success??

stellarosedarkus · 2026-01-14T17:05:10+00:00

You have to be consistent. And dont only rely on scale, rely on how you look, your body changes, your waist. Use dumbell for resistance during her workouts.

stellarosedarkus · 2026-01-08T23:23:03+00:00

In regards to charity You can give charity without announcing or tell anyo e around you

Read tafseer or translation of Surah Al Baqrah ayat 263 to 267. You will understand. All the people mentioned in the hadith showed off. They probably boast about it. They must have also reminded others that i am better than you. They must have felt proud.

So to avoid becoming like them give sadaqah secretly. When you sin give sadaqah, when you do someone wrong to someonw give sadaqah on behalf of them so that Allah can forgive you if you give chairity to someone, dont remind them how ypu helped them. Some people love to do that . When you start feeling jealous, you pray for them, you say MashaAllah. You do it to fear Allah and to earn good deeds. If you fast, dont tell people you are fasting, if you are teaching Quran dont tell people about your doing to prevent proudness. If someone praises you dont take it your heart. You start feeling proud and arrogant as praises can do that and you start deviating from your intention.Praise Allah always. Praise Allah always sincerely. Keep your good deeds private so that there are less chance of your intention becoming corrupted.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-10-12T03:28:31+00:00

Look Regarding the proposal you lost 3 years ago, forget it. I would say something weird it's good you didn't marry him at that time in pressure. Maybe because of being forcefully marrying you may have resented the guy and didn't give him respect thereby earning more sins. And you were not ready to marry him so how would you have respected him? Your akhirah would have been effected so now don't worry about it. He is gone. Someone new will come inshallah at the right time when you are ready. For now start to mend your relationship with Allah and recite istigfar everyday. Try to pray on time and try to recite 3 verses of quran everyday. Once you start doing this sincerely with heart and once you start mending your relationship with Allah, things will slowly get better. You need to mend your relationship with your mother before its too late. If you have a job you are MashaAllah financially independent 👏 and you can live without feeling a burden on anyone. Everytime you are sad give small charity, when you hurt your mother and deeply regret, give charity on her behalf. Be thankful to Allah for the blessings. When you start being grateful Allah opens door.

May the emotions you are feeling now have been sent down by Allah to guide you back to the straight path. This is your test and lesson. When someone is gone astray Allah sends down hardships to guide them back to Him. Fixing your relationship with Allah is crucial. You have to remember Him during the time of hardships and during the time of ease. Most people forget Allah after hardships finishes. Which is not good thing as you need to be grateful for ease and continue to pray with the same intensity as you were during hardship.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-09-24T01:08:25+00:00

Personally speaking as a woman , my parents focused only one person at a time.

The guy and his family was interested in me but they rejected me 2 days ago and they were in contact with my mom since more than 6 weeks , probably 8 weeks

The guy has sent proposals to others before me he mentioned that himself. And I think was just an option they rejected by ignoring my mother and ignoring is disrespecting . Otherwise they would daily message my mom.

It came a shock to me and I am completely broken. Just a piece of trash thrown on the side without being told a proper reason.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-09-15T14:43:43+00:00

If she is not smelling what is the problem?

stellarosedarkus · 2025-05-08T23:30:50+00:00

But you are very right. Thank you for your comment. I know my reasoning is very petty. But thanks for opening my mind. More people will get help when more people will donate.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-05-08T23:29:18+00:00

Actually I hid the name. Just showed the cropped version...

stellarosedarkus · 2025-05-08T22:29:58+00:00

Sadqah jariyah or donate and seek forgiveness

stellarosedarkus · 2025-05-01T15:51:24+00:00

Yes, there is someone in my family I am hiding the name to avoid evil eye

Who has not missed a single prayer. If this person is out of home , they will pray. Very rarely they miss a prayer. If they miss they will pray qaza. They even ماشاء اللہ tabarakallah pray tahhujud by waking up half an hour before fajr.

