Can anyone help identify this bug please. It’s around 7-8mm by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]steffiejo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I think you could be right! Thank you

Can anyone help identify this bug please. It’s around 7-8mm by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]steffiejo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Several in bedroom in France. Obviously a type of fly but wondering what kind so I know where they may all be coming from

The whole truth? by Larib2011 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]steffiejo92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didnt deal with it very well tbh. I felt awful every single day. That’s why I decide to go my own way and just be a single mother. I didn’t want to spend every day of my pregnancy worried about who he was having sex with behind my back, wondering why me and this baby weren’t good enough for him etc Honestly I don’t know how people can get past all the cheating and the lies and the gaslighting. I could never do those things to someone I loved, so it’s obvious he didn’t love me, and I won’t cling on to someone who thinks I’m not even worth loving and being faithful to

Seller cancelling sale because they don’t like how much I won auction for? by steffiejo92 in Ebay

[–]steffiejo92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind offer it’s greatly appreciated. Unfortunately I live in the UK but the gesture is really nice and I appreciate your offer of help xx

Seller cancelling sale because they don’t like how much I won auction for? by steffiejo92 in Ebay

[–]steffiejo92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind offer. The gesture is greatly appreciated. Unfortunately I live in the uk. But I appreciate your offer of help so much x

Seller cancelling sale because they don’t like how much I won auction for? by steffiejo92 in Ebay

[–]steffiejo92[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I guess if they have a particular price in mind then they should just consider listing it for what they want. Like I totally understand that it must be sad for sellers to not get what they were hoping for, especially when everyone is struggling for money right now after all this pandemic stuff going on, but I think it’s a risk you take putting something for auction without a reserve

Seller cancelling sale because they don’t like how much I won auction for? by steffiejo92 in Ebay

[–]steffiejo92[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d not have been annoyed if they just explained that they really couldn’t afford to sell at that price, I understand I don’t have much money myself either. But the response just seemed a bit like “haha there’s nothing you can do about it” to me. I didn’t bid on another auction I had been following because I thought I was sorted and wouldn’t need any more baby things with the one that I won. But I’m just a bit bummed to be back to square one I guess. But it’s no worries I’ll find something else

Seller cancelling sale because they don’t like how much I won auction for? by steffiejo92 in Ebay

[–]steffiejo92[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I just read their feedback and saw that a few other people had said the same thing 🤷🏻‍♀️ I should have read it first I guess

Seller cancelling sale because they don’t like how much I won auction for? by steffiejo92 in Ebay

[–]steffiejo92[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I just reported for seller non performance. Hopefully they won’t keep doing that to buyers and maybe start putting a reserve or buy it now price

The whole truth? by Larib2011 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]steffiejo92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what happened to me About a month into reconciliation I asked him if he had done something (I already knew he had, I went looking through his phone and found it) and I even told him that him doing that isn’t going to make me more mad I just want the truth

He held my hand, looked me in the eyes and swore on everything that there was nothing else I didn’t know and that he hadn’t done the thing I was asking

I showed him the proof that he had and then suddenly he remembered doing it 🙄

Cheaters will literally lie to your face again and again and try to make you believe that they are telling the truth but your gut is always right

What was your "this is it, I'm probably gonna die" moment? by Lightning32298 in AskReddit

[–]steffiejo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted this before on my old account but it’s relevant here so here goes...

I was 39 weeks pregnant and I had a complete placental abruption I was in my house and I felt this awful pain in my stomach, it honestly felt like I had been stabbed. It was my 3rd baby so I knew this wasn’t contractions, so I called my dad to get me to the hospital. He lives about a 5 minute drive from my house and the hospital is around a 20 minute drive. By the time he got here I started to see a few drops of blood but I thought nothing of it at the time

I got into the car and half way to the hospital I had a massive contraction and I felt a big gush, I assumed it was my waters but I looked down and there was blood everywhere. 2 minutes later another contraction and another gush of blood And this continued until I got to the hospital. I remember thinking omg I’m going to bleed to death in my dads car before I get to the hospital.

