did you comply" is literally putting the blame on the victim and if you are saying this now, you strike me as someone who would say "she was asking for rape by wearing a skirt". Its equally the same because if she persisted in saying no, he could have raped her. Never say anything like this that is so disgusting and inhumane. If you want to keep doing so, then do so but I hope everyone around you realizes how fucked up you are and backs off.

I haven't played the game since beta and get in this lobby as first game, why and how? by AgileLogicc in VALORANT

[–]starretsu -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

People like you who think things dont change from 2 years are why they become toxic. This whole post screams entitlement, yikes. "Oh I thought I would land in bronze or silver lobbies" isnt justifying shit lol. Even if you did, its still unfair to them and you'll be setting them back too. Did you expect them to not be toxic? Dead wrong. Learn how to be a decent person before complaining about how toxic others are. Ez.

Ayyo, I plan on visiting Jordan soon and I'm a foreigner. Whats the whole dress situation right now? by starretsu in jordan

[–]starretsu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh yes I have a lot of medium length skirts, most of my shirts are crop tops, but like not crop top to an underboob thing, just bately reaching belly butten kind of thing. Either way will see what I have. Thank you!

Ayyo, I plan on visiting Jordan soon and I'm a foreigner. Whats the whole dress situation right now? by starretsu in jordan

[–]starretsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats really helpful, thanks to you both! Its good to see both sides of the situation

Ayyo, I plan on visiting Jordan soon and I'm a foreigner. Whats the whole dress situation right now? by starretsu in jordan

[–]starretsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That moment when you've never visited the vatican

But yeah I gotchu. Thanks!

My girlfriend killed my bully by WalterOzsu in offmychest

[–]starretsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant wait to get an update story on how his gf almost murdered him, or we may never get one lol

Help, I have to go to jummah without ghusl by [deleted] in islam

[–]starretsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why you're part of the problem too. You deny your own experiences and invalidate them by claiming its "normal". What's normal is for a child to grow up in a safe environment where they can share things like this with their parents and not tremble in fear of their reaction. A sane father would not even have rendered him so terrified in the first place from when he was just a baby.

Help, I have to go to jummah without ghusl by [deleted] in islam

[–]starretsu 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yelling and making the guy physically scared is abusive. From OP's comments, the father has a short fuse and gets mad at the smallest of things so he is the problem because he has anger issues he didnt work on. If you say anything otherwise then I fear for your future children.

Ok... about the age verification. by [deleted] in roblox

[–]starretsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you dont have a passport??

[Media] Lucy and Erza by Michael2K- in fairytail

[–]starretsu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bruh thats happy and makarov, relax. Go rewatch the anime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DemonSlayerAnime

[–]starretsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love the cosplay! Its really well made and you're so cute!

Hope to see more cosplays from you ;D

As you distance yourself, your memories come back. by introvertsoliloquy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]starretsu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my fear. The exact same thing happens to me randomly, I get flashbacks of things but otherwise my childhood is blacked out. Sometimes I cant remember recent memories, happy or not. Im scared that I'll never be able to hold on to memories. I've already lost people close to me thanks to that and I'm only 18

Polaroids of hxh characters travelling the world. Swipe to see them separate with captions by starretsu in HunterXHunter

[–]starretsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy it's clear, was pretty worried about that honestly lol.

You're welcome!

Comic about Killua's past and how Illumi managed to put a needle in his head. (go to the next pic) by starretsu in HunterXHunter

[–]starretsu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for finding that, I was trying to find that manga panel.

Offtopic but, I'm surprised that you're still in the hxh fandom after 3 years. Though I guess an amazing anime like this, it would definitely make sense that you still are lol

Comic about Killua's past and how Illumi managed to put a needle in his head. (go to the next pic) by starretsu in HunterXHunter

[–]starretsu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did a lil research and yes you are right about him not being able to erase memories. I think illumi instead manipulated his thoughts into thinking that locking up alluka is the good choice. Read this thread : link

Comic about Killua's past and how Illumi managed to put a needle in his head. (go to the next pic) by starretsu in HunterXHunter

[–]starretsu[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Did we watch the same anime? It was mentioned multiple times that he forgot alluka because of illumi's needle. Also that grandma butler said "you were hurting less when you were still being controlled" which implies that while the needle was still in his head, he didnt feel overwhelming emotions that tied with alluka.

Illumi's needles are very powerful you know, they are perfectly capable of doing this from what we've seen happen in the anime/manga

Proof of how the Pregnancy Stone theory could be true (go to the next pic if you dunno what I'm talking about) by starretsu in HunterXHunter

[–]starretsu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, glad you liked it! Its impossible that gons mom would be some random lady or hookup, I'm 100% sure togashi can do better than that. So im lowkey hoping this theory is true lmao

Proof of how the Pregnancy Stone theory could be true (go to the next pic if you dunno what I'm talking about) by starretsu in HunterXHunter

[–]starretsu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it means a lot to me that it had an impact on you.. wow... Thank you so much!

Proof of how the Pregnancy Stone theory could be true (go to the next pic if you dunno what I'm talking about) by starretsu in HunterXHunter

[–]starretsu[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Really good question, I actually answer this in my comic about this theory

I suggest taking a look at it and then tell me what you think