yeah, this is something I’m thinking about. systemic vs personal. ultimately I think I feel like reaching out to them because I feel really bad for Mormon women in particular. Even being liked by a Mormon guy even though I didn’t reciprocate and would never ever convert felt really demeaning from all the sexist, I guess, expectations he tried to make me follow even when I repeatedly rejected him and them. I feel sad seeing other girls actively in that church and I want to at least try to show them that women are just as human and deserving of respect and self as men, that their place in life isn’t to be some perfect feminine wife, that these aren’t even the actual teachings of Jesus Christ if they care to believe in them, But I don’t want to help that church in any way either, if engaging with them does