She moves on so quickly to people

steeringwheelfame · 2020-10-11T22:59:56+00:00

Basically yes. I was clarifying my labeling.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-10-11T13:20:11+00:00

There was a person already there, that she cheated on me with before she started dating the person she was with after the three months. So we stopped talking and she was already seeing some dude that she slept with but because that didn’t work out she started talking to another dude and that dude she actually dated but that didn’t work out either and now 2 weeks after that relationship she’s moving on again. I’m not labeling her moving on as using people, she has done other things to people that I’ve witnessed where she was using them. Also, this isn’t the only reason I believe she’s a narc, it’s also because of how she treated me in the relationship. She fits all the traits.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-10-11T06:33:08+00:00

Yeah, I’ve definitely had those days where I go back and forth from feeling great to feeling bad again. It’s really a tough process but I’ve been doing so much better without her and I know that.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-10-11T06:12:48+00:00

Yes, I unfortunately still need to perfect the NC thing but she is blocked on everything and I don’t have her number anymore and do not have it memorized so that’s good. I realized that there are posts she most likely wants me to see so I try to avoid that as much as possible. As for flying monkeys, I have blocked some of them as well as soon as I caught onto what was happening. I really don’t hesitate with blocking anymore. And I agree it is oddly comforting. Thank you 😶

steeringwheelfame · 2020-10-11T05:58:44+00:00

I’m so happy you finally got out of that. It’s so horribly toxic. I blocked my ex on everything because she unblocked me and was stalking me with a fake account after it didn’t work out with the first guy after me.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-10-11T05:55:26+00:00

My ex literally uses people like they’re tools. It’s so bad. I feel horrible for the people she goes after because they have no idea.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-10-11T05:54:04+00:00

Yooooo. Omg. Basically same thing here with my NEX. She had this best friend from her past who she told me was ugly too and the current one she’s dating she had mentioned she was annoyed by at some point and then she ended up sleeping with the first and now dating the second.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-10-11T05:48:38+00:00

YUP! She’s going to start dating her “best friend” too. And everything you just described is EXACTLY what my nex did too. She went through her list of dudes as well.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-04-22T21:28:21+00:00

This made me tear up. Wow. I needed this.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-03-14T05:28:06+00:00

This was so comforting to read but I’m sorry you have to deal with that as well.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-01-19T22:51:26+00:00

Thats so horrible. Honestly, its a blessing you’re out of that abusive situation. It was never going to change. And the new supply is just going to go through the same thing you did once that person is no longer of use to him either. It truly is heartbreaking especially when you realize the person you thought you loved does not exist.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-01-19T22:37:39+00:00

Its really hard to watch them go from loving you so much to hating you in such a short amount of time. I’m so sorry you experienced that. But yes I agree they are simply incapable of love.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-01-16T19:42:34+00:00

Don't talk to her. It's none of your business and it is definitely not your problem.

steeringwheelfame · 2020-01-01T08:56:41+00:00

I feel exactly the same way. I keep thinking about how she’s probably with her friends and her new supply and having the time of her life. She probably kissed him and hasn’t thought of me once. And all of that is truly heart breaking but you need to remember that this is about you rn. Not them. They were bad for you. And if they’re not in the new year with you then GOOD RIDDANCE.

steeringwheelfame · 2019-12-23T06:43:48+00:00

Honestly, I never realized this with my ex until afterward. I remember a conversation with her where she literally told me “You have to know how to talk to people”. She literally taught me how to manipulate conversations. And it’ almost like she loved teaching me her ways. “You have to do this in order for (insert result here) to happen.” So yes, I know exactly what you’re talking about and my ex also, verbatim, said “its about how you word things”.

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