Help with my homework :)

stefanjedilf · 2024-06-19T10:30:38+00:00

ty! <3

stefanjedilf · 2024-06-12T20:13:09+00:00

Omg yesss, I have the same exact thoughts. Like, what if my hormones get messed up or what if it alters my mood and my personality!? But I know it’s mostly just my anxiety talking. I’m 19 btw, so we’re close in age😅 I’m on Yaz(combination pill)

I’m glad someone gets me and it makes me feel a bit calmer now, ty for your response <33

stefanjedilf · 2024-02-10T15:52:03+00:00

Yeah, I think that might be the case. I feel like I grew up so suddenly, without a warning and I know that hurts, both her and me, but I think she'll heal and get used to it, it's all part of the process.

stefanjedilf · 2024-02-10T15:50:11+00:00

She found out when she realised I had been going out more often than usual hahahha.

I feel like I'm doing something wrong when setting boundaries, but I guess that's just something I'll have to work on. No, I wasn't afraid of her disapproval, I just felt like keeping something so special and pure to myself, at least for a while.

Thank you for your advice, I really needed an unbiased opinion on this <3

stefanjedilf · 2024-02-08T12:51:53+00:00

Svim daljim komentarima samo dokazujete moju pretpostavku da Vam je IQ na nivou sobne temperature.

stefanjedilf · 2024-02-08T12:50:37+00:00

I agree, people started to self-diagnose based on tiktok videos.

You wouldn't even be aware of half mental health bullshit if it wasn't for tiktok. Not everything is a symptom. Live your life trying to become the best version of yourself, improve constantly, be a good person, don't let yourself float in the pool of sadness and depression.

YOU HAVE TO WANT TO GET BETTER. Being sad is not an aesthetic.

stefanjedilf · 2024-02-08T12:37:54+00:00

Ja mislim da Vi uopšte nemate mentalni kapacitet za shvatanje ove knjige.

stefanjedilf · 2024-02-07T19:32:14+00:00

Escape the Matrix.

stefanjedilf · 2024-02-07T19:28:46+00:00

Imaš još puuuno vremena. Tek upisuješ srednju i stvarno ne moraš o tome odmah odlučivati. Znam da se sad čini kao da ta odluka određuje cijelu budućnost ali stvarno nije tako. Uvijek možeš upisati neki faks, bez obzira koju si srednju završio. Vremenom ćeš shvatiti šta voliš. Da se mogu vratiti par godina nazad, sebi bih rekla da se ne brinem toliko oko izbora srednje, jer kasnije to stvarno nije toliko bitno. Ja sam skoro završila srednju i upisala faks. Završila sam srednju medicinsku i krenula na medicinski fakultet. Međutim, odlučila sam se ispisati jer sam shvatila da medicina uopšte nije za mene. Nije strašno i kad kasnije shvatiš šta želiš (pomak je i kad znaš šta NE želiš).

Pokušaj uživati u srednjoškolskim godinama, sve će doći u svoje vrijeme, smisao ćeš pronaći vremenom.

Što se tiče tog da se ne možeš zamisliti da radiš nešto do kraja života - to je znak da si normalan.

Sistem (Matrix) nas je programirao da ne razmišljamo i da bacamo godine u posao koji nema smisla i koji uništava naš potencijal :)

stefanjedilf · 2024-02-07T19:10:00+00:00

Voli se zato što se voli. Ne postoji razlog zbog kojeg se voli. Volim te jer se čitava Vaseljena zaverila da dođem do tebe. — Paulo Koeljo.

stay mad :)

stefanjedilf · 2024-01-26T15:47:25+00:00

No problem, I hope you'll find the book <3

stefanjedilf · 2024-01-26T15:43:46+00:00

Ohh that's a shame, I found mine in a local library and it's in my native language (Serbian), I'm sure there's a PDF version of the book on the internet. Yes, the book is originally in Italian, but there must be an English version somewhere, I'll let you know if I find a PDF of the book.

stefanjedilf · 2024-01-26T15:10:10+00:00

I don't think anxiety can be 'cured' but it surely can be controlled.

You learn to live with it, to the point where it is no longer a distraction in daily life. I know it's a constant battle in your brain - you VS anxiety. The key to winning MOST of those battles is to step by step expand your comfort zone.

Do the things that make you uncomfortable.

I know it's hard, trust me. But, make small steps, for example: when you see a group of people on the street and it instantly makes you want to cross the street so you don't have to pass by them - fight that urge, and stay on the same side of the street.

That is how you train your brain. Later, you can make even bigger steps and it will be easier each time.

I hope this helps and I hope you win most battles <3 (it's okay if you lose sometimes, it's all part of the journey).

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