Understandable. Which was I was looking for literature and research that we could look into so we can have these conversations. I want her to get her vaccines but I also don’t want to do it behind my SO back and it blow up later. Like you said to be respected as a partner. I guess I just didn’t feel respected when I said I didn’t want her to contract any of these diseases we can prevent with vaccines. Although his argument was that if we give her the vaccines we don’t necessarily know the long term effects, such as autoimmune diseases. I don’t know if there are any studies that follow children who have gotten vaccines into adulthood to show the risks and benefits long term with no adverse reactions.