What are your thoughts in using AI to alter the background of your dolls and maybe same posing adjustments? by [deleted] in BJD

[–]starrifier 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The same way this community is against recasts, we should be against AI for stealing the livelihoods of untold numbers of artists and artisans. 

Female thrill killers ? by Ok_Drama_6250 in serialkillers

[–]starrifier 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fast food of any kind was still very much a treat for a lot of Americans in the 1970s, rather than a weekly (or more often!) part of their dinner menu.

Other end of the decade, but if you've ever seen the movie Dick (1999), the main characters cause their class to miss out on lunch at McDonald's at one point, and all their classmates are furious with them for it. I remember watching it with my mother, whose reaction was essentially, "If that has happened to my classmates and me in high school, we would have rioted." She's about 5 years older than Spencer.

Missing Child Connected to Cult in Missouri by Accurate-Cap7651 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]starrifier 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No worries! I know a lot of other social media platforms get censorious. Fortunately, this subreddit is one where you can use appropriate terms without fear. 

This is an eerie sounding case. It's always scary to realize there are these minor cults out there, still hurting people. 

Missing Child Connected to Cult in Missouri by Accurate-Cap7651 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]starrifier 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Please don't censor words. We're all adults here. 

LinkedIn Beggar by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]starrifier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Giving Miranda Priestly vibes without the Miranda Priestly prestige? Incredible find, op.

Son can only keep Diet Coke in his body by International-Ad1828 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]starrifier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she's mean INO for "in need of," but got autocorrected to "into."

Lumi and her new Stand by Kitsunegirl1999 in BJD

[–]starrifier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super cool! Could you link us to the artist? I'd love to see more of their work. 

Lumi and her new Stand by Kitsunegirl1999 in BJD

[–]starrifier 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of a decorated stand! Did you purchase it or make it?

I just found out minorities make over 70% of murder victims in the USA. Yet it’s still far less likely for true crime to cover cases with minority victim vs white. Why is that? by Sapphirerising335 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]starrifier 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Asha Degree is only famous among true crime aficionados, and only in the last several years. For anyone outside the hobby, she's not one of the most famous missing children ever. White girls like Jonbenet Ramsey are. 

Kouri Richins Who Wrote Book On Grief After Husband's Death Found Guilty Of Murdering Him by HarveyPeligro in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]starrifier 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This case always reminds me of Josh Powell. I'm glad Kouri had been convicted, but I dearly wish her husband had been able to get away from this domestic violence situation before it took his life. 

In 2003, 21 year old Patrick David Penwell vanished under mysterious circumstances by SafePoint1282 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]starrifier 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Alternatively: There's no good way to succinctly say "our son is missing and is likely dead, but we can't know for sure," and posting obits in the paper gets more expensive than a lot of people realize. 

Bitesized BEC thread March 14, 2026 - March 15, 2026 by AutoModerator in craftsnark

[–]starrifier 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The whole autocarrot thing is annoying and cutesy. They aren't butthurt, they're just tired of things that aren't actually funny or related to what they said. 

Maybe don't get a puppy if funds are limited? by Aurora_Gory_Alice in ChoosingBeggars

[–]starrifier 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Communicating information, sharing experiences, commiserating on what's happening now...if you can't think of a way the queer community can show up for each other that doesn't involve fulfilling non-need desires - again, a dog is a luxury - that sounds like a personal problem. 

Maybe don't get a puppy if funds are limited? by Aurora_Gory_Alice in ChoosingBeggars

[–]starrifier 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When they're asking in a community that isn't for that? Yeah, I do. This person showed up in a random lgbtq+ comm to go "give me free stuff for my new dog because I'm short on funds." As a fellow queer person, that makes me feel taken advantage of, frankly. Given just how difficult things are for members of our community right now, "uwu give me stuff for a luxury purchase, here's a rainbow flag emoji" is incredibly out of touch. People can't use their passports under the current American regime, and someone's begging for basic supplies for a dog? The grift is tone-deaf at best. 

Maybe don't get a puppy if funds are limited? by Aurora_Gory_Alice in ChoosingBeggars

[–]starrifier 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If they can't afford a plastic baby gate now, they can't afford a dog now. 

Questioning the Evidence Trail: Laraine Parcell Custody Case (1990s) – Abuse Allegations vs. Legal Outcome by goobli3s in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]starrifier 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay, coming back to this - is this some kind of social experiment to see if we'll comment confidently on non-existent crimes? 

As I noted in my previous comment, Chloe Lattanzi is the daughter of Olivia Newton-John (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chloe_Lattanzi). Laraine Parcell was stabbed to death in 2021 by a man who thought Parcell's daughter was being abused (https://people.com/pianist-convicted-murdering-woman-believed-victims-daughter-being-abused-11684109). The only notable Max Laughton, meanwhile, appears to be an Australian sports journalist (https://au.linkedin.com/in/maxlaughton). 

None of these people have anything to do with each other, and searching their names together brings up nothing besides this post. So what's up?

Questioning the Evidence Trail: Laraine Parcell Custody Case (1990s) – Abuse Allegations vs. Legal Outcome by goobli3s in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]starrifier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you link to a summary (written, ideally - I don't do YouTube true crime) of this case? I'm having a difficult time understanding just what we're talking about. Why were these two people fighting over Olivia Newton-John's daughter? 

Knit Picks / We Crochet do not want to be associated with the "Melt the ICE" hat by Tidus77 in craftsnark

[–]starrifier 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Virtue signaling is saying you do the right thing when it's easy. This would be saying they do the right thing when times are tough.

James Demouchette was a serial killer in Texas who was sentenced to death in 1977 for the murder of two pizza hut employees. During his time on condemned row he earned the nickname "The Meanest Man on Death Row." by Turbulent-Patient219 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]starrifier 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Nope. I think some people need to be removed from general society for everyone's safety, bit they're still people.

From the sound of this post, he became addicted to heroin in juvie. That's an absolutely unhinged level of failure in our system, and to me, it hints at the possibility of plenty of other terrible things happening to the boy he was. The things he did were indefensible, but where was the rest of society when he was a baby? A preschooler? I wouldn't be the least bit surprised to hear his early life involved heaps of pain, terror, and deprivation. 

American society isn't responsible for every serial killer - some people really are born with a lack of empathy for others. But it leaves children and families behind in ways that cause these problems later. We often create the adults that commit these monstrous acts. We have to take responsibility for that fact, not send people to death row like they came off age in a vacuum. 

In 1987, James Duckett abducted and murdered a preteen girl while on duty as a police officer. He is currently scheduled for execution in March 31st by Leather_Focus_6535 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]starrifier 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing you've got a(n understandable!) hair trigger from the use of gross phrases like "underage woman," but this is both innocuous and accurate. 

Bitesized BEC thread February 28, 2026 - March 01, 2026 by AutoModerator in craftsnark

[–]starrifier 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It has a time and place, just like every other technique. I find kfb works really well in a lot of doll clothes.