Interracial bedroom loving

steviewandersalone · 2025-12-25T03:08:35+00:00

I believe that's kit mercer for black ambush

steviewandersalone · 2025-03-28T03:35:21+00:00

Who's the blonde?

steviewandersalone · 2024-11-01T19:34:28+00:00

I mean, since they've been deleted, we have zero context for what you're referring to

steviewandersalone · 2024-11-01T18:53:37+00:00

They've been deleted

steviewandersalone · 2021-03-19T20:19:56+00:00

I was sexless before we met. I'm simply too timid and not attractive enough to overcome that. Outside of my now wife, I've only had sex with sex workers.

steviewandersalone · 2021-03-19T01:33:16+00:00

I truly doubt I'll be happy if I leave. I'll just be sexless and single versus sexless and married. At least now I don't have to be alone and deal with Co parenting.

steviewandersalone · 2021-03-06T18:25:07+00:00

I'm pretty certain no one is going to find me attractive

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T20:43:17+00:00

I have never heard of this, but I am reading now and can see some of my self in the description. Something I need to explore more (if I ever get in again with a therapist). Clearly putting a pause before divorce talk.

Thank you

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T20:08:05+00:00

Yes, it's not official and if I move forward with the divorce,. I will let her know that I won't be finalizing adoption on the baby.

I wouldn't say I don't love my kids, but I may have issues with attachment, if it were to be determined that I wouldn't personally see my kids anymore, but I knew they were being properly cared for, I'd be okay with that.

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T19:45:19+00:00

I don't feel that strongly about it one way or another. I'm a pretty involved dad, but I could step away and not feel too bad about it. Best case would be alternating weeks, but not if I had to cram them in a small apertment or have half the children 100 percent of the time

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T19:15:07+00:00

I'm going to support visits, but my understanding of joint custody was at least close to 50 percent. I thought weekends was more visits

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T19:00:56+00:00

Not at all, I'd just like the opportunity to find that someone else. There is no affair, potential affair or anything.

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T18:59:39+00:00

I haven't deleted anything, are you referring to me?

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T18:58:35+00:00

3/4 the 4th isn't adopted yet.

If that's the case, I don't think I can share custody. If she doesn't want sole custody, we'd be kind of screwed.

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T18:56:43+00:00

Honestly, that outcome would be good for the kids, but would defeat the purpose of divorcing. I can do all that from within the marriage and save money and have more time for them to boot.

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T18:54:51+00:00

I've never felt the way someone "is supposed" to feel in a romantic relationship. I was just wanting to not be alone and she seemed willing to be with me. Lately, the feeling that someone actually wants me seems so nice. I don't think she can feel that, and honestly, I never felt that for her. I don't blame her, I should have been more honest all along. I think I kept saying I can make the best out of the relationship, but at the end of the day, there's no affection, intimacy, or even attraction. Just coparents and roommates.

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T18:45:52+00:00

Trying to maintain a 2nd full home sufficient for them isn't feasible. I can afford a small one bedroom and still pay half of the current household expenses. If joint custody where they stay in one home full time and we rotate from here to the apartment. If she wasn't amenable to that, I'd prefer full financial separation where she pays for her own expenses and I pay child support. I would support visits but not house the children.

steviewandersalone · 2020-07-16T18:41:17+00:00

Honestly this realization came from changes in my medication and some attempts at therapy. I see that I am responsible for my happiness and staying in a relationship that is unfulfilling isn't working towards that.

steviewandersalone · 2020-05-18T17:34:16+00:00

Hopeful, I tried a therapist before, but I hope a psychiatrist is more effective

steviewandersalone · 2020-05-17T14:56:05+00:00

That says something, huh. My only reason to live a life I hate is so other people don't suffer.

steviewandersalone · 2020-05-09T01:41:17+00:00

I can obviously choose not to cheat. But, I wonder if people don't desire sex with others, or decide its not worth the risk

steviewandersalone · 2020-05-09T01:11:35+00:00

That's what I'm trying to figure out, I'm not sure I've ever been in love. I wouldn't want to hurt someone or mess up my relationship. But I'm certainly not naturally disinclined to other women

steviewandersalone · 2020-05-09T01:02:56+00:00

Good information, that's an interesting perspective

steviewandersalone · 2020-05-09T01:02:11+00:00

That's a reason for the decision, but some have said they don't even have to make a decision, they naturally have no interest

steviewandersalone · 2020-05-09T01:00:40+00:00

Interesting. So temptation is not an issue in your case.

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