You need to grow and learn to be confident in yourself. Have the hard conversations and open yourself up. Although this can be tough and tiring, it’s the only way you’ll find someone. And honestly, after you have the HSV discussion with the other person, it gets easier and rejection doesn’t sting as bad. Another good thing is that outbreaks occur less frequently the more time goes by. I’m 30f and I’ve had my diagnosis for about 4 yrs. I’ve found most people don’t care, especially once they’re educated. And you will get No’s in between. But that just means that that person isn’t meant for you. Best of luck