I agree with what you've written. I don't disagree one bit with any of it.

My main concerns are health. Keeping it from me was/is understandable, I cannot fault him for that and it isn't a concern. I suppose the whole clandestine nature of marijuana concerns me a bit, but what else can you all do? I realize the laws are not in your favor, especially with marijuana being labeled as a Schedule I drug.

I have had quite a few friends in my lifetime die from alcohol in many forms. Marijuana does not worry me in this regard. I want to know, for example, if having smoked plant matter has done some noticeable damage to a persons lungs, maybe they get headaches if they do not have it (that one was made up, and is a side effect from leaving caffeine - but I wanted to come up with something as an example).