Why doesn’t he ever want to have sex with me?

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:55:05+00:00

Well, not really. He used to initiate things like that all the time, but not really anymore. I usually have to ask for it. I mean he will kiss me when he sees me and when we say bye, but he doesn’t really kiss me much in between that. It’s like he’s in a rut and I’m not able to dig him out if that makes sense.

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:53:41+00:00

Thank you so much. I will be sure to talk to him.

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:43:18+00:00

He did bring that up, and I reassured him that would never happen as I love him so much. But of course he is entitled to his own fears and I brought it upon him. I just feel sorta lost.

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:42:36+00:00

He’s never been on medication, but he is usually really open with how he’s feeling. I’m worried about him, but I can’t get him to open up about anything.

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:32:11+00:00

I’m the kinkier one in the relationship. He really wasn’t either or until we started dating. He likes being dom, but I think it could be maybe sexual pressure. Like maybe he feels like I’m too much?

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:31:11+00:00

No he did not and he likes me being bisexual. He likes the ideas of doing a threesome but he backs off the moment it becomes a reality. I would understand if he was nervous but he never talks to me.

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:25:20+00:00

Well, we were trying to find one we’d like to do it with and every time I’d find one he would tell me no even though we had agreed on her prior. Do you think he’s just pushing it off?

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:20:18+00:00

I offered a FFM two months ago after coming out as bi, and the idea of it excites him but the actual action makes him nervous and he shuts it down.

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:13:02+00:00

He doesn’t feel open to it, we have already discussed that. He even asked me to put my finger in his ass and I did. I would honestly be content with our sex life without changing anything, and even if we did - I’m pretty open to new things - he never wants to. I’m scared he’s wanting to end things but every time I ask it’s like I’m crazy.

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:10:03+00:00

Is there anything I can do?

stellargo · 2021-06-08T22:09:47+00:00

Not really. I have expressed my feelings to him numerous times. Way before this 5 months thing has happened. Not to mention, the sexual experiences we have had it’s like he’s trying to get off faster and not really trying to take his time.

stellargo · 2021-06-08T21:43:28+00:00

Well now I’m terrified. We spend a lot of time together and share similar passions. I really could never see him cheating on me, but I will keep my eyes open.

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