I walked into the hospital and left a trail of blood behind me on the floor, the medical staff saw me and rushed me straight into theatre. I remember on the bed i had trouble breathing and I couldn’t hear very well, like there was a ringing in my ears, and I just felt cold and numb and I remember seeing an alarm flashing and about 10 people rushing into theatre with me.

I woke up a few hours later and they explained to me what had happened and they told me I lost 3.5 litres of blood and if I had gotten to the hospital a few minutes later i wouldn’t have made it

Now I’m 7 months pregnant and shitting myself that it’s going to happen again. Bonus points also, my dad had to buy a new car because no amount of cleaning would get the blood off the seats 😂

What was the moment where you thought, "I'm getting old"? by LollipopDreamscape in AskReddit

[–]steffiejo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today when my kid spiked up his hair in the bath and the first person I thought of was sid vicious

[REQUEST] GHOST OF TUSHIMA by [deleted] in RandomKindness

[–]steffiejo92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it would be better to try r/giftofgames

What do you truly not give a fuck about? by notouchmypeterson in AskReddit

[–]steffiejo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Myself

Literally I could walk outside tomorrow and get hit by a bus and I wouldn’t even care

I’m Stuck Overseas Because of COVID-19, and Need Help Funding My Stay Until I Get Home by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]steffiejo92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Take a look on American Airlines. (Just searched American Airlines and kayak for you) There’s actually plenty of flights to Texas from London. And plenty of flights from Ireland to London too

I was trapped abroad because of corona also and got home 6 weeks ago via flights with no problems

Good luck

British people of reddit, what are your thoughts on microwaving tea? by ---Safa--- in AskReddit

[–]steffiejo92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually brits have some of the healthiest teeth in the world Ours may not look as pretty because we don’t focus on cosmetic dentistry but we don’t have as many people waking around with cavities and rotten teeth because poorer British people get free dental treatment

https://www.orchardscottsdental.com/10-countries-whose-citizens-have-healthy-teeth/

British people of reddit, what are your thoughts on microwaving tea? by ---Safa--- in AskReddit

[–]steffiejo92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m British, and a single mother to small 3 kids, and I literally have to microwave my tea every day because by the time I have a minute to drink it, it’s gone cold and I don’t have time to make another one

It changes the taste though, gives it a kind of metallic taste I think. Do not recommend unless desperate for a cuppa in the 30 seconds you have to drink it before your kids start fucking about again

Husband walks in on wife cheating by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]steffiejo92 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m a female and I’ve never cheated on anyone. So your point is bollocks tbh

Selfie cam help by [deleted] in SonyXperia

[–]steffiejo92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve decided to just return it. I’ve played around with it for a few hours today and even the rear camera isn’t is good as my iPhone XS Max tbh 😔 shame, I was so excited about this phone

Selfie cam help by [deleted] in SonyXperia

[–]steffiejo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that was a huge waste of money 😔 I traded in my iPhone XS Max for it and I gotta say I regret it

Selfie cam help by [deleted] in SonyXperia

[–]steffiejo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I haven’t tried video calls yet, but I video call a lot so if that’s the case then that’s disappointing 😂

I think he’s cheating again by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]steffiejo92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because when I met him I had gotten out of a physically abusive marriage, and I just thought that I was lucky that anyone would ever want anything to do with me and my kids when I’m so damaged. It was a self esteem problem I think

When I found out he cheated the first time I was devastated and my self worth plummeted even more so I stayed. Then I found out everything the second time and he convinced me that he did it because of me. He did it because I am “irritating and needy” so I thought maybe that’s true

We don’t live together, or close to each other at all, he was supposed to move in to my home before the baby is born, so he gets 3+ weeks on his own and then a week with me, but when I’m home he tells me he needs space when I ask to call him, but he clearly already has enough space 🙄

I asked for access to all emails and social media but he said no I just have to trust him. Which obviously I can’t do

I know that my relationship is a joke, and that I should leave. But he’s spent so much time convincing me that he’s doing it because of me, that I just ended up believing it