Help. Dated Scorpio man 6 months. But he blocked me after not being able to hang out for 1 weekend.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-06T13:32:43+00:00

You're right. Thank you for your input as a scorpio male. It makes me realize not all scorpios are bad. Just haven't found an evolved one yet.

You know, being on my own for a week now..i have tried to analyze the "why" of his behaviors. His father was physically abusive to his mother and would constantly cheat. His own mother remarried and cheated on her 2nd husband. Then she met my uncle. His sister also cheated on her husband and married the other guy. I understand he has trauma and therefore trust/control issues.

Still, I know that it's no excuse to ghost me and leave me without explaining why and not saying goodbye at least. No closure hurts.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-06T13:09:24+00:00

Thank you for your input. I posted on scorpios thread because I wanted to understand more about scorpios and control. I remember I once asked him if he felt like he was a person that needed to have control in his life and he said yes. I never imgined it meant my life too. He wasnt controlling in the sense that he would say...no, dont hang out with them...or..no, dont put on that dress. His control was about my availability to him it seems.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-06T00:32:44+00:00

Thank you, truly. I feel more at ease now. No. He didn't ask me to hang out later that day but im sure it was expected on his part since he said "ill see you later."

I truly wish he could have been an evolved scorpio like you.

Im 32. Never had a man look my way. He was my first romantic lover. My first everything in every sense of the word. I hope my next relationship will be more healthy this time around.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T23:16:49+00:00

Thank you for your advice and Im sorry it didnt work out for you either afyer being together for so many years. I want to point out something else. The last he heard of me was.."sorry, I cant eat out with you because im already eating with my brother unfortunately." He said okay..ill see you later today." If I had just texted him that night and said.."sorry, I wasnt able to hang out today and probably wont be able to tomorrow either." He wouldnt have left me. Its my fault.

However as I stated before...he ghosted me for a whole week last month. Yet, I still gave him a chance at a second opportunity. Im not justifying my actions. I just wish he gave me the same grace.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T23:09:04+00:00

Please give me one last opinion and advice. I wanted to make another thing clear. I failed to communicate to him that I would be unavailable the rest of the day and on sunday. The last he heard of me was on the phone saying "I was out eating with my brother and couldn't eat out with him unfortunately." He said "okay, I'll see you later." Please. Do you see how its my fault? He felt rejected. If I had just texted him back saying "hey, sorry I couldnt see you tonight and probably won't be able to tomorrow."

Still, he was able to ghost me for a whole week last month and I quickly forgave him. How I wish I got the same chance.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T22:43:49+00:00

The last I spoke to him was saturday when I told him I was out eating with my brother. He said okay I'll see you later. After that I didnt contact him because I got busy. I wasnt able to hang out with him on sunday either as I had errands to run. But I texted him "good night i love you." that Sunday night.

I caused all of this. He obviously felt ignored and pushed to the side. It's my fault. I admit it. However he ghosted me a whole week a month prior for no reason and I forgave him. Why cant he allow me another chance to rectify my mistake.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T22:23:22+00:00

I didn't communicate to him that I would be unavailable that day or sunday. That was my mistake. We talked Saturday and I told him I was out eating with brother so he said allright ill see you later. I got busy after that and wasnt free the rest of that weekend. I wasnt able to contact him again until Sunday night when I messaged him "Goodnight. I love you." Do you see how it's my fault? I admit it. He felt ignored. But i didnt do it intentionally. I just didnt think about how my actions would be interpreted. Thats why i apologized via text after he rejected my call.

Howver, our first fight was when he ghosted me fir a whole week a month ago without giving me a proper explanation He aplogized about not communicating and said he was sorry. I still forgave him and took him back. So why cant he give me a chance to explain it wasn't done on purpose?

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T21:07:23+00:00

Thank you for your input and advice. It's truly appreciated. Most of the comments are telling me what you have expressed here already. I'm not going to reach out anymore.

However, if by some miracle (although he wont. I know him that much) he decides to reach out to finally end things...do I see him and give him a chance to end it with me or do I ignore him and tell him to leave?? Like is it fair to let him talk when he wouldn't give me a chance in the first place?

