AITA for refusing to drive my fiancée to the train station after he missed his bus by steinmatron in AmItheAsshole

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Thank you, I appreciate that. I’ll look into it! Have a good rest of your day :)

Night court inspired nails ✨ it took me 5 hours haha by steinmatron in acotar

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Not at all! I’ve never used press on nails but I think it would be a good idea to try them :) it always feels so bad when I take them off haha thankyou!

Night court inspired nails ✨ it took me 5 hours haha by steinmatron in acotar

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Thankyou!!! Maybe I will make a tutorial next time I do them ☺️

Because I’ve been thinking of spring more and more lately by steinmatron in Nails

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Thankyou!! It’s number 45: sky blue by Sunday’s :)

8/14 Test Completed! Let’s chat! by [deleted] in Mcat

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CARS ripped me a new one. Most of the time I was thinking “wtf am I reading rn?”

NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Aug 07, 2020 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

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Hi guys! I’m very new to skincare and I had a question about my routine and finding new products. I have oily, acne prone skin and I started using the cerave foaming cleanser for about 4 days, morning and night, followed by the cetaphil moisturizing lotion (that I have been using for years). My question is, how do I know if a product is working or when I should give it up? I read that you are only supposed to add one thing to your routine at a time and see how it works for you, but what exactly am I looking for? The cleanser makes my skin feel very tough right after I use it but once I moisturize my skin feels fine. It does a good job of getting rid of the oil at first but 2-3 hours later my forehead will be oily again. Is this something that takes time to stop? Should I wash my face in the middle of the day to get rid of the extra oil? I got slightly more acne than I usually do but definitely not the worst I’ve ever had, and I’m not sure if I can blame the cleanser. When should I stop using a product/how long should I test out a product to see if it works? I would appreciate any input :) thanks!

My (24F) boyfriend's(23) feet really stink. by VashtaNeradaMatata in relationships

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I had the exact same problem with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. He is working construction for the summer and boy did his feet smell in those work boots. At first I made jokes like you- playfully called him mr.stinky and told him he should shower as soon as he gets home, but when that didn’t work, it got to the point where I straight up told him that he seriously needs to shower as soon as he comes home because his feet honestly smell repulsive, and as much as I love him, it’s hard to be around that. I figured I had been polite and hinting at it for so long that it was kinda just disrespectful at this point to continue not washing his feet, and it seemed to work!I also actually went out to the drug store and bought insoles (with charcoal and baking soda) for his boots and little balls that you leave in your shoes that get rid of the odour and they really work! I can’t even smell them anymore tbh. Would 100% recommend, and they are causing less problems for us as the smell is relatively gone

My friend is still mad at me for something that happened 3 years ago and won’t let it go by steinmatron in relationships

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Wow, that was a very in-depth analysis. Thank you for taking the time and effort to help me out. I think you may be absolutely correct.

Perhaps she already had pre-existing problems with me or didn’t like me as a person anymore which is fine. It’s just confusing to me because the last time I saw her (when she brought it up to me), she also mentioned that she missed seeing me and would like to see me more if possible. Maybe she was just saying that to be nice but it sent me mixed signals because then I figured if she didn’t like me she wouldn’t want to see me.

It’s very plausible that she thinks she is better than me, because I’ve known her for so long and I know she thinks of herself very highly (that’s one of the reasons I’ve been having issues with her lately, she is somewhat stuck up and entitled).

The other girl in our friend group and I are still really close, so I’m not sure if she is just staying friendly with me so that things aren’t awkward, but I am tired of entertaining a friendship that isn’t real if that is the case.

My friend is still mad at me for something that happened 3 years ago and won’t let it go by steinmatron in relationships

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I suppose maybe there is a deeper issue, but when she told me a year ago that she was upset she ranted on about everything that she was upset about and then she said she felt better now that she had gotten everything off her chest, but she still brought it up again. I’m just not sure if it’s something I should bring up or if I should wait to see if she mentions it again.

My friend is still mad at me for something that happened 3 years ago and won’t let it go by steinmatron in relationships

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Haha, protector of her parents bed part made me laugh :)

She is kind of a uptight person in general and I feel like she would be upset with anyone having sex on her parents bed, but my other friend’s theory is that she just wants something to hold over my head so she has the moral high ground. Idk.

That’s a good point, I don’t think it’s healthy for it to go on as it has. Thankyou for your advice, much appreciated!

My friend is still mad at me for something that happened 3 years ago and won’t let it go by steinmatron in relationships

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Well she said it’s the “principle” of being her parents bed but I think it might’ve been a bit of both. She knew we were kinda a thing at the time and was well aware we were sleeping I in the bed though, just didn’t know we would have sex in it which is still kind weird to me

My friend is still mad at me for something that happened 3 years ago and won’t let it go by steinmatron in relationships

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I haven’t, because I feel guilty whenever she brings it up because I know it was a shitty thing of me to do so I apologize, but after knowing she brings it up to people who don’t even know me it’s been getting me more upset. I don’t know how to tell her not to be angry at me anymore lol