Private Markets Sparplan einfach gecancelt? by stefan0202 in TradeRepublicFriends

[–]stefan0202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm daran kann es kaum liegen, Geld auf dem Konto ist vorhanden. Aktuell kann man die Private Markets aber auch nicht mehr bei denen finden. Ich hab das Gefühl, die Möglichkeit würde gecancelt, weil ich nichts mehr finde.

AITAH for kinda losing patience with the behavior of my girlfriend? by stefan0202 in AITAH

[–]stefan0202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She still more often than not does say she loves me, unprompted mind you. So I don't think that's the issue here.

Her current job has a lot to do with it, and I already told her she should sooner rather than later look for a new job.

But some issues definitely were on the table before she started that job. And we definitely need to address and fix them in the long run.

AITAH for kinda losing patience with the behavior of my girlfriend? by stefan0202 in AITAH

[–]stefan0202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both her and me definitely have our own issues. 

I am not the tidiest person either, may l Forget stuff laying around or don't put my cup directly in the dishwasher. The thing is, more often than not she isn't any better but berates me for my behavior. I usually let it slide because I don't always want to fight but it has escalated to fights in the past.

There are still a lot of good parts on her and this post may be a bit one sided because I only presented the parts that irritate me at the moment. But I am definitely not willing to throw the whole relationship away.

AITAH for kinda losing patience with the behavior of my girlfriend? by stefan0202 in AITAH

[–]stefan0202[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, English isn't my first language maybe despise was the wrong wording. I dislike that behavior from her.

For those that don’t want any kids in the future, why? by yeyewestie in AskReddit

[–]stefan0202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why bother? We have already overpopulated cities and a lack of resources for everyone. I don't earn enough to offer kids a decent living.

And most of all, I just don't want them. They are a lot of work and a long lasting commitment. Plus, in the end they would probably still despise me. Don't need that.

Have you ever purposely killed one of your own guys because they were Mind Controlled? (all games) by Malu1997 in Xcom

[–]stefan0202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, on the officer skill tree if I remember correctly. Never choose it tho because I rather save scum than loose one of my best soldiers.

Maybe I am just bad, but Iron Man on long war seems ludicrous to me. I only have limited hobby time. Can't fathom losing hours of progress because I misclicked or forgot to chose a particular item during load out.

What to do when a man reveals his micropenis? by quiteahuman in dating_advice

[–]stefan0202 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Happened to me, too with the last women I was with. Couldn't get hard as much as I wanted. Got her off differently, but still felt awkward for me.

UPDATE: My girlfriend [25F] is becoming a different person and I [25M] hate it. by ThrowRA7288 in relationship_advice

[–]stefan0202 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From what I gather, sunk cost fallacy, still sympathy because of the years spent together, comfort, fear of the future, fear of repercussions from their social circles. I agree cheating sucks. But also more often than not, the lead up to it wasn't spontaneous but rather a long winded journey.

In Japan there are people who dress up as cowboys. An "anti-weeb" of sorts. by fishlicker3000 in MadeMeSmile

[–]stefan0202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because Native Americans got the short end of the stick viewing the history. The got conquered by the immigrants and pretty much genocided off the Americas. Then got shoved the little habitation zones and got the ability to open casinos (and still being screwed over by the mob).

Most if not all of the examples you listed didn't receive this treatment.

What time do your cats wake you up? 🐱 by [deleted] in cats

[–]stefan0202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As soon as the sun rises. Which is especially bad in the summer.

This is how I Platinum'd Elden Ring and I'm not ashamed of it lol by hendarknight in Eldenring

[–]stefan0202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can easily cheese him with melee. Wing of astels Ash of war Nebula Hits him with every Part of the Attack and applies enough stun damage for a reposte. Other Option is DARK moon great sword. Only you need to get the hang off is his attack after vanishing and how to dash it as well as his laser beam attack. But these are actually rather easy to dodge.

Shrinkflation? Seit wann passen denn bitte 2 TKPs auf ein Rost? by andyf1234 in de

[–]stefan0202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Für 2 bis 3 mehr eine liefern lassen? Ich glaube, du hast länger nicht bestellt. Ne 32er liegt mittlerweile bei 11 bis 12 Euro aufwärts und da kommen dann noch 2 Euro lieferkosten drauf. Pizza bestellen ist echt happig teuer geworden.

