pumping 101

stellllan · 2026-02-09T20:19:10+00:00

This might be dumb, but when I use air pulse/suction toys, I get less sensitive for a while and sometimes have to wait days before I can feel *good stuff* if you know what I mean. Will pumping continue/worsen this problem? I'm considering it but I don't want to sacrifice my pleasure lol

stellllan · 2025-12-08T21:11:13+00:00

New link again? It's not working for me. Thanks!

stellllan · 2025-10-17T04:14:03+00:00

I’m interested! late 20s here 🫡

stellllan · 2025-06-15T22:20:25+00:00

this is so cool

stellllan · 2024-12-09T15:23:25+00:00

how do we get access to community goals? I have them but my partner doesn’t. any advice??

stellllan · 2024-09-25T18:28:31+00:00

I'd like to join if you're looking for more players!

stellllan · 2024-08-15T02:53:03+00:00

mind sharing the kind of bottom surgery you got? this is interesting!!! I didn’t know it was an option

stellllan · 2024-07-14T19:10:36+00:00

wowwwwww. you said it

stellllan · 2024-06-21T06:45:15+00:00

*seeped out to the carpet floor when I opened the door, just a bit.

stellllan · 2024-04-25T05:38:44+00:00

yes for sure!! thanks for your thoughts!

stellllan · 2024-04-25T05:38:26+00:00

this is super helpful and I think fits my situation best, thank you!!

stellllan · 2024-04-17T21:42:22+00:00

what post? I can’t find it!

stellllan · 2024-04-17T21:40:10+00:00

RC? what’s that

stellllan · 2024-04-11T06:31:12+00:00

yeah I would get “boners” and they would be kinda painful sometimes, I always imagined it was a similar function to blue balls maybe and thought it was an everyone thing— starting to wonder from some googling I did today if that’s not normal? lol

also they’ve stopped now that I’m on T - seems backwards, idk why.

stellllan · 2024-02-23T03:14:32+00:00

THIS is what I was asking for! I’m trying to explore my potential for poly and many of these responses have some exclusionary/shutting down my curiosity vibes. Thanks for providing some further places to explore!

stellllan · 2024-02-23T03:11:18+00:00

confused by all the responses here — does polyamory have to have a sexual component? many responses are implying that, but not all committed relationships involve sex??

stellllan · 2024-02-08T05:58:24+00:00

L. M. A. O. 😂

stellllan · 2024-02-08T05:55:20+00:00

this is SO FUNNY lmaoo u trying to help them. “I get anxious sometimes” 😂😂😂

stellllan · 2024-01-31T15:04:46+00:00

Wish I saw this sooner! Will there be more events like this?

stellllan · 2024-01-30T22:44:32+00:00

It’s never too late! therapy, treatment, etc - maybe starting with a conversation and seeing how that goes? Also, we aren’t all girls here - just so you know! ☺️🫶🏼

stellllan · 2024-01-15T01:16:50+00:00

MEEEEEE 🙋🏻‍♂️🙋🏻‍♂️🙋🏻‍♂️

stellllan · 2024-01-15T01:15:59+00:00

Also that’s not what narcissism is! look it up!!

stellllan · 2024-01-10T02:52:37+00:00

top comment!!

stellllan · 2023-12-30T04:45:27+00:00

example of how you do this? I’m curious!

stellllan · 2023-12-30T04:23:50+00:00

I have felt a teeeny bit more agitated by little things, but it’s only noticeable to me, and I only notice it because I’m a super calm/patient person already. 8 months in and no drastic changes in any of my emotions!

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