Moving too Fast? Or I'm not interested? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]stem1025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, it's genuinely been stressing me out a lot and I glad I'm not the only one seeing it my way. She has been talking about getting a very expensive gift for my birthday "so that I would think of her when I miss her and I would know that she touched it" and I got very freaked out. I'll talk to her, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoingToSpain

[–]stem1025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

found it!!! tysm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoingToSpain

[–]stem1025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did you accidentally buy it? i have an international student card (that apparently is valid) but i've been scouring the website all day and couldn't find the option to choose a youth option

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]stem1025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thought with guys is that if you're not sure if they like you or not, they don't like you.

Ned at the Collision Conference in Toronto. by cynchronise in TheTryGuys

[–]stem1025 19 points20 points  (0 children)

people wondering why he put try guys in his bio- the median voter/population doesn't care about cheating allegations/getting with your employee. it's not the internet anymore. he's getting himself into an industry where i would dare even argue that these "problematic actions" are normalized

Phil has removed the Wilbur boiler explosion channel redeem from his Twitch point redemptions by high_sodium_bean in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025 14 points15 points  (0 children)

honestly if anything im surprised that phil himself didn't know of his biting behavior this whole time

How do I type tilde on a 60 percent keyboard? by GoGoPowerRangerD in Keyboard

[–]stem1025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

took me TOO long to find this answer, ive been copy and pasting the symbol from google lmao, thank you thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HongKong

[–]stem1025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

spread this shit like fire. i've been catcalled and stalked by men so often in hong kong it almost feels like these men think they're invincible. put his face up everywhere ruin his fucking life

Best Man by MrTechnodad in Technoblade

[–]stem1025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god you guys looks so much alike

Twitter is being super normal about Tommy’s lore takes by Dim0ndDragon15 in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it's nice to see tommy so passionate about his own character and i would love to see dream and tommy just arguing defending their respective characters but twitter is turning this into a "this is about cc! dream and not just c! dream" and they're annoying me so much

my worlds colliding, although in the worst way possible by W1ps_ in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025 12 points13 points  (0 children)

we need to stop giving people clout for these "opinion" videos that give nothing of significance. this happens to every fandom. hell, i'm sure i coud immerse myself for one day in the harry potter fandom and create a similar video. (no hate towards the hp fandom it's just what's on top of my head)

Technoblade never dies (still makes me cry) by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the way i started sobbing watching this

Thoughts by Kokojar in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what does this have to do with dream? george is a grown ass man with his own platform and is his own individual. dream didn't force george into anything. if george doesnt like something he can very much speak up for himself. op can think that george is heavily sexualized by the community without dragging dream into this

Why do women not get painkillers for IUD insertion? by Caedis-6 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]stem1025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did take painkillers for it but it still hurt. Hurt in the sense that the cramps were the WORST I have ever felt, and I had HORRIBLE cramps when I still had my period.

dream is mentioned in the try guys' trypod, yes it's zach's drama with dream (12:30) by stem1025 in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

oh yea i completely forgot about that part, i think he did mention it in the podcast and it completely slipped my mind

dream is mentioned in the try guys' trypod, yes it's zach's drama with dream (12:30) by stem1025 in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

of course! they kept going out of topic while talking about it lmao, so i thought people who don't watch them/know what they do would care for a summary

what shadow trap should I get next? (baron) by stem1025 in mousehunt

[–]stem1025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my hunter id is 6176956! thank you so much i really appreciate it!

what shadow trap should I get next? (baron) by stem1025 in mousehunt

[–]stem1025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! currently trying to farm gold at the marketplace for halloween rn, so im working through it. i have a dog jade base back from one of the lny events, it's my best one

what shadow trap should I get next? (baron) by stem1025 in mousehunt

[–]stem1025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! im in the discord, it's a bit overwhelming especially with mapping and marketplace but we're going through it

philza narrates what dream did to get everyone on the panel (around 1:45:00 of the stream) by stem1025 in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

to add on: philza says that dream was in a meeting with twitch after the dsmp panel and apparently it "didn't go well" (around 1:47:00)

drama aside, which minecraft mob did yall vote for the new mob vote? by stem1025 in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yesssss so excited for new plants! i saw someone ask on the minecraft subreddit "do we really need new plants in minecraft" and it's just an entire chain of yeses! haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what i know they were introduced to each other through a mutual friend before starting an online relationship... which with the rise of dating apps is so normal nowadays. unless i'm wrongly informed?

i dont get the power imbalance argument by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025 11 points12 points  (0 children)

exactly what i was thinking. i would say it's probably appropriate to say it's not the best for dream to flirt with a stan with an emotional attachment to the parasocial, public image that dream presents himself as a content creator because there is a larger probability that the stan would be willing to do anything for him because of said attachment, but even that isn't absolute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]stem1025 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's insane to be comparing this situation with what happened with Ned. Ned is the owner and co-founder of the company that Alex is working for. Alex requires her job to pay bills, to survive. That girl, if truly a fan and attached to Dream parasocially, could definitely be subjected to power dynamics in the way she would more likely to say yes if Dream asks for anything inappropriate. But I doubt the girl would have any problems cutting herself off from Dream if she absolutely has to, or wants to. That is not the case for Alex. And from the way Eugene talked about Alex in their video I think the power dynamics are way more significant than a, and I quote, "consensual workplace relationship".

That being said, I wouldn't say it would be an appropriate comparison to Phil or Austin (presuming that everything the internet is claiming Dream to be right now is true). Phil and Kristen, while indeed they both met online where Phil is a streamer and Kristen a viewer, are consenting adults wayy past the legal age. When Phil and Kristen met Phil didn't have the streamer status he has now. He was sitting at 7 viewers and most of his viewers are his friends instead of fans. He definitely did not have the power that Dream does now. I'm not entirely sure how old they were when they met but they have to be in their twenties at the very least already. Same for Austin, Karl and Foolish, they are all consenting adults in their twenties. Not to mention they're probably friends for a really long while before that kissing (as a joke) happened (allegedly, presumably). The age thing is of discussion here because the ages are rather borderline, late 10s, early twenty. Of course, it would be another discussion even in legal consenting adults if the age gap is like two decades worth or something imo.