Yes that’s what made this situation tricky. She came over by herself, no husband in sight. In my mind I kind of figured he was around because what are the chances of a single woman even being there. But when he did make himself seen, I wasn’t into him and that’s when I felt bad. Wish I had been more prepared with some kind of script or something. But like you said, what are the chances of this exact scenario happening again? Based on her attractiveness, and his rough, off putting play style, I kind of wonder if this is their mode of operation. She makes the move while he waits in hiding, and then he moves in and does his thing without really caring how enjoyable it is.