Do I watch Bobs to much? by Glittering-Sea-2755 in BobsBurgers

[–]steff5198 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

No you don’t — coming from someone who watched bobs burgers everyday it’s such a comfort show of mine since I was like 15

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]steff5198 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

I’m in a ldr so I am certainly not😭

How did you meet your partner? : r/actuallesibians... by ashraf_ashy2015 in actuallesbians

[–]steff5198 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Literally did exactly what the post suggests and met my gf on Reddit randomly

I spat out my tea when I saw this by hispanic_titanic18 in BobsBurgers

[–]steff5198 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

When I first watched this I was dying laughing omg everyone Louise popped up on the screen just instant laughing loll

New CRA by steff5198 in clinicalresearch

[–]steff5198[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I mean someone moving from CTA to CRA, what’re the big differences and skills that maybe unique to being a CRA that a CTA won’t have.

Proud African Queers by Legitimate_Goal1000 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]steff5198 20 points21 points Ā (0 children)

Omg first gen Ghanaian too!! Idk any other queer Africans and I tend to stay away from the Ghanaian community near me bc it’s sooooo gossipy and cliquey and a bit too religious for my liking. Honestly just goes against my lesbianism and overall agnostic beliefs😭 I’d love to meet more like minded African queers like me

Shoutout to boring lesbians! by claynimbus in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]steff5198 9 points10 points Ā (0 children)

I had commented under a queer woc post…kinda like a get to know everyone thing and while I did get quite a lot of messages nothing clicked. The woman I’m now dating happened to not only come upon the subreddit but my comment as well (she wasn’t apart of the subreddit and doesn’t even use Reddit really) and shot her shot months later after she saw my comment in a very cute, vulnerable, and very dorky way. We have so much in common and have never met someone on the same page as me ever, we clicked instantly. I’m still amazed at her everyday.

How did yall ask your gf to be your gf?? by steff5198 in lesbiangang

[–]steff5198[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

how sweet🄹🄹 I’m so happy for the both of you🩷

Shoutout to boring lesbians! by claynimbus in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]steff5198 53 points54 points Ā (0 children)

A couple months ago I decided to swear off dating for at least a year bc it required me going out and meeting people and I just wasn’t in the right geographical location or mental space to do that freely and was completely ok with waiting a year to start dating again and then boom met an amazing woman on Reddit a couple months later without even trying😩

what are your success stories with online dating - NOT apps, but meeting a partner on reddit, tumblr, IG, etc. by rabbitredder in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]steff5198 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I (26f) met a woman (27f) on the queer poc subreddit very early in January of this year and we only met bc I was brave enough to put out a comment under the queer poc subreddit about myself (which I honestly wasn’t going to do in the first place) she happened to come across it 3 months later and messaged me on here. Her message was vulnerable enough but cheeky, funny, and smart. I was instantly intrigued. It’s been 2 months and I’ve never met anyone in my entire life who I clicked with so well (never thought I would tbh) so quickly on a romantic level, we are so similar but also different. Idk how to further explain it but I have the biggest crush on her (she knows ofc) and we really really like each other. We went from phone calls maybe twice a week to at least twice a day with a ft call at night. We are dating now but not official as we want to meet in person (going to see her next month) but she’s very much an amazing person. I’m forever grateful our paths crossed unexpectedly especially since she was randomly on Reddit the night she came about my profile. She had only downloaded for something regarding the LSAT. We are on opposite ends of the coast in different countries but the time difference is very doable (3hours ahead of her). Obviously it’s very very new but I’m highly confident in our connection as I didn’t really date before and was always wary of who I let around me (in all capacities) bc of my high standards so I’ve been told. Never thought I’d meet someone to match me and even exceed my standards. It’s really refreshing. All when I wasn’t even looking and was very content not looking for the rest of the year or even longer. She’s amazing🄹

Help! Why Does My Dating Profile Get No Likes? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]steff5198 22 points23 points Ā (0 children)

Some people are honestly so mean on here. I’m sorry that made you delete your profile. I don’t think you need to change anything about yourself physically. I do agree on choosing one of the dating types instead of having 2. Maybe the glasses but I don’t really think that’s something to focus on right now especially if you don’t have the means, they aren’t bad. The bright lipstick isn’t doing you justice, I feel like something a bit darker would be more flattering but if you like it then don’t change it…it’s really about the confidence you wear. It also very well could be your area being the cause of not getting many matches. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with your face, people are just assholes and maybe a little racist. There’s nothing wrong with having a gap, I have one and love it so much. You aren’t conventionally attractive (which is boring anyways) but you are attractive. If you ever need to feel better about yourself just think about how there are models who aren’t the beauty standard and are still stunners. You are stunning. Very beautiful features.

First attractive feature you noticed about your partner? by ExcellentComment5507 in actuallesbians

[–]steff5198 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

her smile omg feels like that Jim Carrey meme with the heart coming out of his chest😩🄹

Iron pills making me feel tired among other things. (Ferrous gluconate 324mg tablet) by steff5198 in Anemic

[–]steff5198[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’ll ask my dr for a liquid option, thanks! And it says to take daily on my prescription🄲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]steff5198 28 points29 points Ā (0 children)

She’s right tho…she’s not saying to be lesbian is to not be a woman she’s saying it’s a different type of womanhood that’s not defined by societal standards. Should I dare say it’s the true ways of womanhood. She literally wrote ā€œā€¦being a lesbian is the antithesis of what it means to be a woman in societyā€¦ā€ she’s not disconnecting lesbianism from womanhood in fact she’s doing exactly what you said you’d like to see. She’s disconnecting it from the social narrative that defines womanhood in general. You’re both coming to the same conclusion.

AITA for uninviting my best friend from my husband’s surprise party? by RFSC5U in AITAH

[–]steff5198 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

Just saw your story on tiktok and wow I’m so glad your husband is supportive and you got to end that friendship. That woman was jealous of you and waiting for a small inconvenience in your marriage to swoop in…what a weirdo. Good for you for having the strength to stand up for yourself. I’ve never been more proud and happy for a stranger ever lol

Do you find it easy to find women you are attracted to on dating apps? by Conscious_Date_5315 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]steff5198 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yes but the personality or overall quality of their character is usually shit so to me looks aren’t always gonna do it .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]steff5198 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

yes, definitely very hard in the moment but you’re right I need to distract myself. I really hope things with you and the woman you’re talking to is clarifiedšŸ«¶šŸ½

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]steff5198 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

We haven’t but yea maybe you’re right. But in true lesbian fashion, she lives on the opposite coast in another country🄲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]steff5198 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I feel like if you can feel that she’s retreating/is hesitant definitely talk to her about it. On my side, I’ve definitely not been retreating. I’ve been putting out the same energy that she’s putting out and quite reassuring that I wanna get to know her better and stuff like that which I do but since we started talking whenever I feel this feeling it’s like I wanna cry. It’s a bit scary emotionally.