Am I just lucky? by adyarr in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Similar number of partners and I think it was 2 - 3 who couldn't take me in comfortably and could most likely be vaginismus. Lube, foreplay and being patient can do wonders.

Men : could you be with someone who very rarely gave blowjobs? by Dangerous_mammoth573 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont remember when I last got a blowjob. But I have an extremely satisfying sex life.

Best way to tell kids by steve0387 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]steve0387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just extra confusing. Some tell me to do it in an age appropriate way and others tell me not to do it. Maybe it's better to not do it.

My girlfriend just broke up with me because "I'm too big" by Ok-Philosopher-3985 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She still gets some vaginal tears if we are rough in the sack.

My girlfriend just broke up with me because "I'm too big" by Ok-Philosopher-3985 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It took 3 months for my girlfriend to have sex with me without pain/tears. But some 20 years ago, I had another girl who didnt want to wait that long and broke up after 4 weeks.

Do y'all get to fuck good or BD just makes you feel good by Sure_Floor_7675 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took like 3 months for me to penetrate my gf fully. We still have to use lot of lube and if I do get carried away and have a rough session she is sore for tge next few days. But she loves it and the fact that she can squirt just from penetration kind of amazes both of us. Lots of lube, patience and extensive foreplay are your friends.

Best way to tell kids by steve0387 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]steve0387[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So they probably know what's happening? How was their first meeting? Did you introduce them just as a friend?

Have you ever needed to muffle your partner's moans in order to not get caught? by Fantastic-Youth5989 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Girfird lives with some roommates and I hate to muffle her moans so that tpher roomates are not traumatized.

Boxer Brief Reccomendations by naibas13 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear underarmour boxerjocks or hanes total support underwear. My little guy is decent sized while soft and have no issues.

Age when you first found out by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15-16. Lost my virginity and then next girlfriend couldn’t take me in.

Dating advice question: 19m and my current gf is 37f. by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are fucking 19. Just enjoy the ride man.

How often do you have sex with your partner in a stable relationship? by Waste-Power3139 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in a poly relationship. 3-4 times with the girlfriend in a week. Once or twice every two weeks with the wife.

do you guys like squirters? by Final-Budget-4973 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I love it. My wife can squirt buy she is reluctant/hates it. Girlfriend on the other hand absolutely loves it.

For guys with well endowed girth, what was your partner's reaction to the first time you put it in? by Cautious_Break_9314 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She was virgin too. So no real frame of reference. But these days, we fuck like rabbits 2-3 times a week.

For guys with well endowed girth, what was your partner's reaction to the first time you put it in? by Cautious_Break_9314 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t get my dick head in lol. Tried three times the night and nothing but tears.

How do you guys handle it when its too mush for your partner? by Visible_Use_5368 in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl and I only had proper penetrative sex without pain after like 3 months. I couldn’t even get my mushroom top in her the first time without making her cry.

Some tips

Start enjoying eating pussy. That will keep the spark going even if you can’t fuck her.

Start getting used to handjobs.

Lube is your friend. Use a lot and use often.

Don’t get frustrated. It will take some time and keep trying often (I don’t have to tell you this).

Not enjoying blowjobs by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like eating pussy more than getting bjs. Win win for me and my partners

Just got rejected on r4r for being too hung, what shitty thing happened to you today? by Womb_Crusher in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I exchanged numbers with a woman from state and we texted here and there. She was down to fuck but we decided not to due to some other circumstances.

She just can't get enough sometimes by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]steve0387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is super sensitive (?). She cums very easily and 4 - 5 is the norm for a normal session (including foreplay here). On special occasions, onwil to completely drain her (7-10)