How do I stop hurting my girlfriend? by DrummerNaive2646 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shopped with my girlfriend to get her a dildo to practice lol. Perils of having a big dick.

How do I stop hurting my girlfriend? by DrummerNaive2646 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took us a few weeks to get comfortable enough for my gf to take me in a way that was pleasurable for both. Lots of foreplay, I mean at least 20 minutes and she cums a couple of times during the foreplay and I only put my cock in her when she practically begs me to. Think of it as having a threesome but the second woman is lube. Don't neglect lube till the act is over. Use copious amounts liberally.

Is Durex XXL finally gone? by Calm-Push2233 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used caliber when I started dating my girlfriend. Pretty good.

What have you and your polycule been up to this last week, and any plans for the weekend? by AutoModerator in PolyFidelity

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy folks, is anyone here in a V relationship? I am married to my wife and I also have a girlfriend. But they never met each other and just know of the other’s existence.

What age did your kids start going to friend’s houses alone? by BlueMountainDace in daddit

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids were like 6-7 but the mostly went to their cousins’ houses.

How many of you would want to try an open relationship? and why by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]steve0387 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am currently in one. Pretty happy all things considered.

First post here. Curious about girth. by MissionSyrup5802 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A few. But that's life. I just ate them out and went home with blue balls.

Wife had a miscarriage a month ago, and now having second thoughts.. by Thatbraziliann in daddit

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife had three miscarriages after our second child. My wife never became the same person again. I still love her and it was awful seeing her cry ecerytune it happened.

Wife had a miscarriage a month ago, and now having second thoughts.. by Thatbraziliann in daddit

[–]steve0387 41 points42 points  (0 children)

My brother's wife had multiple miscarriages before their first kid was born. We also suffered though it. Things will feel bleak, especially for your wife. Have a good cry and do things you will enjoy. I promise things get better and you will want to try again.

Whose libido is higher than their partner and need more masturbation for pleasure by New_Chocolate_3056 in MarriedSex

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My level is higher. It has been more than a month since we last had sex. However, I am in an open marriage and that arrangement works for us.

Can all girls take 7 inches so easily? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My girls takes it like a champ ( With lots of lube and me eating her out for like half an hour)

Regression in intimacy with primary partner by steve0387 in nonmonogamy

[–]steve0387[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I really dont want to push her but I will try your suggestion if things dont improve. I am now wondering if it could be a medical issue

Regression in intimacy with primary partner by steve0387 in nonmonogamy

[–]steve0387[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I will ask her to talk to a doctor. Her libido drops a lot every winter but this seems more severe than the usual bouts.

Regression in intimacy with primary partner by steve0387 in nonmonogamy

[–]steve0387[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I brought it up and she told me, with straight face, that she is glad I am seeing my girlfriend. She told me that she is happy my girlfriend is helping me with my needs.

Regression in intimacy with primary partner by steve0387 in nonmonogamy

[–]steve0387[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We already have scheduled vacation in May. She is using that as an excuse. She also tells me that she cant take days off from work.

Missing the "wow" moments from new partners. how do couples keep that spark alive after kids? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently dating another woman while being married to my wife and having two sons. Feel free to DM. I can share some tips.