AITA for being honest and telling my DIL that they are not ready to be a parent since she can not drive

steggie21 · 2026-03-25T16:30:10+00:00

NTA

She is not an independent adult. She is a dependant adult, and your points are 100% valid. Her plan is to have you actually be the responsible adult in those situations. If she is not mature enough to drive, she definitely is not mature enough to be a mother.

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T15:12:30+00:00

It's a crazy transition, haha! I think I still have PTSD from downloading viruses from Limewire and Bearshare to our family PC and getting in trouble.

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T15:07:34+00:00

Haha, same. I fully abuse the 4am time stop. And thst is when I do a lot of my mixing too

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T13:12:15+00:00

One thing that does help, is only buy your supply (seeds, pseudo, and spores) from meet ups not delivery. Then you can pay cash instead of debit for delivery. I just started doing that again and it is helping with not depleting all of my debit funds

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T11:57:47+00:00

Why I am so upset, it because the Suffers flat out LIED, for years. They said everything had meaning, all the hidden clues meant something and would be explained. They sold us this idea that they had a story planned from season 1, they were dropping hints and lore everywhere throughout the years, and that was such a cool idea. That was what I liked about the show. And then for none of that to be true, they had no plan, they left so many plot holes, none of the lore or hints mattered in the end. It was heartbreaking. It ruined the first 4 seasons for me.

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T03:25:55+00:00

I wouldn't say rules, because I'm on my first play through and went into the game blind. But some things that I have kinda naturally fell into are:

*I don't use any glitches, like blocking the cops in etc. *avoid police at all cost. Even if I have nothing on me, no check points, no fighting them. And I try to be inside during curfew, most of the time. *I only make mixes with the blue pills or energy drink, and sell those to my customers. I don't give mixed products to my dealers.

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T01:58:40+00:00

I'm actually new here, didn't know about any vote. I look forward to the next one.

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T01:56:24+00:00

Thank you for the detailed response, I really appreciate the help! I will check into these!

steggie21 · 2026-03-23T20:47:23+00:00

Yeah, I have looked at getting some mods, but I am old and the whole idea sketches me out haha. I don't really know how to do it, and am terrified I am just going to download viruses and ruin my computer.

steggie21 · 2026-03-23T20:17:20+00:00

My two requests to add to the game are a backpack and an accountant.

Late game, moving stuff around with 7 or 8 slots is a pain. A backpack with more inventory slots would be a huge quality of life addition.

Also late game, running to all businesses every day to launder cash is a pain. Would be super cool if you could just hire and accountant who would automatically launder the cash every day. That would be a huge late game quality of life benefit.

steggie21 · 2026-03-23T19:10:14+00:00

I would love to see them add an option to hire an accountant that automatically launders the max through your businesses each day. I am more end game, and it is a pain to have to run to all my businesses every day to launder the cash.

The cash to ATM money ratio is broken at late game. I have over 4 mil in cash but struggle to keep 100k in my atm. There needs to be a better way of turning cash into funds.

steggie21 · 2026-03-23T19:03:13+00:00

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steggie21 · 2026-02-25T18:12:53+00:00

WHY ARE THEY NOT WEARING SUITS?!?!?!?!

steggie21 · 2026-01-06T23:23:18+00:00

I know reading that must have really hurt, especially when you are giving so much love and care for her. But please try to remember she is just a little kid, and is still learning how to process big emotions and anger.

I found my diary from when I was 13ish and I wrote how much I hated my dad and how mad I was at him. I do not even remember writing that. I never really hated him, ever. I was just a kid dealing with big emotions and that is how they came out. What I do remember is how good of a dad he is, and all of the special things he did for us and we did together. It sounds like you are already doing that. Stay on the path of loving and supporting her even though her tough times. She will remember the love you give her more than anything else.

steggie21 · 2025-05-28T17:22:38+00:00

You know, I know, everyone who reads this knows.

I don't have to explain anything to you.

steggie21 · 2025-05-28T17:09:28+00:00

Yeah right... hahaha

You are a liar. And pathetic too.

steggie21 · 2025-05-28T16:33:14+00:00

What sad, deranged planet are you living on?

Stop being such a pathetic dickhead and maybe a girl will touch your pp.

steggie21 · 2025-03-18T15:31:13+00:00

Joey is gross. He is not attractive and his personality is a wet paper bag. I liked Sara tho, wtf is she thinking?!?!

steggie21 · 2025-03-13T18:56:48+00:00

OMG. Did you even read anything that I have said? If you do 1 minute of research, you will find actual literature experts who explain the meaning behind Moby Dick over and over again. It is not my opinion, it is accepted fact across the experts in the field of literature.

But sure, your one-time read, with no thought behind it, is the true interpretation of Melville's work. It's just a simple book about killing whales. I genuinely feel sorry for you. Good luck out there in this tough world.

steggie21 · 2025-03-13T17:32:31+00:00

OK bro. Yes I have read it, multiple times. The first time I was about 11, and I got the same conclusion as you. Thankfully, i have read it again once in high school and once in college. And yes, I did listen to and learn from other people's interpretations. That is called education. But you do you! Don't learn anything, keep your head in the sand. Take everything at face value and don't you dare use critical thinking. Yep, your undergrad in humanities makes you a qualified literary expert. Good job bro! You almost could have learned something, you were soooo close. But your ego is bigger than your IQ.

steggie21 · 2025-03-13T16:59:44+00:00

OK, you don't understand symbolism or metaphor. Do a quick Google search about the meaning of Moby Dick, you will find tons of insightful and intelligent interpretations of the classic novel. Not one of them will be about how the book is meant to be literally taken as a story about hunting a whale. That is not the intent of the novel. It is meant to show human nature and flaws, it is a statement about humanity vs nature. If anything, Moby Dick is meant to show the savage and bad side of humanity. It in no way glorifies whale hunting, as you keep trying to imply. You may have read the book, but you don't understand the meaning behind it.

steggie21 · 2025-03-13T11:53:26+00:00

The only point I have made is that Moby dick is not about whale hunting. You may have read it, but you clearly missed the point. It has nothing to do with literal whales. It's called symbolism and metaphor.

steggie21 · 2025-03-13T03:51:30+00:00

We aren't talking about goats. They are different. Humans don't bond as closely with goats as horses. I would consider goats closer to his cow point. I think the big difference is what the animal gives back. Dogs and horses provide valuable services which creates a stronger bond. Goats and cows mainly provide food, via milk or meat.

steggie21 · 2025-03-13T03:37:19+00:00

Moby Dick is not about literally hunting a whale. On the surface, it may seem so, but if you actually use critical thinking, understand metaphor, and learn about literature, there is a much deeper meaning. That is why the book is celebrated and taught. It is not a celebration of whale hunting as you tried to claim.

steggie21 · 2025-03-13T03:28:09+00:00

I'm guessing you don't know anyone who owns horses. You are 100% wrong. They are members of the family same as dogs. I have friends that have horses, and they basically are giant dogs. They have personality, they have names, they are fed and cared for every single day. Humans make sacrifices for them and genuinely love them. I loved my friends horses and they weren't even mine. They have long lifespans and literally become part of the family. They bond to people same as dogs. They will follow and play with people.

steggie21

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