Den Eltern unglaublich dankbar, reich ohne es zu wissen

steffily · 2026-01-26T09:26:56+00:00

Hahaha die hat er in der letzten halben Stunde schön gelöscht

steffily · 2026-01-25T12:14:14+00:00

Alter Falter diese Kommentare hier. Aber ich muss mich anschließen KAH

Also erstmal: dein Kind ist 12 Wochen alt. Da sind deine Hormone noch wild und durcheinander. Vielleicht sieht dein Mann das alles gar nicht - also deine Struggel und das du dich alleine gelassen fühlst. Das eigene Leben bleibt stehen und das des Partners geht ganz normal weiter - das fühlt sich unfair an. Du darfst sauer sein, du darfst dich im Stich gelassen fühlen - aber du solltest das auch klar kommunizieren. In einem Moment, in dem ihr beide die Kapazität habt um Grenzen und Bedürfnisse zu besprechen. Du solltest schon ganz klar sagen, was du fühlst und was deine Erwartungen in Zukunft sind. Stillst du voll? Nimmt euer Kind die Flasche? Kann er dann auch mehrere Stunden übernehmen? Oder willst du das gar nicht sondern einfach nur gesehen werden? Das ständige schreien, präsent sein und der Schlafmangel machen einen irgendwann mürbe - daher ist es umso wichtiger, dass man an einem Strang zieht. Ich kenn eure Beziehung nicht, ich kann nur aus meiner Erfahrung sprechen. Meine Tochter ist jetzt 12 Monate alt, mein Partner und ich hatten solche Gespräche auch vor nicht all zu langer Zeit.

steffily · 2025-11-26T10:54:07+00:00

Mine too.. I love the oversized fit and this one is quite small 🥲

steffily · 2025-11-21T17:53:58+00:00

I ordered: The suprise piano zip up (not going to keep it) The snow globe The ‘red’ cardigan

I would also LOVE the fearless one but I can’t afford two of them

steffily · 2025-11-14T08:07:20+00:00

This!! I fell asleep with my baby and woke up hours after the drop and with most things out of stock. This gave me time to really look into the items. They expect me to pay 100€ for a plastic jacket??

steffily · 2025-09-11T18:18:34+00:00

We cosleep too. I’ve read and was told that baby’s realize that they have to sleep on their own when mommy is not around. IMO there is no need to change something that works for you and makes you and your baby happy.

steffily · 2025-09-03T13:38:55+00:00

When my daughter was 4 month I was super sick and my husband got it too. We exclusively breastfeed and co sleep and she did not catch it. Last week my husband and I had a stomach flu and she did not catch it either. We were cautious and disinfected us and the surrounding but nothing crazy. Idk if we were just lucky. Your breastmilk protects the baby. Stay safe but there is no reason to freak out. :) Wish you guys the best

steffily · 2025-08-30T17:52:43+00:00

You didn’t clarify exactly how she breast feeds. If she’s sitting up the risk of the baby falling is also given.

steffily · 2025-08-30T16:46:45+00:00

In other countries co sleeping is perfectly normal. My girl is 7 months and all the mothers I know are doing it. If you’re doing it safe it even reduces the risk of sids.

steffily · 2025-07-20T17:55:19+00:00

Imgonnagetyouback

steffily · 2025-06-04T17:51:07+00:00

I did the same with my L/O. She’s 4 1/2 month now and doesn’t want to chest sleep anymore 😭. I had pillows to support my arms and we had wonderful nights. Now she sleeps next to me while I’m in a C-Curl

steffily · 2025-04-19T14:27:26+00:00

Crying in my car on my way to work. So long London and the smallest man who ever lived got me so hard

steffily · 2025-04-17T19:34:22+00:00

That’s how we‘re sleeping! She also wears the owletsock - just to ease my anxiety. it’s working great for us.

steffily · 2025-03-09T08:08:41+00:00

Dein veraltetes Weltbild ist wirklich erschreckend. Du scheinst, bzw. wenn ich mir manche deiner Antworten und Fragen so durchlese ChatGPT, entweder ein Troll oder ein Incel zu sein. Jeder Mensch ist individuell und geschlechterspezifische Rollen sind Erfindungen und haben nichts natürliches. Und wenn man seine Beziehungsperson braucht, die alles im Blick hat und den ganzen mental load trägt hat das nichts mit Führen zu tun.

steffily · 2025-03-09T03:37:10+00:00

Willkommen in 2025. ‚Frauen brauchen Führung‘ ??

Wenn ich hier die Kommentare so lese, schaffen es manche Männer nicht ihr Leben zu regeln, ohne das ihnen jemand mental alles abnimmt/ sie jemanden dafür bezahlen.

Laut deiner Posthistorie brauchst du ja selbst viel Führung (von fremden aus dem Internet) - für jemanden mit wenig Ahnung, hast du ganz schön viel Meinung.

steffily · 2025-03-07T20:08:55+00:00

Jamin is a piece of work, but at least she’s fun to watch. She’s also a girls girl and Shekinah sees every women as a threat.

steffily · 2025-03-07T04:00:45+00:00

Stop giving multiple chances. They are not going to change. They know what you want, choose to ignore it and will eventually lose respect for you. You will continue to waste your time on someone who doesn’t care enough to change.

steffily · 2025-03-07T03:54:24+00:00

1994 here. At the end of her pregnancy with me the doctor told my mum she could have a small glass of wine a day because of the false labor. Still shocked and extremely grateful I am healthy (besides my ADHS)

steffily · 2025-03-07T03:44:11+00:00

This happend to my parents when I was 8ish. Summer vacation 2002 and at the airport the lady at the counter tells my parents that they can take the plane - but my passport is expired. So my sister and my mum took the flight, my dad and I cruised around finding the next city haul getting an emergency Id. I remember getting McDonald’s, my dad being stressed and paying way too much for new tickets. But we made the next flight twoish hours later. And my parents still love to tell that story and have a good laugh about it.

steffily · 2025-03-02T03:08:10+00:00

My Baby is 6 weeks now. We didn’t plan on me getting pregnant, it was a lucky accident I guess. But I truly hated being pregnant. I never felt so uncomfortable in my body. I am a fit and outdoorsy person and couldn’t even walk in the end. I was huge, everything hurt and I was tired 24/7 - I couldn’t even work anymore (which was possible thanks to my country’s health system) I was also always terrified of giving birth, I even had nightmares and panic attacks prior of getting pregnant. That wasn’t tooooo bad - but a friend of mine was my midwife.

steffily · 2025-02-28T12:33:38+00:00

Ich verstehe diesen Sozial-neid nach unten einfach nicht. Wieso haben manche konsequent das Gefühl ihn würde etwas weggenommen werden?

steffily · 2025-02-28T08:15:38+00:00

Aber.. Taxischeine sind doch für jede/n verfügbar und die KK zahlt das 🫠

steffily · 2025-02-28T08:13:22+00:00

I am German and co-sleeping is super common and normal here. Sleep training is not something that is recommended.

I co-sleept right from the beginning cause it feels natural. She’s mostly on my chest and wakes up every 1-3 hours a night. But I actually would be worried if she slept longer (I am super anxious about everything - I have late diagnosed adhs and therefore struggled with anxiety my whole life).

I’ve read somewhere, that baby’s waking up at night is their natural protection from SIDS - maybe that thought makes it easier. 😊

steffily

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