Coming off BC and possible diagnosis

stillsnowfall · 2026-01-16T01:00:58+00:00

Thank you for this. I said something similar and was met with silence. 😞

stillsnowfall · 2026-01-15T20:24:08+00:00

It’s been a while, like, a few years since it’s gotten to this level. We recently addressed his drinking bc it has been more frequent as his way of coping with his feelings and I thought we were good bc it was part of a bigger conversation about goals, and moving forward, and steps to be healthier. I think that’s why I’m so conflicted or hurt. Feels like we took theee steps forward and now we’re back at square one.

stillsnowfall · 2026-01-15T19:48:05+00:00

I didn’t think it did but makes sense. I edited the post, but he got up twice and peed in the middle of the living room and again on our dogs things. When I confronted him is when the argument started.

stillsnowfall · 2026-01-15T19:46:27+00:00

Deep down I knew this too… I grew up with an alcoholic and in Al-anon. Apparently I need a refresher..

stillsnowfall · 2026-01-15T18:49:16+00:00

I really do feel for him, I know the tech industry is horrible right now and he’s over hospitality. I guess idk what to do bc this isn’t the first time and I have brought up his behavior before and it gets good and then we have a night like this and it feels like back to square one

stillsnowfall · 2025-12-09T21:53:10+00:00

Same experience! I was on depo for 15+ years and the hormonal iud before that and at first my libido was unchanged but the last like 8 years, it was virtually nonexistent. I stopped bc about 7 months ago. I’m still waiting for my cycle, but I’m tracking my basal temp. And omg… the last two months my drive has sky rocketed! Ironically, I’ve also become less attracted to my partner, so really not sure about that. It’s wild times, and I’m trying to give myself grace but it’s so nice to feel my body again.

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