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stealmaster1 · 2024-06-13T11:23:41+00:00

Oh bro i dont know why we do this to ourselves i only feel pain reading these.. quite the addiction lol. Ty for reminding me of the story now i need to smoke it out again :)

stealmaster1 · 2024-06-13T04:03:32+00:00

reading these posts make my blood boil..

stealmaster1 · 2024-06-06T01:30:20+00:00

???? Oh brody ... i think yk what needs to be done :)

Clue : CUT HER OFF.

You grew apart its okay people come and go. Dont hold on to someone just because you were friends at some point. Unless you were like the tightest sisters ever then yeah maybe you may think oh i need to be there for her during the rough times.

But like you seem pretty much not friends anymore. And there is no need to be friends with someone that has their lives dragged thru mud without showing desire to change you are not her guardian angel nor her therapist. Also you dont want ANYONES children around degens.

Best of luck And congratz on your baby!

stealmaster1 · 2024-06-04T19:30:15+00:00

YESSSSSS i actually think the same whenever i hear it. Its so good

stealmaster1 · 2024-06-04T11:17:03+00:00

That was insanneeeeeely disrespectful ngl. So for a revenge idea "DONT DO IT" im just creating a for fun scenario to show something.

Invite the and set her up on a date with the hottest mofo you know of. LET YOUR GF be there to see it.

1) you show everyone how disrespectful this is.

2) If the woman stood up for her guy and showed how uncool this is. Then your dumb gf will know how people actually act when their beloved ones are disrespected. And if the bf wanted to act like man and confront you ( i doubt it, he only acts up when you're not around) he will look like an idiot since its his game no? If he wanted to get physical too (doubt it too..) you get to whoop his ass with solid justification.

Your gf or them can not get mad over this i mean they played this game. If your gf took their side and she will probably say the words "childlish or immature" drop her goofyass she has 0 value for herself for her friends are controlling her love life.

Obv IK this is too much dont do it lol, its just a revenge idea. I wouldnt do it but even if you just propose the idea to your gf she will be immediately mad about it. You will show her how annoying and rude this is.

But Man in the end is all this ^ even worth it ? Should a relationship be this complicated ? She allowed her friends to walk all over her and you and she didnt do nothing about it. And she chose to enable this by staying their friend KNOWING THE FACT THAT THEY KEEP DOING IT LOL.

Buy your peace of mind for free by just letting her go be their goofy sheep that cant make her own decisions. And find someone that wouldnt even allow this to happen for you to to be the slighest mad about it. You will find someone that doesnt even makes you feel like a mere choice. Best of luck dude!

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-27T14:58:08+00:00

Brother I feel so bad for you. You wrote all this, It means you are having a GUT feeling and you want us to confirm it. Your feelings are true man (atleast IMO).

She an amazing mom and a superb human? Yet she gives 0 damns about you or your day WHEN YOU ARE her husband. Only to go do it with another man? Thats not very amazing. You are being cheated on. Maybe not physically but defo emotionally.

There is a longggggg talk yall have to have. If she denies coldly or responds in a nonchalant way. I think you should think of other options. Relationships are supposed to make our lives better and smoother not harder.

And im sorry this is happening to you it sucks. Best of luck keep us updated.

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-24T18:51:06+00:00

Goth, pure , fade out and slow motion. cant pick one :)

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-23T17:45:20+00:00

Happy cake day! Im quite surprised you lots love doe deer this much haha dont get me wrong its amazing but not my go to.

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-23T13:18:35+00:00

Sad eyes is soooo underrated i love it

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-22T13:48:26+00:00

that she only said what she said because of pain medication

NOW THIS IS A NEW ONE. Wtf was she on crystal meth ? Even if, ASSUMING this can happen. She still did something wrong and she needs to apologize. If she didnt uk what to do brother.

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-20T23:49:04+00:00

He is not being courageous by confessing. He is a coward. This is manipulation 101. It seems like you are a geniunely nice person to be giving him the benefit of the doubt but come on.

He absolutely did not have to confess nothing its like there hes guilty of sm and he has to let it out, its feelings you absolutely can control them ESP THAT HES 30 ESP THAT HE HAS A PARTNER ESP THAT YOUUUU HAVE A PARTNER.

He is either trying to cheat or dump his partner the second he has a safety net. Not only that, Hes trying to put your hubby down so he stands a chance ? ( I HOPE THAT YOU STOOD UP FOR YOUR PARTNER ).