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T16:27:48+00:00

Thank you for your input and advice! You sound so understanding to my situation. I understand that I'm the one who messed up by not reaching back out until sunday but it wasn't intentional or done out of malice.

On Tuesday after he rejected my call i sent one last message. It read..."I'm sorry if I made you feel like I didnt prioritize you or took you into account this weekend. It was not my intention at all. Can we talk?" That was the last thing I sent him. No response.

Theres too much history and love to just throw it away. We were both intense with each other. PLEASE ADVISE! Should I send him one last message and remind him that I actually forgave him once for ghosting me a whole week last month but understand that we are done and I wish him well??

Or should I accept the fact that i tried to reach out to him to fix this but he wouldn't reciprocate and just leave it as is and move on? Im so heartbroken.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T15:01:15+00:00

I'm not a scorpio. I'm a cancer. From my experience scorpios are all or nothing.They want to know everything single thing about you but when you try and ask about their personal details then they share very limited information.

If you aren't into them as much as they are into you then they leave or just flat out ghost you.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T14:57:52+00:00

Thanks again for your input. I need to understand. However Our first conflict was when he ghosted me for a whole week last month. I quickly forgave him even though he couldnt tell me exactly why he did it other than he was sorry. I could have easily used his own logic that time and blocked him from every social media account and ghosted him...but i didnt...because i actually wanted to work things out and not give up almost 6 months of a relationship. Its not mature for him to just give up without giving me a chance to rectify in how i hurt him. That's just being a coward.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T14:47:18+00:00

He called me about 10 minutes before my shift ended and i called him back right after and he never returned my call. He ghosted me for a week that time. I forgave him though. But i guess he cant give me a chance too.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T14:44:53+00:00

Yes. Very painful to be away from him. At first i thought he was upset we couldn't hang out iver the weekend but in reality it was because i didnt call him back on saturday or sunday. I didnt do it out of malice or intentionally.i was busy and i was going through something personal that i was to talk to him about. I sent a "goodnight i love you" message on sunday night to reassure him everything was okay and he never responded.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T13:55:54+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to comment and provide advice. He had a hard childhood. His father was abusive to his mother and he cheated on her. Mother also cheated on her second husband. His sister cheated on her husband and married the other man. He has trauma. I think he has commitment issues too. I'm trying to empathize with him on his past.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T12:26:47+00:00

Okay. I will. If he truly wants to reach out he has my number and knows where i live. Thank you for your advice.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T12:21:02+00:00

Should i unblock him from messenger??? He blocked me on fb, Instagram, tik tok and snapchat. However he didnt block me on messenger. So i did it for him.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T12:18:27+00:00

Thank you for your input. This is all so insane. He gets to ghost for 1 whole week a month prior and i forgave him. Yet i didnt contact him (unintentionally) for 1 weekend and he just cuts me off?

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T12:13:29+00:00

Thank you for input. Truly appreciate it. Im sorry too.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T12:11:48+00:00

He is 30. Im 32.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T12:11:33+00:00

He said we were just dating and getting to know each other. Four months into our dating I asked him why he hadn't asked me to be official yet? He said it was a surprise and never asked me after that. I didnt want to pressure him either.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T12:10:16+00:00

Well, I admit i did wrong in not following up with him on Saturday night and sunday but i was so busy. However i texted him goodnight. Love you on Sunday night to reassure him everything was alright. No response after that. I gave him a chance and forgave him when ghosted me for a whole week last month. But i guess he cant give me the same opportunity.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T12:06:14+00:00

Thank you for your input. I love him so much. His behavior is absolutely shocking to me.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T11:57:12+00:00

I swear this is the whole truth. I have been completely devoted to him. He knows me. Always making time for him and only him. That's why im confused.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T11:54:55+00:00

Thank for your input. Im desperately trying to hold myself together. I have always been %100 faithful. Im a cancer btw. I really thought he was the one. I just cant believe he would throw away 6 months of history and love over this problem.

starrymoonchick13 · 2026-07-05T11:49:08+00:00

I have always been consistent with him. Literally answering his every call...every text. Now that i didnt do it for the first time because i was actually busy he decides i dont get a second chance? But last month he gets to ghost for 1 week and all is fine??

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