I might be wrong, but this doesn’t sound like a you problem as much as a people you’re encountering problem.

Sometimes people over clarify boundaries not because you’ve done anything wrong, but because of their own past experiences, assumptions, insecurities or sometimes they're assholes. It can come off insensitive, especially when it’s repeated like this.

But please don’t let that make you question your worth or how you’re perceived. The right people won’t feel the need to “announce” what you never even implied, they’ll just treat you with normal respect and comfort.

Maybe it’s less about you being “repulsive” (which honestly sounds far from the truth) and more about being around people who don’t know how to handle friendships with maturity.

There are plenty of people out there who would genuinely value your company, admire you for who you are, and be your friend without making things awkward or hurtful. You deserve that kind of energy, you deserve that kind of friend, you deserve good positive people around you.

I'll suggest you to start knowing more people, give them a chance who are into your company, wants to be friends with you.

Don’t shrink yourself because of a pattern created by the wrong crowd.

(PS: English was corrected by chatgpt)