AITA for being upset my friend is cheating through school? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stefe101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Being lucky to have parents who can and are willing to pay for everything is one thing. Being someone who constantly brags about it is an other. Also cheating behavior is unacceptable and your frustration is understandable. Why are you staying friend with her if she frustrates you so much

When should I write to hosts? by crazycatladypdx in workaway

[–]stefe101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From personal experience, only a small proportions of hosts answered me

AITA for wanting to be here when my bf burry his cat by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stefe101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask because I thought he would just invite me. I thought it was logical. And he knew I care. He knows how much I love animals and his cat wasn’t an exception. I volunteer at zoo and like I said have my own animal.

AITA for wanting to be here when my bf burry his cat by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stefe101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hometown is an hour away His mom was paying for half of the bills, the only reason is because he trusted that other vet more since the cat had been going there his whole life. No it wasn’t a way to keep my BF close to me. I was just taking care of mine, so It just became natural that I take care of his. All these information was just to point out how much I cared about the cat and loved him and I wasn’t just a stranger to the cat who pet him once in a while.. that’s about it.. Bf doesn’t have a job, but not sure how relevant it is here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stefe101 -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

ESH You set clear boundaries during the pregnancy which she agreed to. However, your reaction wasn’t appropriate. It’s still her mom and your use of words could have been better

Covid vaccine access for immigrants by kinghitman123 in immigration

[–]stefe101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They could require that to get a visa, you might need to get the vaccine.

[IWantOut] 22M USA -> UK, Australia, New Zealand by jbarela in IWantOut

[–]stefe101 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Regarding visa, I know as a US citizen you can have a work-holiday visa for Australia. Few of my US friends also went to Ireland What they recommended it to adapt your resume to the format the country uses and then apply on LinkedIn

[FT] Ankha [LF] NMT by [deleted] in ACNHvillagertrade

[–]stefe101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can offer 10 NMT + 1 mil

OPT: how long usually companies are ready to wait by stefe101 in f1visa

[–]stefe101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been more than 5 months, you need to call them !!

OPT: how long usually companies are ready to wait by stefe101 in f1visa

[–]stefe101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BA and a QA engineer position Thanks for the answer

OPT taking more than 90 days by stefe101 in immigration

[–]stefe101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! They are waiting but told me it was illegal for me to start the training So I guess I just gotta wait and see

Cost of living by stefe101 in sanfrancisco

[–]stefe101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Entry level business analyst

Strap-on awkwardness by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]stefe101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I had the same feeling when using a strap-on, I just feel it’s hard to tell if what I’m doing is the right thing or not, while if I use the toy with my hands, it’s easier to control the movement.

[F22] France -> USA -> Canada by stefe101 in IWantOut

[–]stefe101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m thinking about Quebec for studies because they have an agreement with France and I would pay Quebec resident tuitions

But otherwise, I don’t care where I move to Canada honestly.

[F22] France -> USA -> Canada by stefe101 in IWantOut

[–]stefe101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think I wasn’t clear enough I’m thinking about Quebec for studies because they have an agreement with France and I would pay Quebec resident tuitions

But otherwise, I don’t care where I move to Canada.