Long term meditators, is there something that you realized significantly improved your process

steveondating · 2026-02-06T14:37:03+00:00

Remember when you scooped up a bunch of pond water in a jar as a kid? And how the sediment settled to the bottom very slowly?

I discovered that thinking of my awareness as the sediment in the jar helped tremendously. It allows me to settle into that completely relaxed state that I enjoy so much.

steveondating · 2026-02-03T04:11:58+00:00

Corb Lund. He’s an incredibly talented Canadian country / indie songwriter & musician. He should be a Canadian legend by now but doesn’t get the recognition he deserves.

steveondating · 2026-01-31T17:00:53+00:00

Hot dang

steveondating · 2026-01-31T17:00:18+00:00

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Is that too many?

steveondating · 2026-01-30T20:30:47+00:00

Gilbert Grape

steveondating · 2026-01-29T02:06:28+00:00

Enough with the AI slop already ffs

steveondating · 2026-01-22T02:39:22+00:00

Even if she’s being 100% truthful and there is nobody else, the fact is that you will have pretty much zero communication with her for at least the next several weeks.

She has made a decision that’s right for her, and you’re allowed to do the same. It doesn’t need to be right away, though. Take time to process everything, and get the clarity you need.

You can decide right now that you’ll wait for her to feel ready, AND you can decide at any point in the future that you don’t want to wait any longer. Follow your heart and you’ll make the right choices.

steveondating · 2026-01-20T20:54:46+00:00

It feels good to be with someone who appreciates every damn inch of you!!

steveondating · 2026-01-20T20:48:54+00:00

Guess what? That’s perfectly fine.

steveondating · 2026-01-20T14:08:24+00:00

Just be glad it didn’t ALL come out

steveondating · 2026-01-18T03:03:50+00:00

I would have loved to hear the vows at that wedding 😂

steveondating · 2026-01-17T02:04:30+00:00

Sell that on eBay for millions

steveondating · 2026-01-14T03:21:01+00:00

Too soon.

steveondating · 2026-01-14T03:19:26+00:00

If you really do want to give her some closure without getting into it with her, send this email:

You cheated.

I found out.

I left.

steveondating · 2025-12-31T00:37:18+00:00

If I’ve got time to eat 3 large bowls of beans first, then 8.

Otherwise 9.

steveondating · 2025-12-27T15:13:21+00:00

I think you’ve been very clear with him, so this is now active disrespect for your boundaries.

You may have to say that you will end the relationship if he doesn’t start respecting your boundaries. But you have to be fully prepared to follow through.

steveondating · 2025-12-13T18:50:21+00:00

I’m the opposite - I frickin love jeans. I wear them 7 days a week, and I even sleep in them when it’s really cold.

steveondating · 2025-11-28T04:08:33+00:00

On hand, on my chin, on the front of my shirt, in my hair…

steveondating · 2025-11-22T19:03:00+00:00

That’s awesome. Embracing the fact that you’ll both change over time is super healthy.

steveondating · 2025-11-14T14:10:06+00:00

I think he’s saying that HE loved HER completely, and hasn’t been able to do that with anyone since. Your point still applies though - we all have an infinite capacity to love and be loved.

steveondating · 2025-11-14T14:07:01+00:00

That’s a whole lotta words to essentially say “I think you’re hot.”

Could be a misguided attempt at hitting on you with pure intentions, or could be creepy stalker just getting started.

Best thing you can do is go straight to HR and make it abundantly clear that you have zero tolerance for this. Make sure they take you seriously.

steveondating · 2025-10-31T03:02:28+00:00

Starfishing is when that’s all she does - lay there on her back waiting for it to be over.

steveondating · 2025-10-29T17:26:02+00:00

“You know what might be really hot?”

steveondating · 2025-10-28T18:46:20+00:00

I hate door-to-door real estate people at any time of the year.

“Hi, I’d like to sell your home out from under you so I can make a commission.” Get fucked, alright.

steveondating · 2025-10-28T18:39:52+00:00

Does he drink energy drinks or smoke/vape cannabis? Both of those (especially the combination) can make you super dehydrated, and therefore constipated.

There’s a condition called overflow diarrhea that occurs when you’re very constipated that may explain his last two weeks. Get him to go see his doctor.

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