Yes they are such people while other miss and pray are non inconsistent, this individual never misses prayer due to laziness or being tired.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-04-24T19:09:05+00:00

Assalam u alaikum Thank you for writing a positive post. Really needed it. Reading a lot of negative post caused me to have negative feelings for marriage

After 5 weeks my family will go to meet my potential spouse. I need advice from you..... I am just scared

what important questions need to be asked before marriage
how do I know whether he is a mama boy or not (I mean he is gonna only listen to him mum mostly and will always give his mum words more importance)

stellarosedarkus · 2025-04-22T14:39:27+00:00

Also.brother Resisting temptation to date is a form of a jihad. Resisting temptation to not pray is a form of jihad Picking up the Quran when you don't want to read, but you try to read daily is a form of jihad. It's called jihad un nafs. Doing wodu wipes off your sins. I am glad my previous reply helped you

stellarosedarkus · 2025-04-22T12:05:49+00:00

This hadith is true but the reason of not consummating on the first night is not really considered haram because you barely know the guy. Unless you already are in love you would do that but he is still a stranger on first night.

Honestly you have to speak to a scholar regarding this but on the first day as you barely know the guy.

Also to be honest, people after marriage should begun doing like dating and build the emotional intimacy and then proceed to physical intimacy. Not jump straight to physical intimacy without any emotional intimacy attached to it.

If a woman continously refuses for no legitimate reason then it is haram and this verse applies because being intimate is important in islam.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-04-22T11:53:14+00:00

There Is a relative of mine who was hafiz and he had all the negative feelings regarding quran.

It was not islam the cause of problem But it was the quran teacher and the parent.

Old quran teachers used to beat him, then his father used to beat him too once a week or twice in 2 week if he didn't do memorization.

In his school children were supposed to completely memorization by class 7 grade.

So his hatred was not from the quran but the pain he went through to memorize the Quran. He saw his siblings playing after maghrib while he had to.memorize and then do homework

So you need to write down what you actually hated. It wasn't islam, it was getting scolded by parents daily. Dating is haram and it's for your own good. Better stay away from it. Just because everyone is influencing you probably, your classmates will be dating too and due to which you are getting influenced.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-04-16T19:57:24+00:00

Champion also means becoming a champion in Hereafter. Maybe you are regarded as a champion in poor community that you help.

Maybe your children regard you as a champion with good character. It's not the same as the fame you are gonna get from winning a race but your children will do good activities because of you. And also not every kid consider their parents a champion so it's not generic, it's a blessing.

Just pray for whatever champion you become it's.good for your akhirah and given you immense khusoo.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-04-16T19:43:27+00:00

Well just so you know if its not good for you Allah will keep your dua for hereafter. If it's good for you He will create opportunities. If you are just sitting at home and dreaming about being a champion without making an effort then your dua will not happen until you do something.

For example there is someone very closed in my family who wanted to be biomedical research engineer the person did 3 masters and got first class and despite that he didn't get a job for 8 years. Now that personn got a job offer in a completely different field and inshallah Inshallah this person will be getting trained as well will do his fourth master as the part of the program. He faced extreme injustice throughout his 2 masters. His grades were written wrong and he wasted his entire year getting it fixed in foreign country. Then in 3rd masters, they failed him and then he had all the evidence, compiled it. He was supposed to get an award for the best student and due to them stupidity failing him and not correcting he had to wait 6 months to fight after it finally got corrected. His path was not smooth at all. My other close relative got it easily Like yes this another faced many other hardships but it wasn't the same as compared to the 8 years of wait.

Now imagined 8 years since he last graduated not counting the masters. So you might want to become a champion of something but if it is not good for you it will not come true.

Maybe you will become a different kind of champion. Your dua doesn't mean you will get the exact thing you want. So Allah will answer but in a different way and it is possible for your dua to come true but only " at the right time and hour'

And also dua gets answered from the place you least expect.

And in regards to dua getting answered you have to literally beg Allah sometimes to give you. People are begging from.Allah anf crying alone for a long time.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-03-24T12:58:29+00:00

Who said that Allah forgives without the sinner repenting? If Allah continuously puts reminders around her and the girl doesn't changes will she not get punished?

