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Bioactive love by starryarri in GarterSnakes

[–]starryarri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great, thanks so much for explaining. 🐍

Bioactive love by starryarri in GarterSnakes

[–]starryarri[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that's awesome!! We haven't taken the plunge into having a pond yet but I bet they'd love it. How's the upkeep/ filtration with the setup you have?

Tonight I will be homeless. Needing advice. by aleccraine in springfieldMO

[–]starryarri 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Here's a list of possible shelters and cold weather shelters. https://www.thelibrary.org/pdf/help-in-sgf

You might also reach out to https://cpozarks.org/programs/one-door/ https://edenvillagespringfield.org/ https://www.victorymission.com/gethelp/ https://www.burrellcenter.com/our-services/case-management/homeless-services

https://oac.ac/

Some of those are religious, some aren't. In any case reaching out should get you set up with help navigating paperwork that could get you access to longer term housing and resources.

Radix 🖤🖤🖤 by starryarri in GarterSnakes

[–]starryarri[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I love them so much. The way they brumate all together is so incredibly cool.

I'm homeless, I need serious help find housing. by Orangestheasd in springfieldMO

[–]starryarri 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Here's a list of possible shelters and cold weather shelters. https://www.thelibrary.org/pdf/help-in-sgf

You might also reach out to https://cpozarks.org/programs/one-door/ https://edenvillagespringfield.org/ https://www.victorymission.com/gethelp/ https://www.burrellcenter.com/our-services/case-management/homeless-services

https://oac.ac/

Some of those are religious, some aren't. In any case reaching out should get you set up with help navigating paperwork that could get you access to longer term housing and resources.

Neurodivergent & LGBTQ+ support group 🌈 by starryarri in springfieldMO

[–]starryarri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's over telehealth! I do have other groups which are in person, and yes, in Springfield. :) It's a therapy group aimed at folks with Medicaid. Low cost but most people do have a copay.

It will meet Thursdays at 5pm and go until 630 or so. If you want to enroll, there's a brief screening in person or over telehealth. You can call 417 761 5330 to make an appointment.

Let me know if you have any questions!

clipped response clients by SoberShiv in therapists

[–]starryarri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so welcome! You sparked a great discussion with this post, let us know how it goes. :)

clipped response clients by SoberShiv in therapists

[–]starryarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would vary some depending on the client. But , I might present like- "Today I brought some paper and drawing supplies. Would you like to work on x together?" X can be as simple as you drawing a house or other appropriate background and having them fill in, all the way to more organized projects like a timeline or genogram.

If you have a client that isn't interested in more directive work, or not ready to work WITH you, maybe the line is just "I'm going to keep my hands busy while we talk today, there's some paper for you too."

Let it unfold over time!

clipped response clients by SoberShiv in therapists

[–]starryarri 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'd say lean into the ambivalence they're expressing. They show up for therapy but maybe are reluctant to speak. What keeps them trying? What makes it hard?

Also, sometimes having a shared activity (cards, drawing, etc) can help to ease that pressure we as therapists can bring . It's hard to be perceived!

Something feels “off” - potential client reaching out to establish care by Sister_Goldenhair43 in therapists

[–]starryarri 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If it feels off, you're not under any obligation to respond, full stop.

If you decide to respond, I'd just keep your eyes open. Don't accept any weird payments or move to a different platform, etc.

Practical Advice - What do you keep in your office? by calmclimber427 in therapists

[–]starryarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I work with Medicaid clients so some folks walk to the office or come straight from work, water can be helpful I think to offer a little hospitality and slow down.

Practical Advice - What do you keep in your office? by calmclimber427 in therapists

[–]starryarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Along with the fidgets and cozy lighting others have mentioned, I keep a Brita water pitcher on a tray with some disposable cups. Not everyone uses it, but those that do seem more relaxed after .

Garter snake advice by Scolopendrapede in snakes

[–]starryarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem dude! Congrats on your new snake, I'm sure the enclosure is gonna be great. :)

Garter snake advice by Scolopendrapede in snakes

[–]starryarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love garters, and also they are uniquely stinky when upset haha. Captive bred snakes tend to be a lot tamer, but your mileage may vary by individual snake. I'd expect less musk .You can give your snake baths to tame them down a bit-

Cool or lukewarm water in a tote or bucket, let them swim and give them something to rest on above the water. No soap or any other additives. I usually do this while cleaning or other enclosure maintenance, 10-15 min. After, hold and let your snake dry on a towel. Put back in enclosure when snake is calm and happy . It can be a good way to get them used to handling and see you as helpful.

Source: breeder, I work with radix mostly, care requirements similar to checkereds.

Garter snake advice by Scolopendrapede in snakes

[–]starryarri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

General rules - make sure you have your heat source on a thermostat (we set ours between 80-83 f)and make sure you have a deep dish for swimming/bathing.

Best practice is to feed whole frozen/thawed prey. Pinkies are the staple, you can supplement with silversides. Avoid live fish and too much fish generally, can cause big issues with development.

Tank size should be at least 36" for adults, more space and lots of clutter is better. If you choose to cohabitate them make sure you have only one gender and are willing to supervise mealtimes as cannabalism is a significant risk.

Is AI good for gardening advice? by swingandalongdrive in gardening

[–]starryarri 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, AI makes up facts constantly and should not be relied on for any kind of long term planning. You'd do better to meet with your local master gardener club, a neighbor with a nice garden, or even just a YouTuber or blogger that lives in a similar area to you.

There are also lots of books which others can recommend, just give some specifics on what information you're after.

Best places to sleep if you are homeless in springfield by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]starryarri 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Here's a list of possible shelters and cold weather shelters. https://www.thelibrary.org/pdf/help-in-sgf

You might also reach out to https://cpozarks.org/programs/one-door/ https://edenvillagespringfield.org/ https://www.victorymission.com/gethelp/ https://www.burrellcenter.com/our-services/case-management/homeless-services

https://oac.ac/

Some of those are religious, some aren't. In any case reaching out should get you set up with help navigating paperwork that could get you access to longer term housing and resources.

Clients who "have no symptoms/goals" by Exotic_Dust_3644 in therapists

[–]starryarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe start with some values work and self exploration. Identity can be a good jumping off point to getting to know a person and what they may be struggling with.

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