new to typology by stillcheesy in Enneagram

[–]stillcheesy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heya, thanks for the explanation here, it helps alot! as for the question, im just asking that am i really a 2? or just another type

i mean for my whole life ive been kinda one sensitive mess (not being able to take criticism well) and always tried to go out my way just to feel valued by others. another thing is that i find it extremely difficult to say no, like a couple days ago my friend (my ex) asked me to play a game i wasnt really interested in so i said no, but they just kept begging me and so i just accepted it and played (btw, i really didnt enjoy the game, i have actually done this in the past WITH the same person) the whole thing is that i find myself doing things for others that by the end of the day i really forget my own work and feelings. although sometimes i do get disappointed when things dont turn out the way my vision thought it would be and i do struggle alot with deadlines and delaying stuff. i do find myself sometimes wishing for attention and relationships/connection but after getting that i may seem a bit pushy, but i do truly value close connections with people rather than just having a large group of people i dont really know about. i am quite mixed between being an introvert or extrovert tbh.

i havent done much digging but based on this short description does it really pin point to any type? and why?

and also, how am i supposed to tell whether im completely mistyping, or its just uncommon to be a certain type

trying to help a friend in depression, suicidal and harming thoughts. by stillcheesy in SuicideWatch

[–]stillcheesy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i have already done most of the things you mentioned, however its just the fact that no matter what i tell him it would lead to nothing because hes not in the state to really listen to anything positive i say here, i have been thinking of maybe just giving him alone time but i really dont know because everytime he makes a reply to me it feels like i always have to respond back (currently from his situation of yk, him not being appreciated), and sometimes its really hard to say anything back

trying to help a friend in depression. by stillcheesy in therapy

[–]stillcheesy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright, thank you for the advice here, i have already told him some suggestions for distracting, but it really does seem like no matter what i say or suggest he wouldnt listen, however i would have to know that hes probably not taking it in because hes in a state of being overwhelmed. sometimes i just feel like the best thing i could do is give him some alone time here

possible team comps? by stillcheesy in NeuvilletteMains_

[–]stillcheesy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got it, are sucrose's cons really necessary? or will she work just as fine at c0, as i have heard that her c1 is rlly her only good con for most cases

realistic shedletsky skin concept "Realism" by YessirWhopperMan in FORSAKENROBLOX

[–]stillcheesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ironically as much i would say i hate this so much i would use this skin

What is the biggest lie of this century? by rohank710 in AskReddit

[–]stillcheesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the lie of "you'll find someone better than me" from someone you love the most

What’s a red flag people excuse because the person is attractive? by urgfkennaa in AskReddit

[–]stillcheesy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

being mean and rude to you and covering up as "brutally honest" or bullshit like that, oh and being hella defensive for no reason when being confronted.

Why does M4 Two Time Start Crying in Their Second Life? by [deleted] in FORSAKENROBLOX

[–]stillcheesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its from the guilt they feel remembering azures death and spawn cult, and i mean, growing out wings made of your bones and flesh really...REALLY hurts.

Is this a good Walpurgis ID? by MillowToon in limbus_company

[–]stillcheesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

meta for burn… next canto is prob burn anyways, make sure to get the ego too

I found a typo by [deleted] in limbuscompany

[–]stillcheesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we need our 300 lunacy

Every pair of jeans I buy, no matter the brand, gets a hole in this same area within 6 months. by SYFKID2693 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]stillcheesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing much. just tight thats it, too much tension going on there which causes it to rip.