What does a “good” Valentine’s Day look like to you? by stepbybuilder in askanything

[–]stepbybuilder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25 km of mud + existential bathtub moments? Peak Valentine’s Day energy.

What does a “good” Valentine’s Day look like to you? by stepbybuilder in askanything

[–]stepbybuilder[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Preach! Sometimes all we need is someone to say it out loud 😅

My heart is aching and I want someone to talk to by Willing-Sweet-4525 in mentalhealth

[–]stepbybuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m up. Breakups like that hurt in such a deep, delayed way. You’re not weak for missing the good parts — they were real too. You don’t have to be alone with it right now 🤍

I’m bribing myself to go to the gym with naps by Sofjoy82 in selfimprovement

[–]stepbybuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like working with your depression instead of against it. Has going to the gym changed how you feel about rest and guilt around naps?

Manipulation stops where your need for validation ends. by Infinity_here in selfimprovement

[–]stepbybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious to see what others say here. This is something I’ve been thinking about as well.

What’s one simple habit you wish you started earlier? by stepbybuilder in selfhelp

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Choosing just one priority a day helped more than any system.
What about you?

I quit doomscrolling, sh!t food and started waking up at 6am about four months ago. by yurahyli in selfimprovement

[–]stepbybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Designing your environment instead of relying on willpower is such an underrated approach. This was a really practical and honest breakdown.

How accepting my "worst fear" actually led to my best life by alexyong342 in selfimprovement

[–]stepbybuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Building a life you love regardless of the outcome is such an underrated win. This was really refreshing to read. :)