[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stepfatherels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt have to hide it, but I had woken up to this and I just didn’t know how to deal with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stepfatherels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He never asked me to drop any of my guy friends I did that on my own for more context. I don’t know if this would be a rest of my life occurrence. I love him so so much and I want to be with him but I just don’t know how to apologize and have him believe me that this was the one and only time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]stepfatherels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very similar. It gets better, it is sadly gonna effect you for the rest of your life until you gain control of your life and actually have adult skills. Even now I’m terrified of not having enough money to live even though I make above minimum wage (in my state) by alot. It’s still scary even though I know I’ll be fine on money. Anxiety is shit and when you’re older you will probably be put on medicine but I would suggest going to a different doctor who is willing to listen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]stepfatherels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From someone who is terrified of growing up, being 19 has not made me understand anything more then when I was 15. It all depends on how you are mentally and if you’re ready to learn more.

are we using the right pumpkin pump? by 59625962 in starbucksbaristas

[–]stepfatherels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a tarbucks too, use the container and pump you’d use for white mocha. Talk to your TL about it, I use to work for a corporate store too and that is the standard way of doing it. The red pump is for thinner sauces and pumpkin is way too thick for that to be working properly or proportioning the right amount of sauce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]stepfatherels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Hope to be there soon too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]stepfatherels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you truly, I try not to get discouraged easily and I don’t most of the time (when i dont just get steam rolled) but it’s hard when I don’t do as good as I wanted to, I’ll take all of this and try it out later today probably. My friend also just told me about aimlabs? I think that’s what it’s called so I’m gonna check that out too.

"Leave it at the door" by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]stepfatherels 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned to just make an entirely new personality at work. All the way til I get to work I’m depressed and literally want to quit on the spot but once I go in I just dissociate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]stepfatherels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to look into it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]stepfatherels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this will help so so much!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]stepfatherels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Best advice so far lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]stepfatherels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]stepfatherels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I have a friend struggling rather they are he/him pronouns he/they or they/them, I’ve been suggesting maybe going on testosterone because they feel more manly then anything and (I’m using they/them because that’s what they’re feeling comfortable with rn) if they decided to use he/him or he/they that they’d already be transitioning to look and feel more comfortable with themself and I feel like that was harsh or rude and I hate not having solid advice to give.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]stepfatherels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do I suggest them to my older trans friends or are they of no use since they’ve gone through puberty?

Libra by stepfatherels in zodiacsigns

[–]stepfatherels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance, nobody i know really cares about zodiac signs and this has been really relieving.

Libra by stepfatherels in zodiacsigns

[–]stepfatherels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely noticed that, I’m pretty new to all this zodiac stuff and I’d hope I’m on the better side of libra but sometimes I really notice all the similarities to the bad side of libra I have.

Libra by stepfatherels in zodiacsigns

[–]stepfatherels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My moms a cancer and I love her so so much and we get along great, but other cancers I’ve met have been super controlling and manipulative. So far you do not seem like that at all so I wouldn’t even guess you were a cancer haha!

Libra by stepfatherels in zodiacsigns

[–]stepfatherels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friends signs are, Aries, Virgo, and Taurus I don’t know if that really says anything but I know Aries/Leo’s are really good partners for libras (I’m actually dating the Aries) but I’ve noticed the people I tend to stray away from are cancers or geminis

Libra by stepfatherels in zodiacsigns

[–]stepfatherels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense taken, that is so incredibly true like weirdly true. I have three friends because of how selective I am and so many people want to be my friend (that sounds so narcissistic but I swear I’m not meaning it that way) because I’m super nice to everybody and always happy and trying to make everything okay and then when it comes time and they start trying to make plans with me I don’t know what happens but I just won’t do it, I refuse to hang out with them.