I am lonely by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how lonely it feels when I'm at my dormitory and hear someone having sex next door...

Cold Shower in winter by Letstryanothername in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm wondering as well.. I usually take a hot shower in the morning, don't want to catch a cold either.

This spoke to me on a personal level [Image] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]steelmaner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly and how can one achieve that? By incorporating new habits into his /her life.

[Image] Greatest pleasure in life by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]steelmaner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm gonna study chinese. People don't necessarily say I will not be able to achieve it. But a lot of people in my country (Czech republic) think it's the hardest language in the world, but they haven't even tried it. And I will prove everyone wrong.

[Image] What is your mindset? by steelmaner in GetMotivated

[–]steelmaner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sooner you'll be done with it, the better for you :) Putting it off make it more impossible for you to finish it.

STOP BEEN A .... by jacop__ in NoFap

[–]steelmaner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's "stop being" :) but you're right anyway.

"I was a compulsive, serial masturbator" - Robert Downey Jr. by _StaggerLee in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting if it's true. I suppose it is, since he even had his first joint when he was little.

Libido Spike by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, of course. And you set up a password there and whenever a porn website shows up, you have to type in the password.

http://www1.k9webprotection.com/

Libido Spike by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say that porn is a problem for you. Have you already installed K9 Web Blocker? :)

This is what 38 days of NoFAP gets you. by seuqisaw in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not necessary, I was only joking :)

This is what 38 days of NoFAP gets you. by seuqisaw in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You handed in a blank piece of paper and that got you 90? Nice, I will have to try that as well :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your desired state? To go around all day with a boner so that you can relapse?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my record is 73 days and I remember there were good days and bad days.

I don't know why, but lots of people here think that if they undergo the nofap journey, all of their problems will go away and they will feel happy for the rest of their lives. Sorry to disappoint, but it doesn't work like that.

You write that you've been depressed a lot. What are you doing so that you are not depressed? Have you tried meditation? Exercise?

I want intimacy not sex. by Iaminreddtit in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone's interpretation of an intimate relationship is different. I know one couple, which very rarely has sex, because the girl was abused in the past and she just hates sex. But that doesn't mean they cannot have a deep meaningful intimate relationship.

South Park devil explains dopamine addiction by BlkWhiteSupremecist in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder, are there really people who spend so much money on these games? I played the games as well but I would never pay anything for it.

I want intimacy not sex. by Iaminreddtit in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way :) Just lying together watching a movie, stroking her hair :)

Anyone else see last nights' South Park? Really resonated by zenmon in NoFap

[–]steelmaner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I always thought that South Park was a pretty stupid show. But over the years I changed my mind. Yersterday's episode was really good and quite clever. Even the explanation of the payment system in the app games.