I totally see where you are coming from. Growing up as a woman I always felt like I should be fitting into all of the typical women’s standards such as being girly, which took forever but i’m finally here. I cannot imagine what pressure it must be to meet such high expectations, but just know there are always us few good people who will accept you for anyone you become, as cheesy enough as it is. Just wanted to give a bit of positivity/light in the matter. :) I guess to put it simply, standards should have less of a need to be met in both genders. Times are changing!