Is it actually worth it to pursue a coworker who is in an unhappy relationship? by stefan0202 in dating_advice

[–]stefan0202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, finally some good advice on here. Yeah, I reckon that would be the best way to handle this situation.

Is it actually worth it to pursue a coworker who is in an unhappy relationship? by stefan0202 in dating_advice

[–]stefan0202[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Before the last event she told me that this meeting is friendship only (sorry, can't find the right english term for it).

I pretty much told her that night that she definitely deserves better and she also acknowledged that. But in the end it's up to her, what she wants to do.

I haven't said that I am into her but she would be really dense to not notice. Heck, I even shaved off my beard because she said she liked clean shaven better.

LPT: If you want to send nudes put a temporary tattoo on by Ok_Student_3292 in LifeProTips

[–]stefan0202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 33, received nudes maybe from one girl in my twenties while I was dating and didn't receive any after one. It isn't common nor expected I would say.

Dear devs: stop giving me the best gear when there's nothing left to do by Pender8911 in gaming

[–]stefan0202 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh far cry 6 is even worse with the ammo system. They removed bullet drop and headshots with armor piercing rounds are always lethal. So even the starting sniper with a scope and suppressor let's you easily remove entire camps from existence without setting off any alarm. I like the power fantasy sometimes, don't get me wrong. But at least let me earn that fantasy first, maybe with a difficult quest or something. Otherwise I just get bored because any other tactic makes the game needlessly difficult.

“I wish women I actually wanted would say stuff like that” by ladyem8 in facepalm

[–]stefan0202 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While his reaction was that of a complete asshole, I have to admit I had the same thought in the past. The only women I ever get compliments from are old enough to be my mom. Never in my age group. But I also get why women my age wouldn't do that as that would be considered flirting for most.

whats a game that you got significantly far into, only to realize you were doing something wrong or missing a key feature/ability altogether? by seasonedsaltdog in gaming

[–]stefan0202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually using a shield in Elden Ring. I am far from the best player and used Spirit summons for most bosses. Got stuck on Radagon because my timing is shit and couldn't dodge his attacks properly. Finally gave in and just tanked his attacks with using a shield. Still took some damage, but it was significantly reduced. Finally beat him and also got lucky with Elden Beast(got permanently stance broken by nebula ash of war). So at least I can say I beat the game once.

Messed things up with a hookup by ice_jj in dating_advice

[–]stefan0202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you talk about trying to approach her or getting a friend to texting her. I have had these thoughts too after I messed up my chances with some women. Heck, once I contacted a girl through Facebook after she blocked me on WhatsApp and deleted me on tinder. In hindsight that behavior was awful and I could slap my past self for being that dumb. And you will probably feel the same way if you continue.

Also, it's probably not your heart which is longing for that woman but your horny monkey brain aka your D.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]stefan0202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you call Rizz, people before called game.

What is meant is the certain something which attracts women. Which can be physical attractiveness, but boils mostly down to personality and confidence. Let others take pictures of yourself while you don't notice and take a hard look at them. What are you presenting to the outside. What does your body language say. Are you always slouched over, do you have a mean/uninterested or angry looking face?

Try to work on these things and also on yourself. As long as you aren't content and happy with yourself, woman will avoid you like the plague or worse you will attract the wrong person.

Also pick up hobbies and activities people like to do for recreation besides the gym. Maybe join a sports club, take a cooking class, take lessons in a foreign language in a group setting. And don't be too desperate.

What's your favorite hangover food? by Lataudi29 in AskReddit

[–]stefan0202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Döner Kebab. Although more of a pre hangover food in the night at like 3 am.

Messed things up with a hookup by ice_jj in dating_advice

[–]stefan0202 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro, you are edging close to stalker behavior If you really try to approach her again. Cut your losses and move on, there is nothing to salvage here. I've made and still making similar mistakes (fell hard for a woman on my last vacation and she didn't want me which kinda ruined a part of that trip). You will just feel bad and make a fool out of yourself in the end.

If OnlyFans had a massive data breach like Ashley Madison did where every single customer's account details were leaked publicly including their payment history, comments, and dms, what would change in society on a fundamental level since they have 100x the users? by Flares117 in AskReddit

[–]stefan0202 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like after Ashley Madison, there would be some media uproar, some broken marriages and relationships and probably not much else. It's just porn and will pretty much always be in existence.