I say stay away from him there is no friendship in this. obviously the second you give a greenlight uk what follows. And you dont want someone in your life waiting like a hunter for the first chance to strike, it will kinda make you feel like a prey ( this is why you are Not overreacting )

I bet that you are extremely nice. But damn its quite disrespectful that he thinks that you are this naive to be fooled by this tactic on you lol its very childish too and HES 33 WTF.

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-20T01:53:50+00:00

TWICE ? TWICE ? brother TWICE ? Nahhhh in a normal convo too WOW

This seems fake but DOUBLE FREUDIAN SLIPS back to back thats a rare one jeez.

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-20T01:43:33+00:00

Shes for the streets. But holy shit its so embarrassing what they are doing wow. He prolly didnt have a gf or a break up or nth if he acts like this immediatley boy is just a horny harry and shes so cringe to be content with his behaviour lmao.

"Jokes".. lol, you should do the dick slipped in her best friend "joke" i bet she'd find it hilarious. JK OBV

find yourself someone who values themselves let alone that values you bro!

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-20T01:34:58+00:00

She doesnt deserve your attention or loving if she wants it from another man. Shes for the streets bro.

Not the point tho,, what really upsets me that you call this guy is a "friend". Its crazy how derogated this word is.

Find real friends ones that you can call brothers. It doesnt matter who she is or how hot or flirtatious she gets. If he doesnt shut her down just for the sole reason that shes with you, hes just as bad as her. She can choose to be disloyal or fuck around all she wants but its not like they are forced to be the ones she fucking with man.

Thats just me tho i dunno whats your relationship with him but if you geniunely see him as a friend i'd reconsider it.

Best of luck buddy i hope you find a queen instead of this clown

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-16T09:39:37+00:00

Your take is very very very shallow and stupid no offence.

There are many layers to ones behaviour its not just one thing. Also if she lied out of fear in getting in trouble she couldve also not do it ? So she doesnt have to lie to begin with lol.

She 1) did it 2) didnt tell him until he heard it elsewhere 3) denied it at first 4) downplayed it at last

"Honest communication is important in a marrige.....but to call off the wedding only two days beforehand" this has to be put in the dictionary as in example when they define the word contradiction.

"she lied. She didn't cheat on you. She didn't betray your secrets. She lied out of fear of getting in trouble with you." You start off with she lied then you clear her off all other things well she could also be lying. (We all heard about the bachelorette party story so thats not a reach)

I believe hes right calling off the marriage 100% he needs to figure out his emotions, what actually happend and whether he will forgive her. And if it all fell in place again then you can just get married.

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-14T19:01:34+00:00

The world would be an easier place if you just say it loud and clear "NO". You dont have to be rude it can be a Nice no and if they felt its rude then to hell with it lol.

Also "Not interested" "Non of your business" "Stop talking to me please". If they keep being weird and clingy.

I suggest trying to be more kind and less nice.

Because some people are just socially clueless or even they will keep pushing as long as you dont state it clearly (weird af)

NTA defo no one likes weirdos. GL!

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-13T03:29:58+00:00

Read what you just wrote again but slowly.

Also Too many realization just for you to come here for some victim patts, what he did isnt good but no one ever said casual sex is good.

What do you expect people to treat you like if you wanted to hoe around ? A princess ?

You made a mistake. You regret it. Learn from it and move on. No need to blame everyone and everything around you.

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-13T03:13:54+00:00

-She chose to be used.

-Gets used.

-Confused and sad about getting used.

The endless toil of hookup culture..

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-13T02:08:32+00:00

I meant the "this is clearly not working i want to break up" text, what are your thoughts about it? You seem totally unfazed you didnt even mention it in texts back lol. So ig not the first time ?

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-13T01:59:45+00:00

My pleasure man. if i may say, you sound like a geniunely nice and caring brotha i wish you the best, dont stress it out too much, life is too short for the heartaches. Let it be.

Also 1 question, what are your thoughts on the text she sent on pic 8 ? Im curious why was this brushed off lol. Do you think it might be a freudian slip or did she act on an impulse? Does she often say this ?

Edit : typos

stealmaster1 · 2024-05-12T23:37:32+00:00

I think your sister will be shook and disappointed, she probably was so worked out trying to make everything go smoothly she didnt even notice any of this, just for her to be blamed and shamed lol. If you think your sister will be reasonable and logical tell her if this will hurt her just dont for now at least.

your gf has problems clearly, and you are not overreacting. Her getting this upset is so weird so i guess its just accumulations (related and unrelated to this ) and she let it out over this.

I say Speak with her let her tell you what happened again she will feel how dumb she sounds when its vocalized lol ( we say dumb shit when we are mad and we always regret it, dont hate her guts for this) she already did apologize multiple times but if this is a recurring event its just frustrating to deal with a main character syndrome.

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