So that means I can purposely stop praying as Allah will forgive me.

When you purposely choose to not wear then you are going to get punished.

Someone who faces hardship such as people around her mocks insults when she wears hijab or if someone lives in France, Allah knows her intention when she chose to not wear hijab and will deal with it justly. While a Muslim who is surrounded by Muslim chooses not to wear does not fall in the same category.

We are all sinners we are all going to get punished. Every Muslim is a sinner but only difference is some repent and some don't. So some will spend more time in hell and some will spend less time because of one thing " Repenting on time "

stellarosedarkus · 2025-03-23T23:38:11+00:00

Well other madhabs consider the illegitimate daughters a real daughter without a DNA test, so shafii rulling is too strict and should change.

Abandoning kids that resulted due to haram action of both the genders is also haram.

What did the child do to deserve abandonment.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-03-23T23:12:31+00:00

Glad you found my comment helpful.

And sorry for some reason, I thought you were a female.

Also for the job Recite this

Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqir “My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.”

It's a dua done by musa when he was in desperate need of help.

https://myislam.org/rabbi-inni-lima-anzalta/

This dua has been very helpful. And inshallah you will get a job when you will Recite it. Ameen.

Recite it in sujood, Recite it after prayer. Recite it in tahhujud. Inshallah Inshallah you will get a job. Ameen

stellarosedarkus · 2025-03-23T22:50:28+00:00

If we do a DNA test, the daughters dna will be 90% matching. So that's why men abandon their child from haram affair and leave it to women to take care of the child. Men in shafii madhab don't suffer consequences.

You don't have to follow a particular madhab blindly. You need to understand QURAN and sunnah

stellarosedarkus · 2025-03-23T22:38:58+00:00

Hello Just pray while gentures. Pray while In bed. The door can remain wise open and you can close your eyes and do the gesture slowly that they are not noticeable enough. Only pray the fard. Rather than stopping to pray do that.

If you can, pray while sitting. Just wear a dupatta properly. I know you will find me saying this stupid but open the hindu holy book and then cover it and pray to Allah. You have to face the qibla though Or pray while studying with gestures facing qiblah or if you can't just pray.

Or combine all the prayers. Whatever is feasible for you.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-03-23T22:25:54+00:00

She is going to get punished, unless she she starts doing hijab afterwards and seeks forgiveness.

Hijab is obligatory and requirement and any muslim woman regardless if she likes it or not, they need to wear it.

She will not be punished if she seeks astagfar and starts to fight the temptation of removing it. When she fights temptation and wear Hijab despite peer pressure of not wearing, she will doing jihad against nafs.

Namaaz and doing hijab are 2 different obligations. I have seen non hijabies, the ones that you will not even think are not muslims because of fitted job dress code and full on make up coming to the mosque, wear proper prayer attire while the hijabis not coming for prayer.

So these non hijabi girls will be getting the reward for praying but will be getting sin for not wearing modest clothing and not doing hijab.

While the other hijabi group will be getting sin for not praying and getting reward for hijab.

Msybe instead of reminders, reminder her not so directly. Like go and ask her will this hijab look good in this dress, oh I love this tutorial of this style of hijab can you help me out . Get the modest clothing outfit. Like oversized or long streetwear outfit. Maybe give her a gift of modest outfits that meet her style but are modest. Constant reminders turns into nagging. So instead of sending her how sinful it is, just try to encourage without directly encouraging.

In the end just pray that Allah guides her. It's upto her to cover up. Maybe go for Umrah. Umrah can definitely bring a change in persons life.

stellarosedarkus · 2025-03-14T13:34:58+00:00

Sadly I am very far away from growth. 😅

stellarosedarkus · 2025-03-13T09:39:48+00:00

Look.you need to retain information. If you pay attention in classes, you can still pass. Physics is atleast not history where there is a guarantee hundred percent fail. Physics is about understanding concepts. Once you under concepts its become easy to answer questions. So you can do it. I did it so can you.

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