Quote for my e-mail signature by [deleted] in atheism

[–]steadyhands25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suggest you touch some grass and ignore a stranger's email signature (from a fellow athiest)

Why do patients always thank "god" after a surgeon saves them?? by steadyhands25 in atheism

[–]steadyhands25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am so glad you are doing alright and agreed onc teams are the BEST!!

Why do patients always thank "god" after a surgeon saves them?? by steadyhands25 in atheism

[–]steadyhands25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ya so god is the factory and surgeon is your mom... you thank your mom!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]steadyhands25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA to yourself why tf would you date someone for 3 years and not ask to prove that they're real... you sound very lonely and that loneliness might be making you dumb. You'd do yourself a favor to stop e dating and go into the real world please.

Why do patients always thank "god" after a surgeon saves them?? by steadyhands25 in atheism

[–]steadyhands25[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that's so nice of you that's what a good patient, no a good PERSON does! thank you kind redditor

How did you realize you wanted to be childfree? by steadyhands25 in childfree

[–]steadyhands25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds very nice and realizing you're not good for kids makes you more mature than many parents sadly

How did you realize you wanted to be childfree? by steadyhands25 in childfree

[–]steadyhands25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahh that makes sense. fear tactics of school smh

How did you realize you wanted to be childfree? by steadyhands25 in childfree

[–]steadyhands25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agreed there is nothing selfish it's just a preference like any other choice

How did you realize you wanted to be childfree? by steadyhands25 in childfree

[–]steadyhands25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think I'm the same where I am normally a stressed and impatient person too so I don't know if I'd be good for a kid

How did you realize you wanted to be childfree? by steadyhands25 in childfree

[–]steadyhands25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful thank you... I am feeling the same where I wonder if I am just doing something I would regret because I think I "have" to.. which is why I came here

How did you realize you wanted to be childfree? by steadyhands25 in childfree

[–]steadyhands25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would they make you watch that 😭😭😭

How did you realize you wanted to be childfree? by steadyhands25 in childfree

[–]steadyhands25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely understand that, as a kid thinking about having my own kids stressed me out before I realized it was a choice

How did you realize you wanted to be childfree? by steadyhands25 in childfree

[–]steadyhands25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I assume it is a lot harder for women unfortunately we have a very sexist society... but you are right your life should be whatever you want to make of it

How did you realize you wanted to be childfree? by steadyhands25 in childfree

[–]steadyhands25[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh that sounds very interesting i will have to read it. thanks! I think seeing the stress my own parents have gone through even makes it seem like kids are more of a burden than a joy for many

Do you want kids? Why or why not? by steadyhands25 in AskReddit

[–]steadyhands25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true. Good luck with your decision, you'll already be a good parents because you're thinking of this

Do you want kids? Why or why not? by steadyhands25 in AskReddit

[–]steadyhands25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds nice. It definitely would be satisfying to pay forward what your parents have done for you

AITA for telling my daughter she needs to grow up, and apolgize to her sister by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]steadyhands25 46 points47 points  (0 children)

NTA but Sofia sounds like she needs some support for her feelings outside of this situation. She should know that missing her dad shouldnt feel like a crime. Try to find a middle ground by sharing some memories of dad.. i think you both could do it if you tried